Mixed Signals Pt. 2

[aceventura74]

Lol. I was so worried she'd be upset I'm not texting/calling her. Last night her FB blew up with guys all writing over her wall, and she went and "liked" all of their old photos like she did to me. Bet she's texting them a couple thousand times this week too to hook'em in. Guess it wasn't that special when she did it to me, but its making letting go much easier seeing her just walk away easily, so there's no reason I can't.

 

[AttackFormation]

I was so worried she'd be upset I'm not texting/calling her.

Then you still haven't put your own mind in order.

Last night her FB blew up with guys all writing over her wall, and she went and "liked" all of their old photos like she did to me. Bet she's texting them a couple thousand times this week too to hook'em in. Guess it wasn't that special when she did it to me

At least you're catching on to the external signals.

its making letting go much easier seeing her just walk away easily, so there's no reason I can't.

Go get 'em.

 

[aceventura74]

UPDATE: To anyone that originally posted, figured I'd come back around and talk about the aftermath of the situation. Nothing happened at all. I just cut off all contact with her cold turkey. I didn't unfriend her on FB (didn't wanna come off as immature or anything), and that's that. Silence. No text, No call, not even saying hi/acknowledging each other when we randomly bumped into each other on campus.

I did hit her up the other day for closure purposes but then I stopped. What good is it gonna do me to have her admit "yes I was just stringing you along." She wasn't worth the time, energy, or mental effort. Glad the store took back the item I purchased for her birthday as a gift (I threw out the receipt).

Out of complete curiosity, why would she do this to me? Maybe I'm just naive, but I'd never hurt a fly let alone a person by leading them on thinking I have feelings for them/are interested in a relationship beyond friendship when I'm truly not. That's just cold-hearted if you ask me. I've seen it on TV shows and stuff, but never assumed I'd be a victim of it one day

 

[dustmuffin]

UPDATE: To anyone that originally posted, figured I'd come back around and talk about the aftermath of the situation. Nothing happened at all. I just cut off all contact with her cold turkey. I didn't unfriend her on FB (didn't wanna come off as immature or anything), and that's that. Silence. No text, No call, not even saying hi/acknowledging each other when we randomly bumped into each other on campus.

I did hit her up the other day for closure purposes but then I stopped. What good is it gonna do me to have her admit "yes I was just stringing you along." She wasn't worth the time, energy, or mental effort. Glad the store took back the item I purchased for her birthday as a gift (I threw out the receipt).

Out of complete curiosity, why would she do this to me? Maybe I'm just naive, but I'd never hurt a fly let alone a person by leading them on thinking I have feelings for them/are interested in a relationship beyond friendship when I'm truly not. That's just cold-hearted if you ask me. I've seen it on TV shows and stuff, but never assumed I'd be a victim of it one day

They do it for attention and validation. She cares about her feelings not yours.

 

[phillies]

They're evil. Its happened to me. They get off on hurting others.

This

 

[phillies]

UPDATE: To anyone that originally posted, figured I'd come back around and talk about the aftermath of the situation. Nothing happened at all. I just cut off all contact with her cold turkey. I didn't unfriend her on FB (didn't wanna come off as immature or anything), and that's that. Silence. No text, No call, not even saying hi/acknowledging each other when we randomly bumped into each other on campus.

I did hit her up the other day for closure purposes but then I stopped. What good is it gonna do me to have her admit "yes I was just stringing you along." She wasn't worth the time, energy, or mental effort. Glad the store took back the item I purchased for her birthday as a gift (I threw out the receipt).

Out of complete curiosity, why would she do this to me? Maybe I'm just naive, but I'd never hurt a fly let alone a person by leading them on thinking I have feelings for them/are interested in a relationship beyond friendship when I'm truly not. That's just cold-hearted if you ask me. I've seen it on TV shows and stuff, but never assumed I'd be a victim of it one day

Because she's selfish. The fact that you liked her so much made her feel good about herself, it made her feel valued. But she never cared about your feelings at all. Many women are like this.

The more men she can get to fall for her the better she feels. That's why she does it to as many guys as she can. But there is probably guys she has secks with also. Some she just uses for attention like she used you.