jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
Women can experience different emotions in a long-term relationship
Let's make a list of the most prevalent ones, grouped by positive to neutral to negative.
3 States of a Woman in a Relationship:
1) Love and Affection (Happy, Feminine) (Satisfied)
Acts of care, meal preparation, housekeeping, childcare, self-care, and care for her man.
Desire for deep connection and intimacy.
Empathy: putting yourself in the other person's shoes.
Anxiety, Worry, Loneliness (Sadness, Depressed Moment, Feminine) (Neutral)
Moments of uncertainty or conflict.
Fear of losing her partner.
Concern for the stability of the relationship.
Emotional connection with the partner is weak (Loneliness).
Lack of communication or emotional support.
3) Frustration (Anger, Masculine) (Dissatisfied/Rethinking)
Perceiving a lack of communication or commitment from their partner. (And that's saying a lot, since most of the time they self-sabotage themselves, and we shouldn't give them reason.)
In response to injustices or behaviors of the partner that do not respect their needs, or outbursts at random, even for small things.
Women constantly struggle with inner conflicts and tend to have a struggle for emotional authenticity for themselves. That's why they cling to a man who makes them feel "good." It's true that this changes from woman to woman, but based on the 3 states of a woman in a relationship, the man must adopt "CORRECT" responses, or behaviors, which, if viewed objectively, all have the same correct way to do.
And now comes the best part!
As mature men looking for a feminine woman who will take care of us, our children, and our home—a woman for a long-term relationship—what are the best responses a man should give, depending on the emotional state his woman is in? (If these 3 states are not enough, please authorize the mods to modify the original post to include others suggested by the other men here.)
Let's make nuanced examples
Example 1:
State 1: The woman comes and brings you lunch for work in a container, and you can see that she has prepared it with care and love. She leaves it in your bag already ready and goes to do other chores around the house.
Example 2:
State 3: The woman comes and brings you lunch for work in a container, and you can see that she has not prepared it with care. Maybe she has deliberately forgotten something, or directly everything, and leaves it outside the bag without the cutlery. She goes to do other chores around the house, all angry.
It's a subtlety, but her emotional state is completely different.
How should you react to Example 1 and Example 2?
If you have better examples, which I'm sure you do, please write them down.
Last but not least: how do you correctly react to the 3 different states?
Let's make a list of the most prevalent ones, grouped by positive to neutral to negative.
3 States of a Woman in a Relationship:
1) Love and Affection (Happy, Feminine) (Satisfied)
Acts of care, meal preparation, housekeeping, childcare, self-care, and care for her man.
Desire for deep connection and intimacy.
Empathy: putting yourself in the other person's shoes.
Anxiety, Worry, Loneliness (Sadness, Depressed Moment, Feminine) (Neutral)
Moments of uncertainty or conflict.
Fear of losing her partner.
Concern for the stability of the relationship.
Emotional connection with the partner is weak (Loneliness).
Lack of communication or emotional support.
3) Frustration (Anger, Masculine) (Dissatisfied/Rethinking)
Perceiving a lack of communication or commitment from their partner. (And that's saying a lot, since most of the time they self-sabotage themselves, and we shouldn't give them reason.)
In response to injustices or behaviors of the partner that do not respect their needs, or outbursts at random, even for small things.
Women constantly struggle with inner conflicts and tend to have a struggle for emotional authenticity for themselves. That's why they cling to a man who makes them feel "good." It's true that this changes from woman to woman, but based on the 3 states of a woman in a relationship, the man must adopt "CORRECT" responses, or behaviors, which, if viewed objectively, all have the same correct way to do.
And now comes the best part!
As mature men looking for a feminine woman who will take care of us, our children, and our home—a woman for a long-term relationship—what are the best responses a man should give, depending on the emotional state his woman is in? (If these 3 states are not enough, please authorize the mods to modify the original post to include others suggested by the other men here.)
Let's make nuanced examples
Example 1:
State 1: The woman comes and brings you lunch for work in a container, and you can see that she has prepared it with care and love. She leaves it in your bag already ready and goes to do other chores around the house.
Example 2:
State 3: The woman comes and brings you lunch for work in a container, and you can see that she has not prepared it with care. Maybe she has deliberately forgotten something, or directly everything, and leaves it outside the bag without the cutlery. She goes to do other chores around the house, all angry.
It's a subtlety, but her emotional state is completely different.
How should you react to Example 1 and Example 2?
If you have better examples, which I'm sure you do, please write them down.
Last but not least: how do you correctly react to the 3 different states?