Texting and meeting a married coworker

[Clockwerk50]

Let me just say that I don't think OP is an evil Person. I'll say it again I don't think OP is evil or a bad person. My argument moreso is with guys who are telling OP to go after a married woman at the workplace when this could not just put his livelihood at risk but also his life. It goes against what the site stands for and if you disagree so be it, moving on

OP has no control over how the husband reacts if the husband catches them or worse the actions said husband may take. How many times have we seen on the news of a guy killing his wife because she was cheating on him? or killing the guy she was cheating on him with? or killing both? I'm not saying this as a joke but I live in an "Open Carry" state. I know you don't live in the USA so let me break it down for you. Open Carry means that you can carry your gun on you with it being visible if you have a permit of course. People think twice before they physically fight(or try to rob someone) especially if they see someone carrying. If you live in a concealed state you better think twice too, I know some mother****ers that fantasize about the moment they can blast someone. There are certain risks you don't take or think about twice cause no one wants to get their head knocked off.

The husband is a variable that OP can't account for. The wife might pillow talk OP and say "He's a soft guy he won't do shyt" Everyone thinks that until the "Soft guy" catches his wife being doggystyled raw by another man on his bed. If said Husband has his Beretta or Glock while he catches them in the act what would he do in a fit of rage or lapse of judgment due to being highly emotional?

^^This guy was worth $5 million(made it all on Tik Tok)and lost his mind when he found out his wife was getting the extra fat sausage on the side and killed her and the dude.

Once again I'm not judging OP, I'm judging the people who are giving OP advice on how to carry out this affair. Some of you may think this is a joke or a game but there are people, especially in America who don't play that shyt. Not everything is for Internet likes or rep points when you start messing with people in real life you do not know how they are going to act if you violate something that may be deemed sacred!

I'm not sure if we're comparing apples to oranges here, but my main point is that men are often encouraged to pursue relationships with women who have boyfriends, essentially to "monkey branch." However, when it comes to the term "married," it suddenly becomes taboo and forbidden, as if the boyfriend couldn't potentially be dangerous or even suicidal. If OP wants to move forward with pursuing this worker, he should be allowed to do so. People are acting as morality police, focusing on the word "marriage". He specifically asked for advice on how to proceed.

I did a quick Google search and found that 65% of marriages affected by infidelity stay together. What do you think the rate is for murder in such scenarios? 1%? Remember, we're talking about a husband who is neglecting his wife's needs. He could be seeking out escorts instead of being banging his wife and might not care about what she does with her life. This is also a possible scenario.

 

[Gamisch]

I'm not sure if we're comparing apples to oranges here, but my main point is that men are often encouraged to pursue relationships with women who have boyfriends, essentially to "monkey branch." However, when it comes to the term "married," it suddenly becomes taboo and forbidden, as if the boyfriend couldn't potentially be dangerous or even suicidal. If OP wants to move forward with pursuing this worker, he should be allowed to do so. People are acting as morality police, focusing on the word "marriage". He specifically asked for advice on how to proceed.

I did a quick Google search and found that 65% of marriages affected by infidelity stay together. What do you think the rate is for murder in such scenarios? 1%? Remember, we're talking about a husband who is neglecting his wife's needs. He could be seeking out escorts instead of being banging his wife and might not care about what she does with her life. This is also a possible scenario.

Because marriage means you are tied together by law.

Assuming you also have shared assets it's not as easy to just bounce when one or both parties ain't feeling it no more.

Your stats don't show shootings, beat downs, stabbings, threats ect. .

Basically it's ill advice to chase a woman who is occupied. Again, it takes tons of experience to understand this. As @AmsterdamAssassin just said, this is fun and games when you are in your lower 20,s and can't even grasp what a frustrated man actually is. Once you get older and run through more women you'll know..

A woman with a bf is also a nono for me personally. Married? That's a different ballgame all together.

 

[Solomon]

Remember, we're talking about a husband who is neglecting his wife's needs. He could be seeking out escorts instead of being banging his wife and might not care about what she does with her life. This is also a possible scenario.

So you're saying not to make a moral argument just in the last sentence for you to make a moral argument based on projection lol ok
I'm done here

 

[Clockwerk50]

So you're saying not to make a moral argument just in the last sentence for you to make a moral argument based on projection lol ok
I'm done here

You mean an assumption?

@Gamisch actually made some valid points, and it kind of changed my point of view, somewhat. You on the other hand, not really.

 

[Clockwerk50]

Maybe we should bring @The Duke her so he can share his experience with married women…

 

[Solomon]

You mean an assumption?

@Gamisch actually made some valid points, and it kind of changed my point of view, somewhat. You on the other hand, not really.

