Don't be a fvcking pvssy

[TheGambino]

Im reading too much reports about guys being f8cking pvssies, and wining, been there done that, it doesn't serve your soul. I also come and vent here once a while and the only person that can make the change is yourself. Just ghost everyone who doesn't respect you.

Don't chase women.

It's all very simple I found out after 10 years of lurking here and getting myself out there every time, never giving up.
Build a business, get your testerone level up, go for what you want. Work hard, gym at least 6 times a week, cut the booze, eat healthy.
Be a fvcking man and act like it. Be direct and bold.

If she's putting no effort in it, if your gut tells you she doesn't want to talk to you, don't be a needy winy b1tch and cut her lose. Never ever get mad or needy or bvthurt, always be polite and nice to the girl you want if she does sh1t that pisses you off. If she goes out of limits like cheating or grinding or making out with other guys, leave, block period. But if she does phoney sh1t like sh1t testing, cancelling dates, not answering, quit talking to her but keep her on socials so she can see you level up, getting that new car, getting the sixpack and living your best life. Trust me, she will keep tabs on you and reach out in the future.

Most of the time if a girl loses interest it's because of your own actions if she had interest earlier, only in rare cases it's because of another guy. If you played your cards right she won't go to him. It was because you showed weakness somehow.

When she does like you, let her initiate contact, go to contacting her once a week, skip a week sometimes, replie 2-3 hours to her texts, keep phone calls short, 10 mins max and always be the one ending the conversation. Let her do the talking, ask her questions, be mysterious and go about your fcking business. Are you in your feelings? Are you becoming jealous? Is she not doing what you want, go to the fvcking gym and put your phone down. If you put in the work other girls will notice you, go approach one and make a date happen.

Ground rule, don't chase, if she comes back, fine if not also fine. Your on your purpose becoming the best version of yourself anyway so your to busy to worry about what she's doing.

I never put up with sh1t in my life but im getting more radical everyday, someone doesn't respect you? Cut them off, the next person that comes in your life is of higher quality anyway because you leveled up also and respect yourelf more then before. Your going to be happy that she left because the next one, is even hotter, better, sweeter.

Never chase a woman, period. I made that promise to myself a long time ago but now I mean it for real and im applying it for 2 months, it's great.

You can only understand and be the man in abundance if you work yourself up to being the best version of yourself. You can't fake and maintain that. So go out there and do it.

 

[CheekyMonkey101]

Good post. I agree. I often see guys wasting time on low interest women and it's a terrible use your time and energy.

 

[Solomon]

Great thread this is the issue with 80% of guys who have issues with a "bad date" or "why isn't she texting me back" you're dealing with a low-interested woman. Once you deal with a high-interest woman which I know you have plenty of times Gambino it's easy to tell. High interest women actually want you to win! This is the part guys gotta understand. If a chick is feeling you she will make time for you. She will break her own rules etc.

To many guys dealing with low-interested women especially of these swipe apps which causes frustration and low self-esteem

 

[TheGambino]

Great thread this is the issue with 80% of guys who have issues with a "bad date" or "why isn't she texting me back" you're dealing with a low-interested woman. Once you deal with a high-interest woman which I know you have plenty of times Gambino it's easy to tell. High interest women actually want you to win! This is the part guys gotta understand. If a chick is feeling you she will make time for you. She will break her own rules etc.

To many guys dealing with low-interested women especially of these swipe apps which causes frustration and low self-esteem

I don’t even approach women only if I get high IOis, locking eye contact, turning around to you. Flirting heavily or standing in front of u, putting her breasts on your back in a crowded area and smiling.
If she shortly smiles and looks away I don’t even go to her and only if I like her ofc.

I get IOis all the time from girls I don’t like. You will get more picky when you have something to offer.

@Solomon

 

[kzar_kzar]

I don’t even approach women only if I get high IOis, locking eye contact, turning around to you. Flirting heavily or standing in front of u, putting her breasts on your back in a crowded area and smiling.
If she shortly smiles and looks away I don’t even go to her and only if I like her ofc.

I get IOis all the time from girls I don’t like. You will get more picky when you have something to offer.

@Solomon

Agreed but you can skip the gym!

 

[TheGambino]

Great thread this is the issue with 80% of guys who have issues with a "bad date" or "why isn't she texting me back" you're dealing with a low-interested woman. Once you deal with a high-interest woman which I know you have plenty of times Gambino it's easy to tell. High interest women actually want you to win! This is the part guys gotta understand. If a chick is feeling you she will make time for you. She will break her own rules etc.

