Let me explain it to you like you are 5 because so many people are confused.
Alright, imagine Greg and Bob are playing a game where the goal is to make friends and meet girls.
Greg works at a bar, where there are lots of fun people—cool guys and pretty girls—all around him every night. Because Greg is friendly and fun to be around, people invite him to parties, introduce him to new friends, and he gets lots of chances to meet girls. Plus, since he’s just washing dishes, he doesn’t have to worry about work rules or looking super professional. He can just have fun.
Bob, on the other hand, works in a quiet office with mostly older people or married women. He only has time to go out on weekends, and his job has strict rules, so he can’t just party whenever he wants. Since he doesn’t meet many new people at work, he has fewer chances to make connections.
Because Greg is around more fun and social people all the time, he has way more chances to meet girls than Bob, even though he’s just a dishwasher.
Does this make sense?
The Greg and Bob story makes a lot of sense. Men with more real world experiences have seen this happen.
Bob is a perfect description of most office worker males. I have worked for multiple companies in office based roles. The typical unmarried man working in an office will have mainly married women co-workers. The typical unmarried male office worker has limited opportunity to meet women.
A lot of unmarried male office workers end up as swipe app monkeys. This is the most common path for male office workers and has been for the last 10-13 years since swipe apps arrived.
Some of them might engage in nightlife. A smaller number will be daygame approachers. Some might get bailed out by a social circle or many seasons in a co-ed sports league.
Greg likely has better social skills because he meets more unmarried women at work and gets those party invites like you mentioned.
The suggestion that working as a dishwasher or line cook is "easy mode" for getting laid is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. No, working in the back of a restaurant will not get you laid. But it will make you extremely miserable. Those are some of the worst jobs that exist. Most people who work them are illegal migrants.
Line cooks get more pussie than the typical office worker.
In the Southwestern USA where I live, the majority of line cooks are Hispanic males who mainly interact with Hispanic females.
Hispanic females (often without college degrees) don't give a shiit about a Hispanic male and his money making status. Many of them work lower end jobs too. These men aren't judged as harshly on money as a part of their SMV.
White male office workers are often dealing with bougie White women. Bougie White women (White women with a bachelor's degree or higher working some white collar office job) are very judgmental, pursued heavily, pursued online, and have princess syndrome. They are going to consider a man's money/status more, though looks are still #1. Their demands will often be astronomical at all ages, and likely delusional after age 30 if they happen to still be on the market at this point in their lives.
The differences in the type of women that the line cook interacts with vs. the office worker is relevant.
Most blue collar workers are better at getting pussie than most white collar workers because they are more traditionally masculine and also deal with a different set of women who lack princess syndrome. Blue collar men and service sector workers like line cooks are more likely to meet women in real life, as compared to white collar males who tend to use tech methods of dating because they don't have good real life access to women and more of the women they deal with are bougie, princess syndrome women.
