spinster: "The only kind of men that date and marry women that are substantially younger than them are insecure men"

[MatureDJ]

 

[BaronOfHair]

I must concede, she has a point: I'm not secure in the notion of a broad who's in her 5th decade of life(or older), and who's got multiple divorces to her name, being nearly as enjoyable as a bubbly 20 year old likely is. I'm not secure in my conviction that the former WON'T turn out to be an embittered crone, who's idea of fun = Kvetching to everyone in ear shot over how mean the world has been to her

 

[Manofrefinedtastes]

I must concede, she has a point: I'm not secure in the notion of a broad who's in her 5th decade of life(or older), and who's got multiple divorces to her name, being nearly as enjoyable as a bubbly 20 year old likely is. I'm not secure in my conviction that the former WON'T turn out to be an embittered crone, who's idea of fun = Kvetching to everyone in ear shot over how mean the world has been to her

This. Let's be real, what male in his 50s would want a 20 year old woman??

 

[BaronOfHair]

This. Let's be real, what male in his 50s would want a 20 year old woman??

Other way around: I'm saying that very few are going to find a 50something baby mama, who's been piped out a few million times, remotely desirable. Indirectly, you make a point though: At a certain, pursuing 19-20 year olds does get creepy

 

[maturin]

Total nonesense. I remind them that they preferred older guys when they were in their twenties. That I prefer younger women now. It's just a preference. I can't help what I like. Sometimes I might add that there are plenty of older guys available to them now.

 

[Plinco]

Attraction is a reaction and not a choice. Unless that attraction involves the violation of someone else's rights, it's none of anyone's business.

 

[zekko]

No man would ever say this.