To many guys dealing with low-interested women especially of these swipe apps which causes frustration and low self-esteem

I even feel ashamed to be on a swipe app, girls around town see me on there thinking he still looking for pvssy. It’s better to have a life and body your proud of, build yourself up that girls will come to your orbit and rotate plates. Then you won’t need no phony dating app, you’ll be to busy working on your purpose and dealing with your rotation. So if you need dating apps you need to work harder on yourself. I used to do it very rarely when my girls all disappeared but now I won’t even think about it.

@Solomon

 

[holidayad_]

I even feel ashamed to be on a swipe app, girls around town see me on there thinking he still looking for pvssy. It’s better to have a life and body your proud of, build yourself up that girls will come to your orbit and rotate plates. Then you won’t need no phony dating app, you’ll be to busy working on your purpose and dealing with your rotation. So if you need dating apps you need to work harder on yourself. I used to do it very rarely when my girls all disappeared but now I won’t even think about it.

Agree.

OLD is good for someone with no (or 1) plate.

Other than that, you're diminishing your value as a man and showing potential women in your social circle that you're in the dry.

 

[TheGambino]

Agree.

OLD is good for someone with no (or 1) plate.

Other than that, you're diminishing your value as a man and showing potential women in your social circle that you're in the dry.

Id rather jerk off then fvck a mediocre girl and get a quick nutt and go about by my business and attract a new hb9+. No dating apps whatsoever.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Bro...

Don't you constantly post about women that you are scheming to try and get back with and people are constantly telling you not to do it and yet you keep doing it?

Is this a "do as I say, not as I do" sentiment?

 

[TheGambino]

Bro...

Don't you constantly post about women that you are scheming to try and get back with and people are constantly telling you not to do it and yet you keep doing it?

Is this a "do as I say, not as I do" sentiment?

@BackInTheGame78 don’t be hating.
As a matter of fact people evolve. I’ve been busy with a couple of very hot attractive women and been working out and eating and sleeping healthy for a consistent basis. Bought some nice designer shirts that fit me well and yeah kaboom way more options. Since I know how to attract women and been succesfull with very hot ones lately your self esteem boosts and you get more options which makes you don’t care about losing women anymore.

I also finally understand that chasing never work. So I learned from my mistakes and I can back it up now.

I also had some girls coming back when I never reached out.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Agree.

OLD is good for someone with no (or 1) plate.

Other than that, you're diminishing your value as a man and showing potential women in your social circle that you're in the dry.

OLD is T:ts on Tap. Revolutionary.

 

[Glassguy]

@TheGambino
Your post is solid but it's all well know basic advice.
Make sure you follow it and save yourself from these situations that you seem to get yourself into with low interest women!

 

[CornbreadFed]

If she's putting no effort in it, if your gut tells you she doesn't want to talk to you, don't be a needy winy b1tch and cut her lose. Never ever get mad or needy or bvthurt, always be polite and nice to the girl you want if she does sh1t that pisses you off. If she goes out of limits like cheating or grinding or making out with other guys, leave, block period. But if she does phoney sh1t like sh1t testing, cancelling dates, not answering, quit talking to her but keep her on socials so she can see you level up, getting that new car, getting the sixpack and living your best life. Trust me, she will keep tabs on you and reach out in the future.

I wish I applied this to my life in my twenties.

 

[TheGambino]

I wish I applied this to my life in my twenties.

same bro

 

[H8CourtshipWithAPassion]

i think there is a difference between chasing and pursuing

 

[Isildur1]

Great thread this is the issue with 80% of guys who have issues with a "bad date" or "why isn't she texting me back" you're dealing with a low-interested woman. Once you deal with a high-interest woman which I know you have plenty of times Gambino it's easy to tell. High interest women actually want you to win! This is the part guys gotta understand. If a chick is feeling you she will make time for you. She will break her own rules etc.

To many guys dealing with low-interested women especially of these swipe apps which causes frustration and low self-esteem

I think there’s something to be said for putting her in the long term instagram pipeline- I’ve had girls from daygame flake due to work related reasons then hit me up on my Instagram stories 2-3 months later and then getting a successful date with them at the moment which lead to sex

you can “pursue” just don’t be too needy and have a good volume of women at your disposal so when some of them flake you have others

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

I agree this this, and I continually am baffled that men accept disrespect from a women. Zero tolerance policy is the only way to go.

