I see alot of threads where most advice is that she should respect you etc etc.
But I feel like most of this advice can be summed up in to just “LOVE YOURSELF”.
So what does this mean? When looking for a partner you need to know who you are, what you look for in a partner and obviously also have some sort of connection with that person. I would like to also listen to what my gut says about a woman im seeing.
I believe that relationships are as simple as setting certain boundaries, knowing who you are and being honest towards and about yourself. If you do not communicate this early on the possible future relationship wont last.
Most women also just want to feel heard from her emotional perspective, so my advice would be to just listen, rephrase what she is saying so she feels heard and dont give any logical advice. After that just make her feel held. By doing this you are already 1-0 ahead than most men, because most men just argue their logical perspective which causes alot of fights and her being unhappy and not understood in a relationship, which will make her leave you.
After making her emotional perspective feel understood you can tell your logical perspective which will make you also feel heard and happier in the relationship.
This is just the beginning, its important to have had bad times in a relationship and see how she will act according to her feelings at that moment. Does she cheat, will she cross boundaries you have set in the beginning? If so, then its up to you if you accept the crossing of boundaries or not. A good woman wont cross any boundaries as she respects them, mainly because you respect and love yourself. You are content being alone.
And yes, there are many good women out there. You just have to stop thinking with your **** and stop approaching women who know what the **** they are doing when they wear extremely tight clothes “just for herself”. These type of women are usually the women we as men notice and are attracted to.
But I feel like most of this advice can be summed up in to just “LOVE YOURSELF”.
So what does this mean? When looking for a partner you need to know who you are, what you look for in a partner and obviously also have some sort of connection with that person. I would like to also listen to what my gut says about a woman im seeing.
I believe that relationships are as simple as setting certain boundaries, knowing who you are and being honest towards and about yourself. If you do not communicate this early on the possible future relationship wont last.
Most women also just want to feel heard from her emotional perspective, so my advice would be to just listen, rephrase what she is saying so she feels heard and dont give any logical advice. After that just make her feel held. By doing this you are already 1-0 ahead than most men, because most men just argue their logical perspective which causes alot of fights and her being unhappy and not understood in a relationship, which will make her leave you.
After making her emotional perspective feel understood you can tell your logical perspective which will make you also feel heard and happier in the relationship.
This is just the beginning, its important to have had bad times in a relationship and see how she will act according to her feelings at that moment. Does she cheat, will she cross boundaries you have set in the beginning? If so, then its up to you if you accept the crossing of boundaries or not. A good woman wont cross any boundaries as she respects them, mainly because you respect and love yourself. You are content being alone.
And yes, there are many good women out there. You just have to stop thinking with your **** and stop approaching women who know what the **** they are doing when they wear extremely tight clothes “just for herself”. These type of women are usually the women we as men notice and are attracted to.