CornbreadFed
Master Don Juan
https://www.sosuave.com/articles/25years.htm#:~:text=So%20I'd%20like%20to%20share%20some%20of%20my%20observations%20in
I stumbled upon this gold mine randomly, and I wanted to highlight a few points to illustrate how much the Red Pill Movement has led men away from solid dating advice. None of these points suggest that all women are evil, that you should hide in a closet for 15 years "developing yourself," or that the world is ending.
3) Over the long run, the periods that men are without a partner and frustrated are generally happier than being stuck in a relationship which has lost its luster.
I fully agree with the notion that if you're ever feeling frustrated about being single and find yourself triggered by seeing other couples, it's important to remember that bad relationships do exist. That guy you see might be stuck in a relationship where he’s essentially a slave to a difficult partner.
4) Women generally do the selecting in the earliest phases of a relationship. Once a woman has committed herself emotionally, the balance of power shifts to the man (assuming he has some degree of self-confidence).
Understanding this concept is crucial: the early stages of dating aren't particularly fun for most men because they don’t hold much power. However, with perseverance and common sense, you can eventually find yourself on the winning side of the relationship. Many men make the mistake of committing to women who don’t truly commit their emotions to them, which often leads to the toxic, failed relationships and marriages we hear about from friends and online.
((5) Contrary to the myth that "looks don't matter" to women, physical attraction may be the primary and key deciding factor for a woman. However, it is difficult to determine just what will be physically attractive to any particular female. Even though men also value looks, they are far more willing to initially compromise on looks in the pursuit of sex.
6) If a woman is initially physically attracted to a man, there is very little he can do wrong on a first date.
7) If a woman is not initially physically attracted to a man, there is very little he can do right on a first date.)
As I’ve often said, while there might be a "magical skeleton key" for men, it certainly doesn’t exist for women. Women face greater risks when it comes to dating, so their sexual preferences come with more stringent entry requirements. With the exception of promiscuous women, most have an ideal type of man in mind who they would readily be intimate with, while others might require more effort. Outside of these categories, a woman might find "on paper" an attractive man unattractive and reject him regardless of his looks, money, status, or other factors.
9) Just like there are many men who are simply *******s, the same goes for women. If a woman is rude or inconsiderate in the first few dates, move on immediately -- it will not get better with time.
33) Most reasonable, normal women will make it clear if they are attracted to you or not very early on. Period. If you have difficulty reading a woman's motives, or find yourself dwelling on what she meant by something she said, or you can't seem to pin down a date, then move on immediately.
Stop wasting your time chasing women with low interest or trying to interpret subtle signs of interest. When a woman is truly interested in you, she will make it clear—she’ll throw you the easiest opportunities, miss obvious cues to maintain the conversation, and stay in her feminine energy. A simple "yes" to a date, followed by a flake due to a “friend’s birthday,” is not a sign of high interest. Also, don’t mistake quick sex for high interest; it could mean something else entirely.
10) Any strange psychological problems, drug problems or baggage... move on immediately -- it will not get better with time.
21) Sex is generally overrated. The amount of effort expended in obtaining it vs. the payoff is absurd.
23) After breakups, men usually tend to forget about the sexual boredom and once again find their past girlfriends exciting.
32) Self-confident men desire sex, but don't dwell on it.
I feel like many men aren't properly vetting the women they pursue and are instead chasing after any lead they can get. Women, on the other hand, are very good at vetting men, even for the smallest details, while men seem more desperate for women to date, not just for sex. At the end of the day, it’s just sex, and the true test of your experience with women will be your ability to reject it in favor of a better opportunity or to protect your own self-respect.
Finally, only losers and fools go back to an ex-girlfriend. The situation is over, and now she holds all the power because you’ve essentially surrendered. Men often let sexual frustration cloud their judgment, leading them to ignore all the negatives in the relationship and find a reason to go back.
24) If a woman has not gained some form of emotional stability by the time she is her mid-twenties, then it is too late. Move on immediately.
Women are groomed from an earlier age and are generally expected by society to have their lives together sooner than men. Additionally, when a woman makes mistakes in life, the consequences are often more severe than those faced by her male counterparts. If you meet a woman who’s still struggling in her 30s, she’s essentially telling you that she ignored all the opportunities life gave her and chose to end up where she is.