However one part of your post stuck out to me:

When she does like you, let her initiate contact, go to contacting her once a week, skip a week sometimes, replie 2-3 hours to her texts, keep phone calls short, 10 mins max and always be the one ending the conversation. Let her do the talking, ask her questions, be mysterious and go about your fcking business. Are you in your feelings? Are you becoming jealous? Is she not doing what you want, go to the fvcking gym and put your phone down. If you put in the work other girls will notice you, go approach one and make a date happen.

Why do these things? If you don't care, you don't need to invent rules and behaviors to convince her, or yourself, why you don't care. Once you do care, it's already over and you might as well just start over with another chick. Through some mystical/divine force of nature, women will sense when a guy cares too much even if he doesn't see her or communicate with her at all. Same goes for the other end of this. For example, if you go to the gym and see hot women and try really hard to not notice them, they'll notice your efforts to not notice them. This is women's actual superpower. Women only check you out when you literally do not even notice them; if you're at the gym and genuinely indifferent to women, you'll look out the window and notice one that is making direct eye contact with you through the reflection. This is real.

I don't think it's helpful for men to think they can pretend to not care as some sort of "hack" when they do in fact care, though I'm not entirely sure that's what you're saying. Regardless, the only real way to not care is to not genuinely not care, which itself is not in your direct control on a moment to moment basis, but a result of how many other interesting things you have going on in your life and how your life in general is going at that particular period of your life.

Bro...

Don't you constantly post about women that you are scheming to try and get back with and people are constantly telling you not to do it and yet you keep doing it?

Is this a "do as I say, not as I do" sentiment?

If one person gives advice and he doesn't practice what he preaches, and another person gives the exact same advice but he does practice it, is the latters advice more valid? A lot of people seem to think this way, so I'm curious if that's what you're implying. Some people learn from their continual mistakes and tell others what not to do. Not sure who the OP is, but even if he doesn't practice this, doesn't mean he can't still give advice about it.

 

[Gamisch]

I agree this this, and I continually am baffled that men accept disrespect from a women. Zero tolerance policy is the only way to go.

However one part of your post stuck out to me:


Why do these things? If you don't care, you don't need to invent rules and behaviors to convince her, or yourself, why you don't care. Once you do care, it's already over and you might as well just start over with another chick. Through some mystical/divine force of nature, women will sense when a guy cares too much even if he doesn't see her or communicate with her at all. Same goes for the other end of this. For example, if you go to the gym and see hot women and try really hard to not notice them, they'll notice your efforts to not notice them. This is women's actual superpower. Women only check you out when you literally do not even notice them; if you're at the gym and genuinely indifferent to women, you'll look out the window and notice one that is making direct eye contact with you through the reflection. This is real.

I don't think it's helpful for men to think they can pretend to not care as some sort of "hack" when they do in fact care, though I'm not entirely sure that's what you're saying. Regardless, the only real way to not care is to not genuinely not care, which itself is not in your direct control on a moment to moment basis, but a result of how many other interesting things you have going on in your life and how your life in general is going at that particular period of your life.




If one person gives advice and he doesn't practice what he preaches, and another person gives the exact same advice but he does practice it, is the latters advice more valid? A lot of people seem to think this way, so I'm curious if that's what you're implying. Some people learn from their continual mistakes and tell others what not to do. Not sure who the OP is, but even if he doesn't practice this, doesn't mean he can't still give advice about it.

Although I almost pissed my pants from laughing, you are right about giving advice ect.

Although this advice is regurgitating, it6like the jab cross 1-2 in boxing; plenty of men don't be able to execute it and simultaneously those basic moves can make you a champion .

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Although I almost pissed my pants from laughing, you are right about giving advice ect.

Although this advice is regurgitating, it6like the jab cross 1-2 in boxing; plenty of men don't be able to execute it and simultaneously those basic moves can make you a champion .

I say this because I love Alan Watts and Seneca, but people dismiss them because Alan Watts was a "drunkard womanizer", and because Seneca (Roman Stoic philosopher) amassed great wealth and power. But I don't see why that matters, as they say: "A fool who persists in his folly will become wise"

In fact, I will take advice from people who fvcked up and learned from it, with equal or greater weight than "successful" people who hit nothing but layups their whole life; the latter group are almost always too biased/conceited to acknowledge how much luck was involved. Of course in reality it's usually a mix of failures and success and people who have experienced both are the most interesting, but I would still consider advice from a lifelong heroin addict who quit at 50 years old, as I'm sure he would have some insights into the human condition that others couldn't have.

Regardless, it really irks me how people resort to ad hominem remarks to dismiss what people say instead of critiquing the actual contents of their message...the message itself is what matters, not the character of the person making that message. Imo. /End rant.