Recent content by holidayad_

The vast minority. I heard more excuses when I tried to plan a night out during the weekend. So I stop trying and decided to focus on weekdays.

Thursdays have always worked well for me. Weekends give off a different vibe for plates.

If she's nice to be around, yes. She's got the looks.

My perception, especially after reading the thread you recommended, is that when a girl wants you, it doesn't matter whether you're funny, playful, or serious. But it's interesting to realize that when you start teasing, she gives in and feels more at ease with you. Naturally, an attraction is...

I want to read your perceptions and, if possible, reports where teasing has been effective (or not) for you. I work with a girl (who has a boyfriend - to be on record) who sits next to me, and I've been teasing (nothing sexual ofc) her for a while. Although she's responding well, laughing, I...

I’m a bit of a nomad right now, so I don’t have my own place in my hometown at the moment. As I mentioned in my previous answer, I haven’t taken the next step because of work uncertainties—I might need to move again. If not, I’ll find a place. Until then, I can rent an Airbnb or a room for a...

The city I'm in now is car-centered. So I’m considering Uber or renting a car for ONS—for girls I've seen before and think might be up for it again. But even thinking about what @Doctor Doom said... renting a car and getting flaked on, which can happen, is just financial suicide. The reason...

I'm back in Brazil after a while living abroad. Since I sold my car before I left, I'm figuring out the logistics without one now. When I did have a car, it was easy: pick up the girl, go to a bar, then either the motel (or my place), and then drop her off at her place. I'm not the biggest...

Unfortunately, at times this game feels like a war. But it is what it is. That's a must.

One of the advantages of sending fewer messages in the early stages is that it reduces the chance of being disqualified by her. I do the same thing as BPH does. Text mainly for logistics. It's a great filter for women with high interest. Women with lukewarm interest will cancel the date or...

Bumble has always been my go-to app. The way it’s set up, there’s just more interest from women compared to apps like Tinder. If someone’s not really into it, they just let the 24-hour timer run out, and the match is gone. Honestly, I think this setup is kinda broken tho. A lot of women aren’t...

Interesting. It's the first time I've seen anyone talk about this type of scam in Brazil. I've heard reports of catfishing, but that happens worldwide. Which city were you in?

Terrible answer from her. If you want to double down and see what happens, just reply with “??”. If she is a funny girl, something interesting might happen. But I am being optimistic here…

That's a good question. Some women have told me they didn't approach me because they felt intimidated. And I think it might happen to other fellas as well. What I've seen some women do is create certain situations so that I initiate the contact or they do it themselves. In LTR, they probably...

Jesus Christ... WTF is that, bro. A bit much, isn't it?