Men don't need to take the blue pill. The blue pill ideology is the typical ideology on romantic relationships in the United States and other Western nations. The typical male in the USA is a beta male with a blue pill ideology on romantic relationships. Most social circles (even the bougie one I describe the thread below) operate with a blue pill ideology.
Yesterday, I was on my Instagram and saw a pregnancy announcement from an acquaintance's wife in my social circle. I don't particularly like her. I find it annoying to be around her the 1-2 times a year I ever randomly see her in person. Right now, there are 3 women from my local area social...
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The red pill and black pill are the ideologies that challenge the dominant ideology of the culture.
Backyard barbecues help to ease the pain of an irregular sex longer term relationship (typically a marriage).
The typical marriage in the 2010s-2020s has less sex in it than the typical marriage of the 1980s.
For the typical male, the choice is often between a marriage with irregular sex and running their life around their children's needs or irregular sex while being mostly alone and struggling to get attention and longer term relationships. The first choice looks better in the eyes of the culture because you'll be able to put up some happy social media pictures and videos online. Additionally, you tend to get more respect from outsiders. In the second choice, you have more personal freedom and that's better.
The best way to live is being red pill and getting laid regularly.
One of the consequences of a blue pill marriage with a predictable divorce is the loss of the marital house. A lot of blue pilled divorce guys do end up buying some lesser house for the sake of the children after the divorce.