Passport "bro"..i may have messed up

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I got into a relationship with a girl that lives in the middle east. I never expected it to go this far. Fast forward almost 4 years and we are engaged. Parents met and everything. She is head over heels in love with me.

Due to complications she was not able to get any visa to come to the USA ( i really didnt want her to come anyway). She still wants to be with me and wants me to either move to her or find a 3rd country for us to start a family.

I am having second thoughts about having children overseas. I make enough to support a family but I can only make money in the USA.

I know some people work in one country and send money back home. I dont know if I can be away from my kid for months at a time. The kid might lack fatherly discipline.

I am wondering how people do it and still raise functional kids?

Btw I had a central American roomate whose father worked in the USA and sent money back to Guatemala. He turned out very well and he is now an engineer. So it can work i guess. Idk.....

Btw I found that Andrew Tate clip after I was already involved with this girl. She is great and I wont have to worry about divorce rape but still....

 

[FlirtLife]

Do you know what you want?

You say "we are engaged", but also you "never expected it to get this far", and also "parents met". You're taking all these steps to progress the relationship, and then questioning how the relationship progressed.

If you're worried about "divorce rape", you should get a prenup. If you want to be cheap, at least give her enough time that she could get the prenup reviewed by a lawyer. Better yet, you two can each get a lawyer to represent you, and go over the prenup. It's a good idea to offer to translate the prenup to her native language. Divorce doesn't require bad intent - people can grow apart or realize it was a mistake. A prenup dramatically lowers the 50% chance you lose 50% of your assets.

I don't get the appeal of an extreme long-distance relationship where you can only visit a few times per year. If this is your first or second relationship, I suspect desperation could play a role.

 

[Pandora]

Do you know what you want?

You say "we are engaged", but also you "never expected it to get this far", and also "parents met". You're taking all these steps to progress the relationship, and then questioning how the relationship progressed.

If you're worried about "divorce rape", you should get a prenup. If you want to be cheap, at least give her enough time that she could get the prenup reviewed by a lawyer. Better yet, you two can each get a lawyer to represent you, and go over the prenup. It's a good idea to offer to translate the prenup to her native language. Divorce doesn't require bad intent - people can grow apart or realize it was a mistake. A prenup dramatically lowers the 50% chance you lose 50% of your assets.

I don't get the appeal of an extreme long-distance relationship where you can only visit a few times per year. If this is your first or second relationship, I suspect desperation could play a role.

I have been in many relationships. I have also been with alot of American women. The men that go over seas are usually not desperate. Desperate would be marrying a fat American single mother who will divorce you for sure.

I dont want to get married to an American under American laws. I ( just like most men here) have seen too much.

Honestly the new American dream is to leave America. I just have to stop being stupid and find a way to make money outside of the USA.

Btw prenups are not that bulletproof. Also she can still get you for child support and alimony. Also she can say you abused the kids ( happened to a good friend of mine). Naw I rather take my chances overseas.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

In the end it will be the passport bro's laughing their azz off about the simps that fight over the last free place in a poly-relationship in any western country.

@OP How did you meet that girl? What field are you working in?

Whatever you do, DO NOT bring her into a western country. She might adapt and become a western woman, because she can.

 

[Pandora]

In the end it will be the passport bro's laughing their azz off about the simps that fight over the last free place in a poly-relationship in any western country.

@OP How did you meet that girl? What field are you working in?

Whatever you do, DO NOT bring her into a western country. She might adapt and become a western woman, because she can.

Exactly! I was kind of happy when they denied her K1 visa application. I was so relieved. Right now she is submissive and pleasant. I knew that if she got to the USA it was only a matter of time for her to change.

She told me that at the Visa interview they were already giving her pamphlet and materials about domestic violence and calling the police etc. She was shocked.

 

[Clockwerk50]

Damn, some people talk about women like they are pets lol

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Damn, some people talk about women like they are pets lol

To some they are little more than.

 

[Pandora]

Damn, some people talk about women like they are pets lol

Some women act like pets. They need to be feed, pampered, taken care of etc. Some women need extreme male guidance or else they self destruct.