Frankly I don't care if I change your mind or not, men who deal with married women are scum, if that's how you get down, that's on you but people like that aren't people I associate myself with online or in real life. It makes sense why some men have issues making other guy friends on here cause some of yall don't have any honor

I'm merely giving my opinion to OP's post that it's not worth it,

Game is Game

 

[Clockwerk50]

Frankly I don't care if I change your mind or not, men who deal with married women are scum, if that's how you get down, that's on you but people like that aren't people I associate myself with online or in real life. It makes sense why some men have issues making other guy friends on here cause some of yall don't have any honor

I'm merely giving my opinion to OP's post that it's not worth it,

Game is Game

Not sure if I should say “bye Felicia” or “you are starting to take things extremely personal”.

But anyways, good luck shooting me through the internet screen.

Peace.

 

[Solomon]

Not sure if I should say “bye Felicia” or “you are starting to take things extremely personal”.

But anyways, good luck shooting me through the internet screen.

Peace.

If you ever get married in the future, I pray you do not have to worry about walking In on your wife on her kness sucking off another man. Like I said in America people don't play that shyt. 34% of women die in the hands of a spouse, not sure where you got the 1% from

Toodles!

 

[Solomon]

Maybe we should bring @The Duke her so he can share his experience with married women…

Typical tactic of a man who can't hold his own, so he has to call for back up, I know your type very well, you the one to start fights when you have a crew but one on one you ain't about it like that

Toodles!

 

[Clockwerk50]

Typical tactic of a man who can't hold his own, so he has to call for back up, I know your type very well, you the one to start fights when you have a crew but one on one you ain't about it like that

Toodles!

We are literally in seduction forum talking about various topics concerning game and women and you are up to your tits because I don’t agree with you. You clearly need to work on your “stoicism”, “emotional control” or whatever mantra it makes get up in the morning because clearly this thread is not good for your blood pressure.

And yes, if my wife cheats on me it means either I didn’t pick right, I am not doing my job properly, or the dude that had sex with her is doing me a favour.

 

[Solomon]

We are literally in seduction forum talking about various topics concerning game and women and you are up to your tits because I don’t agree with you. You clearly need to work on your “stoicism”, “emotional control” or whatever mantra it makes get up in the morning because clearly this thread is not good for your blood pressure.

And yes, if my wife cheats on me it means either I didn’t pick right, I am not doing my job properly, or the dude that had sex with her is doing me a favour.

Once again when I talk facts you wanna duck and run and call for back up, lets talk about the 34% of women who die at the hands of their husbands facts.

Lets talk about Open and carry laws ooops I forgot you're not from America so you don't know WTF you talking about when it comes to that

Stoicism is a buzzword internet dorks like to throw around, I prefer to be direct and in face with it cause I have the same energy in person

I'm actually laughing as I'm typing this because I enjoy a good back and forth but you sir are not a worthy contender, your points a moot at best

 

[Clockwerk50]

Once again when I talk facts you wanna duck and run and call for back up, lets talk about the 34% of women who die at the hands of their husbands facts.

Lets talk about Open and carry laws ooops I forgot you're not from America so you don't know WTF you talking about when it comes to that

Stoicism is a buzzwords internet dorks like to throw around, I prefer to be direct and in face with it cause I have the same energy in person

You clearly love to go on tangents. For some reason we are discussing other topics now. Maybe you should try using all this energy and rage more efficiently, like go kick some rocks or something.

 

[Solomon]

You clearly love to go on tangents. For some reason we are discussing other topics now. Maybe you should try using all this energy and rage more efficiently, like go kick some rocks or something.

Once again you deflect like a little grade school girl, instead of addressing my points let's talk about

• 34% of women dying at the hands of their husbands
• Open and carry laws
• Loss of job or reputation dealing with married women at the workplace

Instead of you trying to respond in a butthurt manner cause you wanna have the lost words, or do they not have logic where you come from bub?

 

[Clockwerk50]

Once again you deflect like a little grade school girl, instead of addressing my points let's talk about

• 34% of women dying at the hands of their husbands
• Open and carry laws
• Loss of job or reputation dealing with married women at the workplace

Instead of you trying to respond in a butthurt manner cause you wanna have the lost words, or do they not have logic where you come from bub?

Ughhhhhh

• 34% of women dying at the hands of their husbands - Infidelity does not account as a reason for the murder of those women. Matter of fact, the study does not indicate a reason for the murder.
• Open and carry laws. I am assuming you are trying to tell me that because some states have an open and carry arms policy then they are most likely to kill a cheater. I don’t know what to answer to this since I don’t think there is a relationship between the 2 variables. However, people can murder with different tools and weapons. I think it is irrelevant, especially when you are looking at it globally and not only the 3 states but whatever, have your cookie. (I know there is more than 3 states that have this law, but please, keep it together. I am counting on you Salomon. Don’t let me down here)
• Loss of job or reputation dealing with married women at the workplace - I am talking about the “marriage” label exclusively from work. Apples to oranges. But whatever, you win.

I prefer if instead of calling me a school girl you went to school and learn to read the articles you trying to reference. You made me waste my time with irrelevant information. Thanks in advance Salomon.

