EndlessNameless
Don Juan
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Hi guys, I would like to have your opinion on what happened to me recently with some hot young chicks on two different occasions.
It’s funny because the exact same situation happened with those two girls. First one was 24, second one was 21. I should also mention that I’m in my 40s, so quite a big age gap here. But I am also 6’´2 and in the best shape of my life, which is quite an advantage.
I met them when I was spending some time abroad doing group activities. This gave me the opportunity to see them everyday and be close to them during a week span.
Here is what happens :
- Girl starts to look at me numerous times during the trip, we make eye contact several days in a row, she even smiles at me.
- Girl makes it very easy for me to go talk to her (she deliberately stands close to me when we are outside or she sits right next to me at the bar). This happened several times.
- Thinking these are good IOI, I go talk to her (i am introverted so I wait two or three days before I do this).
- When we start talking, girl is cold and looks barely interested. I keep the conversation going but she does not do much to help me, she barely asks questions.
- I back off and stop engaging in conversations with her.
- Girl continues to stare at me from a distance and make new eye contacts.
Some possibilities I can think of :
1- she may think I am cute but for whatever reason she is not really interested (she thinks I am too old anyway).
2- girl is interested but when she hears me talk she realizes I am dull and boring (which I find it hard to believe because she acts cold right off the bat).
3- girl is interested but because she is hot and chased by other guys, she wants me to chase harder.
My ego would very much prefer option number 3, but if this is true, I realize unfortunately that I am not willing to put the efforts which are required in order to bed those kind of girls. I have become kind of lazy and passive with girls and I know that this has cost me a lot of missed opportunities.
I would like to hear what you guys think goes into the mind of those young ladies and how I should act the next time I am into this kind of situation.
It’s funny because the exact same situation happened with those two girls. First one was 24, second one was 21. I should also mention that I’m in my 40s, so quite a big age gap here. But I am also 6’´2 and in the best shape of my life, which is quite an advantage.
I met them when I was spending some time abroad doing group activities. This gave me the opportunity to see them everyday and be close to them during a week span.
Here is what happens :
- Girl starts to look at me numerous times during the trip, we make eye contact several days in a row, she even smiles at me.
- Girl makes it very easy for me to go talk to her (she deliberately stands close to me when we are outside or she sits right next to me at the bar). This happened several times.
- Thinking these are good IOI, I go talk to her (i am introverted so I wait two or three days before I do this).
- When we start talking, girl is cold and looks barely interested. I keep the conversation going but she does not do much to help me, she barely asks questions.
- I back off and stop engaging in conversations with her.
- Girl continues to stare at me from a distance and make new eye contacts.
Some possibilities I can think of :
1- she may think I am cute but for whatever reason she is not really interested (she thinks I am too old anyway).
2- girl is interested but when she hears me talk she realizes I am dull and boring (which I find it hard to believe because she acts cold right off the bat).
3- girl is interested but because she is hot and chased by other guys, she wants me to chase harder.
My ego would very much prefer option number 3, but if this is true, I realize unfortunately that I am not willing to put the efforts which are required in order to bed those kind of girls. I have become kind of lazy and passive with girls and I know that this has cost me a lot of missed opportunities.
I would like to hear what you guys think goes into the mind of those young ladies and how I should act the next time I am into this kind of situation.