Getting with older women

[SW15]

Additionally, if (per your own admission) I'd have an extremely high rejection rate among broads younger than me, it's somewhat contradictory to then say I should pursue younger.

You would also have an extremely high rejection rate among women 45-60 years as well.

If you're going to take a lot of rejections, it's better to take a lot of rejections to get a woman with a younger and more physically appealing body.

I've gone to several therapists already.

They've done a poor job with you. Some of that likely is a you thing. Both sides are to blame.

In fairness, psychotherapy is somewhat limited in what it can do for dating improvement. I've mentioned that on other threads. Psychotherapy typically won't improve one's match rate on a swipe app, as that depends more on presentation with photos/videos. That's outside the realm of psychotherapy. Psychotherapy might help with in-app messaging on an app, but probably not. It's debatable.

Psychotherapy may or may not help someone make initial approaches and set dates off of those initial approaches. Psychotherapy generally doesn't help with the first 15-20 seconds of an initial approaches.

Psychotherapy is better in helping with dating problems further on in the interaction.

 

[GoodMan32]

You would also have an extremely high rejection rate among women 45-60 years as well.

If you're going to take a lot of rejections, it's better to take a lot of rejections to get a woman with a younger and more physically appealing body.



They've done a poor job with you. Some of that likely is a you thing. Both sides are to blame.

In fairness, psychotherapy is somewhat limited in what it can do for dating improvement. I've mentioned that on other threads. Psychotherapy typically won't improve one's match rate on a swipe app, as that depends more on presentation with photos/videos. That's outside the realm of psychotherapy. Psychotherapy might help with in-app messaging on an app, but probably not. It's debatable.

Psychotherapy may or may not help someone make initial approaches and set dates off of those initial approaches. Psychotherapy generally doesn't help with the first 15-20 seconds of an initial approaches.

Psychotherapy is better in helping with dating problems further on in the interaction.

The other day, I stroked myself to completion while thinking about a female coworker in her 60s. The body of an older broad excites me plenty.

The fact my 3 most recent non-escort lays were born in 69, 72, and 78 is worth mentioning (as far as my chances of getting an older woman)

If psychotherapy (per your own admission) won't help me initially pique the interest of a woman, why bother with psychotherapy?

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

The other day, I stroked myself to completion while thinking about a female coworker in her 60s. The body of an older broad excites me plenty.

Isn't that a euphemism for wanking your short straw?

 

[SW15]

If psychotherapy (per your own admission) won't help me initially pique the interest of a woman, why bother with psychotherapy?

There's more to mating than the initial pique. The initial pique is an area that gets a lot of attention (rightfully so) but in the scheme of a larger interaction, it's a small part. Psychotherapy can help with retaining women for longer periods and you made a thread about your problems with retaining the women who you've been able to successfully seduce.

The fact my 3 most recent non-escort lays were born in 69, 72, and 78 is worth mentioning (as far as my chances of getting an older woman)

It's worth mentioning. If you are having sex with women born in 1969-1978, that outcome is influenced by your own behavior. You are spending more time trying to seduce that age range than the 1991-1998 birth year women.

 

[GoodMan32]

Isn't that a euphemism for wanking your short straw?

It's a masturbation reference, yeah.

 

[GoodMan32]

There's more to mating than the initial pique. The initial pique is an area that gets a lot of attention (rightfully so) but in the scheme of a larger interaction, it's a small part. Psychotherapy can help with retaining women for longer periods and you made a thread about your problems with retaining the women who you've been able to successfully seduce.



It's worth mentioning. If you are having sex with women born in 1969-1978, that outcome is influenced by your own behavior. You are spending more time trying to seduce that age range than the 1991-1998 birth year women.

You're right, retention is a problem. Piquing a woman's interest initially is a problem too.

Ideally, I'd like to become better at piquing initial interest and better at retaining a woman once I've piqued her interest.

Even though I've focused more on broads born in the 60s/70s than the typical early 90s baby has, I've focused on broads close in age to me more than you might think. Without knowing the exact ratio off hand, I'd estimate my success rate percentage is higher with broads born in the 60s/70s than with broads close in age to me. Hell, in some cases, broads born in the 60s/70s have made the first move.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

It's a masturbation reference, yeah.

The question was rhetorical, but I think I want to put up a poll on how many pages this nonsense thread is going to be. I bet you could get it up in the double-digits again. Would be nice to have something in the double digits, no? < another rhetorical question, so you don't need to answer that.

 

[GoodMan32]

The question was rhetorical, but I think I want to put up a poll on how many pages this nonsense thread is going to be. I bet you could get it up in the double-digits again. Would be nice to have something in the double digits, no? < another rhetorical question, so you don't need to answer that.

The point is I'm genuinely attracted to older broads (the fact I sometimes think about broads even older than my mom when I pleasure myself)

The thread is about older broads.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

The point is I'm genuinely attracted to older broads (the fact I sometimes think about broads even older than my mom when I pleasure myself)

The thread is about older broads.

Yes, this is what I mean. Regurgitating old information in order to get a double digit page count on your thread. You're getting better at it, it's almost unnoticeable. You should quote this post and say that you keep repeating yourself because you're autistic.

I'll help you get that double digit page count, buddy. That way, even if you don't accomplish anything in your life, you still have this accomplishment to look back on.

 

[Learning Curve]

I had an older woman around 38 and i was in my 20s at the time.

We were friends with benefits for basically 3+ years.

At a stage in the middle of this she wanted a relationship and i told her explicitly no.

The sex with her was something i will never forget. It was that good.

But, older women also want relationships and they act like teenagers as the time goes by, and as with all women even after being 60 they want to settle this is the natural flow of things.

You are 32 and you are aiming for 65? Common man.

Thats just plainly stupid. If sex is what attracts you to older women or their mature personalities look for younger women that have those traits to a percentage.

But you are waisting your time by chasing older women, you will be in your 40s without realising how the time has past chasing old trash bags.

 

[GoodMan32]

I had an older woman around 38 and i was in my 20s at the time.

We were friends with benefits for basically 3+ years.

At a stage in the middle of this she wanted a relationship and i told her explicitly no.

The sex with her was something i will never forget. It was that good.

But, older women also want relationships and they act like teenagers as the time goes by, and as with all women even after being 60 they want to settle this is the natural flow of things.

You are 32 and you are aiming for 65? Common man.

Thats just plainly stupid. If sex is what attracts you to older women or their mature personalities look for younger women that have those traits to a percentage.

But you are waisting your time by chasing older women, you will be in your 40s without realising how the time has past chasing old trash bags.

In the time since making the thread, I've turned 33.

Yeah, I'm into gals as old as 60s.

A young woman having older behavioral traits is meaningless. I have fertility reasons of why I prefer older.

Even though I don't think fancying older gals is a waste of time, I admit I've wasted much of life in general as it is. I don't need to reach my 40s to come to that realization.