 

[Solomon]

Ughhhhhh

• 34% of women dying at the hands of their husbands - Infidelity does not account as a reason for the murder of those women. Matter of fact, the study does not indicate a reason for the murder.
• Open and carry laws. I am assuming you are trying to tell me that because some states have an open and carry arms policy then they are most likely to kill a cheater. I don’t know what to answer to this since I don’t think there is a relationship between the 2 variables. However, people can murder with different tools and weapons. I think it is irrelevant, especially when you are looking at it globally and not only the 3 states but whatever, have your cookie. (I know there is more than 3 states that have this law, but please, keep it together. I am counting on you Salomon. Don’t let me down here)
• Loss of job or reputation dealing with married women at the workplace - I am talking about the “marriage” label exclusively from work. Apples to oranges. But whatever, you win.

I prefer if instead of calling me a school girl you went to school and learn to read the articles you trying to reference. You made me waste my time with irrelevant information. Thanks in advance Salomon.

1. 34%-Indeed but it's reasonable to assume that some of these deaths happen due to infidelity on one side or both we don't have the number or percentage for various reasons. In my opinion it's more than the 1% that you said, and I would stake my life savings on it. Where did you get 1% from? The article does talk about murder I understand English isn't your first language but I highly doubt you read the whole article paco

2. I'm talking about America, I could care less about the dating dynamics in Colombia or India etc. Why? Because most people here are from America, no one cares about the dating dynamics of where you from unless it's passport bros. In America you could lose your life being at a married woman's house smashing her on her and her husbands bed, the husband could assume you're raping his wife and take your life. The reality is we don't have the stats I give you that but to think that you can't lose your life messing with someone else's wife is a naive game to play one which I would rather not find out. Would you trust a 5-year-old to cut a cucumber with a sharp knife? I highly doubt it.

3. It goes back to my original argument back in the first page or so. If the woman gets caught she could lie and say she was forced or some other #metoo crap, see in America we have to deal with #Metoo I can't say how it impacts other countries nor do I care since I don't live there. I have personally seen it happen to a guy I know personally firsthand how a woman elicited a text from him then deleted part of the convo and showed HR the screenshots, he ended up getting fired she ended with zero consquences. Of course you do not care about that cause your objective is just enjoying the sugar walls but there are consequences to losing your job,

I prefer if instead of calling me a school girl you went to school and learn to read the articles you trying to reference. You made me waste my time with irrelevant information. Thanks in advance Salomon.

I prefer that you went back to school and realized my name is "Solomon" not "Salomon" but once again I understand English isn't your first language and having low IQ is something you can work on increasing sir, it's called reading books

 

[RangerMIke]

Advice to the OP....

Don't make time with married women... I would even avoid as much as possible women with serious boyfriends. I'm not even going to bother telling anyone why... because it should be obvious. Not only is it very dangerous, but who needs all that emotional garbage in their lives.

Don't date people you work with... trust this statement. EVERYONE where you work already has the pretty good idea exactly what is going on and absolutely NOTHING good will come from that.

 

[Clockwerk50]

So you literary referenced an article that had no indication of why they were murdered, pulled a number out of nowhere, then disregarded all the posters that post after hours in our time zone, and keep arguing about things that I am not even arguing you against. Keep moving the goal posts man.

For being such a masculine man you are really petty. I am REALLY scared that you will shoot me with your BB guns from Walmart or bass pro shop.

 

[Solomon]

So you literary referenced an article that had no indication of why they were murdered, pulled a number out of nowhere, then disregarded all the posters that post after hours in our time zone, and keep arguing about things that I am not even arguing you against. Keep moving the goal posts man.

For being such a masculine man you are really petty. I am REALLY scared that you will shoot me with your BB guns from Walmart or bass pro shop.

THe Site has truly lost it's way when you got low IQ members from 3rd world countries telling other men how to chase married women
It's truly a shame

 

[Clockwerk50]

You can TRY run from the fact that you are giving advice to men on how to pull married women that doesn't make you any less of a douchenozzle paco.

You can have the last words, Your LOW IQ retorts have been blocked and you have been exposed, Good luck chasing married poon, you Paco!

*Puts STOIC Paco on Ignore*

@BackInTheGame78 @Dr.Suave @RickTheToad @Pierce Manhammer Can we tell this guy to take it easy on the name calling? Maybe giving him a warning? He is going to get raging boner next time someone contradicts his ideas and start going off on his racism remarks. Maybe an illegal Mexican took his job and his wife, I don’t know, but he clearly took things personal.

@Gamisch thanks again man.

 

[Solomon]

@BackInTheGame78 @Dr.Suave @RickTheToad @Pierce Manhammer Can we tell this guy to take it easy on the name calling? Maybe giving him a warning? He is going to get raging boner next time someone contradicts his ideas and start going off on his racism remarks. Maybe an illegal Mexican took his job and his wife, I don’t know, but he clearly took things personal.

@Gamisch thanks again man.

Now Paco is trying to get me banned, Paco is not a racist term I can prove it

This low IQ person is trying to get me banned, cause I don't condone his lack of morals, it makes sense why this guy is struggling to live wherever he living at.

I'm proud to say I live in the greatest country in the world PACO doesn't make me racists