TheGambino
Master Don Juan
Im reading too much reports about guys being f8cking pvssies, and wining, been there done that, it doesn't serve your soul. I also come and vent here once a while and the only person that can make the change is yourself. Just ghost everyone who doesn't respect you.
Don't chase women.
It's all very simple I found out after 10 years of lurking here and getting myself out there every time, never giving up.
Build a business, get your testerone level up, go for what you want. Work hard, gym at least 6 times a week, cut the booze, eat healthy.
Be a fvcking man and act like it. Be direct and bold.
If she's putting no effort in it, if your gut tells you she doesn't want to talk to you, don't be a needy winy b1tch and cut her lose. Never ever get mad or needy or bvthurt, always be polite and nice to the girl you want if she does sh1t that pisses you off. If she goes out of limits like cheating or grinding or making out with other guys, leave, block period. But if she does phoney sh1t like sh1t testing, cancelling dates, not answering, quit talking to her but keep her on socials so she can see you level up, getting that new car, getting the sixpack and living your best life. Trust me, she will keep tabs on you and reach out in the future.
Most of the time if a girl loses interest it's because of your own actions if she had interest earlier, only in rare cases it's because of another guy. If you played your cards right she won't go to him. It was because you showed weakness somehow.
When she does like you, let her initiate contact, go to contacting her once a week, skip a week sometimes, replie 2-3 hours to her texts, keep phone calls short, 10 mins max and always be the one ending the conversation. Let her do the talking, ask her questions, be mysterious and go about your fcking business. Are you in your feelings? Are you becoming jealous? Is she not doing what you want, go to the fvcking gym and put your phone down. If you put in the work other girls will notice you, go approach one and make a date happen.
Ground rule, don't chase, if she comes back, fine if not also fine. Your on your purpose becoming the best version of yourself anyway so your to busy to worry about what she's doing.
I never put up with sh1t in my life but im getting more radical everyday, someone doesn't respect you? Cut them off, the next person that comes in your life is of higher quality anyway because you leveled up also and respect yourelf more then before. Your going to be happy that she left because the next one, is even hotter, better, sweeter.
Never chase a woman, period. I made that promise to myself a long time ago but now I mean it for real and im applying it for 2 months, it's great.
You can only understand and be the man in abundance if you work yourself up to being the best version of yourself. You can't fake and maintain that. So go out there and do it.
Don't chase women.
It's all very simple I found out after 10 years of lurking here and getting myself out there every time, never giving up.
Build a business, get your testerone level up, go for what you want. Work hard, gym at least 6 times a week, cut the booze, eat healthy.
Be a fvcking man and act like it. Be direct and bold.
If she's putting no effort in it, if your gut tells you she doesn't want to talk to you, don't be a needy winy b1tch and cut her lose. Never ever get mad or needy or bvthurt, always be polite and nice to the girl you want if she does sh1t that pisses you off. If she goes out of limits like cheating or grinding or making out with other guys, leave, block period. But if she does phoney sh1t like sh1t testing, cancelling dates, not answering, quit talking to her but keep her on socials so she can see you level up, getting that new car, getting the sixpack and living your best life. Trust me, she will keep tabs on you and reach out in the future.
Most of the time if a girl loses interest it's because of your own actions if she had interest earlier, only in rare cases it's because of another guy. If you played your cards right she won't go to him. It was because you showed weakness somehow.
When she does like you, let her initiate contact, go to contacting her once a week, skip a week sometimes, replie 2-3 hours to her texts, keep phone calls short, 10 mins max and always be the one ending the conversation. Let her do the talking, ask her questions, be mysterious and go about your fcking business. Are you in your feelings? Are you becoming jealous? Is she not doing what you want, go to the fvcking gym and put your phone down. If you put in the work other girls will notice you, go approach one and make a date happen.
Ground rule, don't chase, if she comes back, fine if not also fine. Your on your purpose becoming the best version of yourself anyway so your to busy to worry about what she's doing.
I never put up with sh1t in my life but im getting more radical everyday, someone doesn't respect you? Cut them off, the next person that comes in your life is of higher quality anyway because you leveled up also and respect yourelf more then before. Your going to be happy that she left because the next one, is even hotter, better, sweeter.
Never chase a woman, period. I made that promise to myself a long time ago but now I mean it for real and im applying it for 2 months, it's great.
You can only understand and be the man in abundance if you work yourself up to being the best version of yourself. You can't fake and maintain that. So go out there and do it.
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