jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
After extensive research here on the forum, and reflecting on all the experiences of my life—both lived and observed—I can finally say that I still haven't been able to understand anger. First of all, do you ever get angry with a woman? Does a woman make you angry, and how do you respond to that?
I have always had the feeling that some women are attracted to men who frequently display anger. They might respond to his "**** tests," or perhaps for other reasons. A perfect example would be my father, who gets angry easily, especially with my mother.
In contrast, personally, I rarely get angry. I don't give in to their tests. I either take things ironically or remain serious and silent. Especially with women, I don't concern myself with their altered emotional states. I try to calmly assert myself and put her in her place. This behavior has led me to question whether I am adopting the right approach, especially since I am in Italy, where many women seem to respond to my demeanor by becoming more upset than before. They sometimes tell me that I am strange for not reacting because "this means nothing to me" or "this is not relevant to me."
Many LTR's here where husbands display anger—like my father's—and verbally "dominate" their partners, instilling fear in them. In such cases, the woman feels "reprimanded." But If you do the mature man, and dominate her emotion, being the mountain, you are seen as a "weak" because you don't get angry.
I have always had the feeling that some women are attracted to men who frequently display anger. They might respond to his "**** tests," or perhaps for other reasons. A perfect example would be my father, who gets angry easily, especially with my mother.
In contrast, personally, I rarely get angry. I don't give in to their tests. I either take things ironically or remain serious and silent. Especially with women, I don't concern myself with their altered emotional states. I try to calmly assert myself and put her in her place. This behavior has led me to question whether I am adopting the right approach, especially since I am in Italy, where many women seem to respond to my demeanor by becoming more upset than before. They sometimes tell me that I am strange for not reacting because "this means nothing to me" or "this is not relevant to me."
Many LTR's here where husbands display anger—like my father's—and verbally "dominate" their partners, instilling fear in them. In such cases, the woman feels "reprimanded." But If you do the mature man, and dominate her emotion, being the mountain, you are seen as a "weak" because you don't get angry.