Drmuscular
Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 17, 2024
- Messages
- 15
- Reaction score
- 4
- Age
- 20
What im doing is that im straight up not bothering to make conversation with these women, so i just ask some random question with a big smile on my face and friendly demeanor (as if i was talking to a friend), if there is no compliance or disinterest i leave, if there is compliance then good i will ask for the number straight up, say: (hey i think you are cute, wanna give me your number?), no rapport building, not anything, then if they say yes good, if they say no then good, i have just started and i have done it 4 times, only got one number and i haven't texted yet, she tried to do some small talk asking about me but i was busy and had to go so i quickly left, im reserving my "game" for real life interactions, and also I'm pretty sure I'm **** at texting but cool irl.
Anyways some friends told me this was "weird" and that it will eventually get me arrested or shouted at because it is borderline harassment and that they only approach via Instagram or do that in parties after talking, i assured them that i was always polite, didn't try hard, and didn't insist at all, if they say no i politely say my goodbyes and go on my way, the reactions that i have gotten is a polite no, a laugh with a no, a laugh with a yes, but i wonder if i will encounter rude people along the way, i didn't see it that way but idk maybe it could be weird?.
I don't want to use Instagram nor OLD, mostly because i have always found social media shallow and only reserve it for my good friends only, any thoughts on this? i haven't had time to see if girls actually follow up but im sure that getting the number is half the battle right?.
At the same time i realize that most of the "players" i know text girls all the time, while here on sosuave there are guys vouching for straight up only texting for going out, which i understand because it cuts every game and lets you know straight away if you are going to get it (and also is what im planning to do, a simple hey its (me) how are you, then straight up for the date), yet i think this approach doesn't let people "explore" what can be done or what these players do via text to increase interest, and also i have done that and i think girls my age do think it is a weird/strange thing.
Anyways some friends told me this was "weird" and that it will eventually get me arrested or shouted at because it is borderline harassment and that they only approach via Instagram or do that in parties after talking, i assured them that i was always polite, didn't try hard, and didn't insist at all, if they say no i politely say my goodbyes and go on my way, the reactions that i have gotten is a polite no, a laugh with a no, a laugh with a yes, but i wonder if i will encounter rude people along the way, i didn't see it that way but idk maybe it could be weird?.
I don't want to use Instagram nor OLD, mostly because i have always found social media shallow and only reserve it for my good friends only, any thoughts on this? i haven't had time to see if girls actually follow up but im sure that getting the number is half the battle right?.
At the same time i realize that most of the "players" i know text girls all the time, while here on sosuave there are guys vouching for straight up only texting for going out, which i understand because it cuts every game and lets you know straight away if you are going to get it (and also is what im planning to do, a simple hey its (me) how are you, then straight up for the date), yet i think this approach doesn't let people "explore" what can be done or what these players do via text to increase interest, and also i have done that and i think girls my age do think it is a weird/strange thing.