jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
For anyone who is in this situation:
The challenge lies in understanding what these men possess that enables them to connect with women effectively and make em feel "good". Despite me being capable of grasping complex subjects like nuclear science or neurology, there seems to be a gap in learning how to engage with women, "the right way".
What’s missing for me is guidance on the right approach and timing for using social skills with women.
Everyone has the capacity to learn and develop skills; I’ve mastered drawing and gaming at a high level.
Therefore, I MUST be able to learn how to make women feel "good" as well.
Having raised my value as a man and recognizing my interactions with women are different from those of other men—who may even be of lower value but seem more successful—it's time for me to bridge this gap.
I’m eager for insights on how this works in practice so I can emulate those actions and ultimately create fulfilling connections with women. Understanding this would greatly enhance my happiness as I seek companionship.
This just reminds me when I first entered the Martial Art course: the sensei showed me the "how to do", then i saw many example of him doing it, then it was my time to learn the skill, practice it, and now that I have the skill i can use it in the "interaction".
I think I'm missing a "sensei" or a good "example", then "how to learn" the skill, and "how to put in practice".
Once i know the RIGHT way to do it, I can use it in my daily interaction with women. It's clear that I'm missing something guys.. I've my life togheter but I need this thing. Please help me man out there!
I built it, they didn't come
Hi guys, I've just recently discovered this site, but many of the concepts have been familiar to me for years, decades even. I'm not really about learning game, but I read the "book of Pook", and many of the concepts in that series of posts have been second nature to me for my whole life. I...
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You are very logical; people, including women, come to you to solve problems. You’re seen as the magician and the problem solver, but that can lead to boredom for women. However, when in their presence, it’s crucial to understand how to make them feel "good", similar to how other men do it, instinctively.I'm betting that you have an IQ over 140. The logical analytical types aren't typically seductive traits to women.
Highly intelligent individuals often struggle with relationships while less intelligent or more arrogant men seem to attract women more easily. This phenomenon isn’t limited to a specific type of woman; those men can attract various women despite differences in value or intelligence. They just know "How".The problem you're facing is you "built it" according to what society tells you SHOULD attract females.
Unfortunately, all that stuff you have (physique, good paying job, etc.) is irrelevant when it comes to arousal. The stuff you have attracts women, but unless you're arousing to them, you'll continue to beat your head against a wall. What you need to do is start developing an organic dominance in your conversations w/ females. You need to learn how to use your body language to communicate to women non-verbally that you're high value and have your pick of the litter w/ females.
There are a ton of rich, good looking (I might add: very intelligent and logical) dudes who have ZERO success with females. Other than of course being used for cash, gifts and emotional tampons.
The challenge lies in understanding what these men possess that enables them to connect with women effectively and make em feel "good". Despite me being capable of grasping complex subjects like nuclear science or neurology, there seems to be a gap in learning how to engage with women, "the right way".
What’s missing for me is guidance on the right approach and timing for using social skills with women.
Everyone has the capacity to learn and develop skills; I’ve mastered drawing and gaming at a high level.
Therefore, I MUST be able to learn how to make women feel "good" as well.
Having raised my value as a man and recognizing my interactions with women are different from those of other men—who may even be of lower value but seem more successful—it's time for me to bridge this gap.
I’m eager for insights on how this works in practice so I can emulate those actions and ultimately create fulfilling connections with women. Understanding this would greatly enhance my happiness as I seek companionship.
This just reminds me when I first entered the Martial Art course: the sensei showed me the "how to do", then i saw many example of him doing it, then it was my time to learn the skill, practice it, and now that I have the skill i can use it in the "interaction".
I think I'm missing a "sensei" or a good "example", then "how to learn" the skill, and "how to put in practice".
Once i know the RIGHT way to do it, I can use it in my daily interaction with women. It's clear that I'm missing something guys.. I've my life togheter but I need this thing. Please help me man out there!