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I’m a bit of a nomad right now, so I don’t have my own place in my hometown at the moment. As I mentioned in my previous answer, I haven’t taken the next step because of work uncertainties—I might need to move again. If not, I’ll find a place. Until then, I can rent an Airbnb or a room for a...

The city I'm in now is car-centered. So I’m considering Uber or renting a car for ONS—for girls I've seen before and think might be up for it again. But even thinking about what @Doctor Doom said... renting a car and getting flaked on, which can happen, is just financial suicide. The reason...

I'm back in Brazil after a while living abroad. Since I sold my car before I left, I'm figuring out the logistics without one now. When I did have a car, it was easy: pick up the girl, go to a bar, then either the motel (or my place), and then drop her off at her place. I'm not the biggest...

Unfortunately, at times this game feels like a war. But it is what it is. That's a must.

One of the advantages of sending fewer messages in the early stages is that it reduces the chance of being disqualified by her. I do the same thing as BPH does. Text mainly for logistics. It's a great filter for women with high interest. Women with lukewarm interest will cancel the date or...

Bumble has always been my go-to app. The way it’s set up, there’s just more interest from women compared to apps like Tinder. If someone’s not really into it, they just let the 24-hour timer run out, and the match is gone. Honestly, I think this setup is kinda broken tho. A lot of women aren’t...

Interesting. It's the first time I've seen anyone talk about this type of scam in Brazil. I've heard reports of catfishing, but that happens worldwide. Which city were you in?

Terrible answer from her. If you want to double down and see what happens, just reply with “??”. If she is a funny girl, something interesting might happen. But I am being optimistic here…

That's a good question. Some women have told me they didn't approach me because they felt intimidated. And I think it might happen to other fellas as well. What I've seen some women do is create certain situations so that I initiate the contact or they do it themselves. In LTR, they probably...

Jesus Christ... WTF is that, bro. A bit much, isn't it?

Agree. OLD is good for someone with no (or 1) plate. Other than that, you're diminishing your value as a man and showing potential women in your social circle that you're in the dry.

At least you approached them. Now you just have to refine the interaction. Keep going.

So, at first, she said she wanted a relationship, and then later told you she only wanted to be friends? There are two possibilities: 1) Sh!t test. 2) She was waiting for you to lead. You’ve already made your point. If she’s interested in a relationship, I wouldn’t be surprised if she...

I don't think that was the case. If it were, why would she need to say she wanted friendship? You were already having s*x, no strings attached.

Nothing to worry about. There are minimal benefits to being friends with a woman you've already banged. Next her.

Did you say what you truly meant, or did you say it because you were pissed off and now you regret it? If it's the first option, there's nothing to worry about. You did the right thing. Next.

I don’t play this game. Why would I be another guy with his DMs unread by a girl who thinks she’s Aphrodite? Haha. Not in this lifetime.

Yeah, I think so. Probably these chicks posted a story and then didn’t receive the validation they were looking for, so they deleted it. I have some on my Instagram that do it a lot.

Number 1 is ideal. Although I think that complimenting a woman puts her on a pedestal and gives her validation. Which can sometimes work against you. If I'm asking her out, that's implicitly clear. If she wasn't hot, I wouldn't be asking her out.

What you're not understanding is that if you continue with this “beta behavior”, you're in for a not-very pleasant surprise in a while. It's better to take action now than wait for it to happen, right?