spinster: "The only kind of men that date and marry women that are substantially younger than them are insecure men"

[MatureDJ]

 

[BaronOfHair]

I must concede, she has a point: I'm not secure in the notion of a broad who's in her 5th decade of life(or older), and who's got multiple divorces to her name, being nearly as enjoyable as a bubbly 20 year old likely is. I'm not secure in my conviction that the former WON'T turn out to be an embittered crone, who's idea of fun = Kvetching to everyone in ear shot over how mean the world has been to her

 

[Manofrefinedtastes]

I must concede, she has a point: I'm not secure in the notion of a broad who's in her 5th decade of life(or older), and who's got multiple divorces to her name, being nearly as enjoyable as a bubbly 20 year old likely is. I'm not secure in my conviction that the former WON'T turn out to be an embittered crone, who's idea of fun = Kvetching to everyone in ear shot over how mean the world has been to her

This. Let's be real, what male in his 50s would want a 20 year old woman??

 

[BaronOfHair]

This. Let's be real, what male in his 50s would want a 20 year old woman??

Other way around: I'm saying that very few are going to find a 50something baby mama, who's been piped out a few million times, remotely desirable. Indirectly, you make a point though: At a certain, pursuing 19-20 year olds does get creepy

 

[maturin]

Total nonesense. I remind them that they preferred older guys when they were in their twenties. That I prefer younger women now. It's just a preference. I can't help what I like. Sometimes I might add that there are plenty of older guys available to them now.

 

[Plinco]

Attraction is a reaction and not a choice. Unless that attraction involves the violation of someone else's rights, it's none of anyone's business.

 

[zekko]

No man would ever say this.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Older women just say this in an attempt to eliminate the competition by shaming/guilt tripping men.

This. Let's be real, what male in his 50s would want a 20 year old woman??

If by want, you mean sleep with, 100% of men.

I do think it's pretty unusual for a 50 something man to date or marry a 20 year old, but it's not any less weird than a 50 year old man wanting to marry a haggard, bitter, post menupausal 50 year old with a divorced pvssy that's been stretched out by 40 men and 2 kids.

 

[SW15]

a 50 year old man wanting to marry a haggard, bitter, post menupausal 50 year old with a divorced pvssy that's been stretched out by 40 men and 2 kids.

The typical 50 year old man has a blue pill ideology towards intersexual dynamics and interactions.

The typical 50 year old man is pursuing women near his own age who are likely single moms and divorced. The notch counts of the 45-50 year old women he is pursuing are debatable but her baggage is not.

It's also unknown how much baggage the 50 year old man has. He might have kids from prior relationships and a divorce.