Recent content by Dr_jitsu

All good my friend. And let us be absolutely clear: I am in no way judging you, In fact you are waaaay ahead of most men. I do not think you are an idiot whatsoever, in fact the opposite. You just need to make that transition from player to master. I think you have tremendous potential. You are...

Guys: Do NOT get married unless you are absolutely committed to being 100% faithful. Open women. Talk to women. Have women as friends. Dance with other women. But absolutely NO sexual contact. Ring up that body count. Triple digits. Spin plates...tons of them. Run a 3 woman rotation for years...

Ignore self_is_an_illusion. Seriously. Complete mental sinkhole that is stalking you and derailing your progress. I recommend blocking he/she/him/they/her (or whatever pronoun I am sure they use). You are so very far along the path to becoming successful. You have done a tremendous amount...

I have also found that 20 is the magic number. It gets easier after that. Also, your mindset must embrace failure. Think of every no as a step closer to a yes. Even once you get good, you will only actually open maybe 4 out of 10 women you approach. Out of those 4 you may only get 1 phone...

I can't answer everything in one post. Also, read my personal story in the post right above this one. What happened to me is I COMPLETELY changed my mindset. I basically snapped and decided I was going to do whatever it takes to become successful with women. It took a LOT of work and discipline...

Always, always deal with these questions using humor. I went through a nasty divorce at age 35. That is also when I got clean and sober (I was a bad alcoholic....drank 15 beers a day everyday). Have not had a drink in over 30 years. Smoked some pot at age 55 and dabbled but have been otherwise...

I'm off to the gym, brother. I will give your posts a look tomorrow. Remember the analogy I gave...you are like a natural athlete who has talent, you just need some coaching. You are opening when left and right, that is the most important core skill to have. Ultimately you will have enough women...

Exactly....but he is so far ahead of where many guys are today. Many cannot simply even start a conversation with a woman. That is really the core skill you need, once you have that everything else is a matter of simply making the correct choices/mindset. I had a guy I was coaching who could...

Ignore this person. Your candy bar analogy is not that far off.

Great post!

Hi BPH. First, I want to say that you are many steps ahead of most men, so please don't think that I am lecturing you or being condescending in any way. You are like a talented athlete who just needs more coaching. I have been a serious student of seduction for a long, long time. I started by...

You have lost this one brother...chalk it up. Maybe...just maybe if she saw you game other hot women, but I doubt it. However I have read your posts and you are much more knowledgeable than 95% of the guys out there. Look at it this way: This girl was gorgeous and had high enough interest in...

I want to add: BPH posts some great stuff and almost always knows his stuff, just this time he made some mistakes. I've even made a video based on one of his posts. I also see that you asked her (she did not ask you) Friday if she would be back Saturday....no, no, no. Let her wonder. You are a...

You make some great contributions, but with this girl you showed way too much attention too early on. Keep in mind my advice is for relationships (not quick lays) even if the relationship only lasts 6 weeks (and you have had tons of sex). I do, always, get sex by the third date. I would not have...

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