I had a flirt session the other day. Ran into her again today. What to make of her behavior?

[BackInTheGame78]

@GoodMan32
What are you trying to gain in this forum?

Nothing...that's the problem.

 

[GoodMan32]

Why?

What exactly was "harrassing" about that remark?

It's not harassing at all.

In the era of new age feminists running HR departments, however, anything even mildly complimentary of a female coworker's appearance (when coming from a man) is risky.

 

[GoodMan32]

@GoodMan32 bro, let me ask you this. What do you want from life? Because since you joined this forum everything you do is complain and whine.

Masculine men don't complain, they do what needs to be done to obtain what they desire in life. Your behavior behind the keyboard os extremely unattractive and repulsive to any female. I can't imagine how are you in person.

What are you trying to gain in this forum?

What I want in life overall goes beyond the scope of this forum.

As for what I want to gain from the forum, I see where it might appear all I do is complain/make excuses. That being said, I've made baby steps lately to turn over a new leaf.

I downloaded some apps this past summer (per the recommendation of my therapist). I even attended 2 meetups from one of the apps.

I went to 2 speed dating events in the past 2 months.

I told the cafe girl she looked good the other day.

Without coming out and admitting interest in her, I purposely managed to get my next door neighbor to spill the beans on what type of man she's into (to gauge whether I have a chance with her)

What I want is better luck with the ladies (and reassurance that I'm capable of getting a woman)

 

[SW15]

blue collar jobs tend to be sausage fests (In other words, even if you can theoretically shoot your shot on a female blue collar coworker without getting ratted out to HR, it's highly unlikely there will be any suitable female coworkers in the first place)

Many blue collar workers work in mostly male environments.

An auto mechanic will be working with other male auto mechanics, male service advisors (the people who interact with customers), and the manager will be male.

A plumber might meet some divorced female homeowners.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

What I want in life overall goes beyond the scope of this forum.

As for what I want to gain from the forum, I see where it might appear all I do is complain/make excuses. That being said, I've made baby steps lately to turn over a new leaf.

I downloaded some apps this past summer (per the recommendation of my therapist). I even attended 2 meetups from one of the apps.

I went to 2 speed dating events in the past 2 months.

I told the cafe girl she looked good the other day.

Without coming out and admitting interest in her, I purposely managed to get my next door neighbor to spill the beans on what type of man she's into (to gauge whether I have a chance with her)

What I want is better luck with the ladies (and reassurance that I'm capable of getting a woman)

OP have you tried max-dosing Vit D, B6 and Omega 3? Might be worth trying.

supplements for autism

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

anything even mildly complimentary of a female coworker's appearance (when coming from a man) is risky.

How can you learn courage if you don't live in fear? Risk management is a skill. Learn it.

 

[GoodMan32]

Many blue collar workers work in mostly male environments.

An auto mechanic will be working with other male auto mechanics, male service advisors (the people who interact with customers), and the manager will be male.

A plumber might meet some divorced female homeowners.

Come to think of it, a blue collar man who does a job where he goes to houses has a prime opportunity to meet/bang broads.

 

[GoodMan32]

OP have you tried max-dosing Vit D, B6 and Omega 3? Might be worth trying.

supplements for autism

I take a decent amount of vitamin D. Will look into the others.

 

[Barrister]

What I want in life overall goes beyond the scope of this forum.

As for what I want to gain from the forum, I see where it might appear all I do is complain/make excuses. That being said, I've made baby steps lately to turn over a new leaf.

There is a lot to be gained from this forum outside of simple pickup tips. If you had spent any amount of time here I would think you’d realize this.

It’s good you’ve made some progress. You have a long way to go. I think your outlook is particularly frustrating to some of us because you have an excuse every time you’re given some information or advice. You are clearly scared/risk adverse. It’s plain as day. But you want to make excuses about how it’s “risky” to compliment women, etc. I apologize if some of this stems from your autism, but you will continue to fail if you interact women without any confidence. Females have a 6th sense and can smell it a mile away and they will dry up towards you very quickly.