Recent content by aceventura74

UPDATE: To anyone that originally posted, figured I'd come back around and talk about the aftermath of the situation. Nothing happened at all. I just cut off all contact with her cold turkey. I didn't unfriend her on FB (didn't wanna come off as immature or anything), and that's that. Silence...

Lol. I was so worried she'd be upset I'm not texting/calling her. Last night her FB blew up with guys all writing over her wall, and she went and "liked" all of their old photos like she did to me. Bet she's texting them a couple thousand times this week too to hook'em in. Guess it wasn't that...

Got it nismo. Been reading all the suggested documents by all posters too, ready to start fresh!

Final Plan: Cancelled the gift order. Done with her. Had a heart-to-heart with my best friend (he's an active user on this website as well). She isn't worth me, nor the time or effort. And any more investment from me is just gonna result in me getting hurt. Thanks for all the...

yupp. I will. And I'll post the outcome on here too. Thanks for the advice mate, if I recall correctly, you posted on my first thread (along with several times on this one), I really do appreciate it!

Thanks for the analytical post. I actually double majored, one of which being philosophy (maybe that's why I'm currently unemployed :P). Your analysis of the situation makes sense, she rarily would want to be the "bad guy" and flat out say "no" and rather just give passive-signals through the...

Question 5: Why would someone (not necessarily Chrissy) just string a guy along? That's pretty cruel, and tbh, heart-breaking for a guy like me that's never had any relationship or girls interested in him in any form more than friendship. Like that's unbelievably cruel. I never thought someone...

Its time I start giving a fvck about myself and not others. Especially ones that aren't treating me nicely.

Wow you hit it spot on. Despite graduating at the top of my class, sometimes I guess its super easy to miss the most obvious details - thanks for outlining them above. Haha, the "I swear I'd think you had a vagina" part made me legit laugh out loud. I think I needed to hear this from you and...

Haha good response. Its just not the type of person I am, and I don't like leaving bad feelings/tension with anyone. Made it 23 years so far doing that, so I'd prefer to not start!

To all that replied: Great advice. I'm more set on starting to let go now. It might be the emotions talking, but we got into an argument tonight. And I'm sick of always saying sorry to her. Would be nice for her to at least acknowledge the situation unbiased or something instead of always...

Sometimes a lesson learned hard is a lesson learned well. While I can't say I hope for the same outcome you want, I do certainly plan on learning in general. I've come a long way since June when we first met (my friends in real life have commended me for that) !

For simplicity purposes let's call her Chrissy. Yes Chrissy is annoying and crazy. But one thought that's been lingering in my head was in August 1, when she did reject me, why did she start not only texting but calling me on the phone in September 1? That thought made me think her "family...

I appreciate the honesty and stuff in your post. I re-read it about 3 times, close the page, thought about it, and re-read it. I hate to say it, but I do agree with a lot of what you've said. I'm going to post an update comment below for you and everyone else (only in a separate post cause...

gonna tattoo that. Possibly the best advice I've heard in awhile. You're saying to go for the kiss when I see her next?