There is obviously more to his post, but I didn't want to post a complete wall of text. Feel free to post your favorite points too.
I stumbled upon this gold mine randomly, and I wanted to highlight a few points to illustrate how much the Red Pill Movement has led men away from solid dating advice. None of these points suggest that all women are evil, that you should hide in a closet for 15 years "developing yourself," or that the world is ending.
3) Over the long run, the periods that men are without a partner and frustrated are generally happier than being stuck in a relationship which has lost its luster.
I fully agree with the notion that if you're ever feeling frustrated about being single and find yourself triggered by seeing other couples, it's important to remember that bad relationships do exist. That guy you see might be stuck in a relationship where he’s essentially a slave to a difficult partner.
4) Women generally do the selecting in the earliest phases of a relationship. Once a woman has committed herself emotionally, the balance of power shifts to the man (assuming he has some degree of self-confidence).
Understanding this concept is crucial: the early stages of dating aren't particularly fun for most men because they don’t hold much power. However, with perseverance and common sense, you can eventually find yourself on the winning side of the relationship. Many men make the mistake of committing to women who don’t truly commit their emotions to them, which often leads to the toxic, failed relationships and marriages we hear about from friends and online.
((5) Contrary to the myth that "looks don't matter" to women, physical attraction may be the primary and key deciding factor for a woman. However, it is difficult to determine just what will be physically attractive to any particular female. Even though men also value looks, they are far more willing to initially compromise on looks in the pursuit of sex.
6) If a woman is initially physically attracted to a man, there is very little he can do wrong on a first date.
7) If a woman is not initially physically attracted to a man, there is very little he can do right on a first date.)
As I’ve often said, while there might be a "magical skeleton key" for men, it certainly doesn’t exist for women. Women face greater risks when it comes to dating, so their sexual preferences come with more stringent entry requirements. With the exception of promiscuous women, most have an ideal type of man in mind who they would readily be intimate with, while others might require more effort. Outside of these categories, a woman might find "on paper" an attractive man unattractive and reject him regardless of his looks, money, status, or other factors.
9) Just like there are many men who are simply *******s, the same goes for women. If a woman is rude or inconsiderate in the first few dates, move on immediately -- it will not get better with time.
33) Most reasonable, normal women will make it clear if they are attracted to you or not very early on. Period. If you have difficulty reading a woman's motives, or find yourself dwelling on what she meant by something she said, or you can't seem to pin down a date, then move on immediately.
Stop wasting your time chasing women with low interest or trying to interpret subtle signs of interest. When a woman is truly interested in you, she will make it clear—she’ll throw you the easiest opportunities, miss obvious cues to maintain the conversation, and stay in her feminine energy. A simple "yes" to a date, followed by a flake due to a “friend’s birthday,” is not a sign of high interest. Also, don’t mistake quick sex for high interest; it could mean something else entirely.
10) Any strange psychological problems, drug problems or baggage... move on immediately -- it will not get better with time.
21) Sex is generally overrated. The amount of effort expended in obtaining it vs. the payoff is absurd.
23) After breakups, men usually tend to forget about the sexual boredom and once again find their past girlfriends exciting.
32) Self-confident men desire sex, but don't dwell on it.
I feel like many men aren't properly vetting the women they pursue and are instead chasing after any lead they can get. Women, on the other hand, are very good at vetting men, even for the smallest details, while men seem more desperate for women to date, not just for sex. At the end of the day, it’s just sex, and the true test of your experience with women will be your ability to reject it in favor of a better opportunity or to protect your own self-respect.
Finally, only losers and fools go back to an ex-girlfriend. The situation is over, and now she holds all the power because you’ve essentially surrendered. Men often let sexual frustration cloud their judgment, leading them to ignore all the negatives in the relationship and find a reason to go back.
24) If a woman has not gained some form of emotional stability by the time she is her mid-twenties, then it is too late. Move on immediately.
Women are groomed from an earlier age and are generally expected by society to have their lives together sooner than men. Additionally, when a woman makes mistakes in life, the consequences are often more severe than those faced by her male counterparts. If you meet a woman who’s still struggling in her 30s, she’s essentially telling you that she ignored all the opportunities life gave her and chose to end up where she is.
There is obviously more to his post, but I didn't want to post a complete wall of text. Feel free to post your favorite points too.
