I would say around the 7 months mark.
I had to leave the place i was renting by myself because of mold and other problems and she suggested to move in together pretty much.
And gents, THIS is what's causing all these issues. The 7month mark is basically ome month past the initial honeymoon phase (6 months)
You see, you literally entered HER frame. As in, her 4 walls, nothing can describe HER FRAME any better.
( truth bomb alarm!!).
Lets be real; you THOUGHT you had it good..you weren't upset nor irritated nor ashamed, even tho you should almost tell her:
"nah thanks imma sleep on my homeboy,s couch for two weeks."
The latter is another thing:
IF you go to her place..make sure it (starts as) is a TEMPORARY thing. 2 weeks max. Why because NO MAN should EVER wanna live with a woman because HE doesn't has his shyte together! Thats basically starting the relationship as her little troublesome brother.
Those two weeks you grind your azz of to improve your situation ASAP. She must SEE and witness your hustler mindset.
If a man decides to live with a woman ;(just my opinion not a biblical law ofcourse)
- 1.she must BEG him. A continuous process of her being humble . So a man can lay down all of his demands
-2. it can NEVER be at her place..
-3. You still wanna have AT LEAST enough money to get a room somewhere the moment you KNOW it's time to go.
Lets especially look at 2. The difference between your place and her place is like summer vs winter. Yes yes yes , your mindset is one that says " mi casa es su casa sin bullshyte". But unfortunately it doesn't work the same way with women.. then it suddenly is :me case me case not su casa no no no ME casa".
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Quick back story: when me and my baby momma broke up it was EXTREMELY ugly. I had to restart and lost everything. I rented a shytehole of a room and met another woman. Me being devastated, I wasn't able to jump into something new. But she kept pushing me..live here ,here's the key to my house, buying me weed and beer and offering me bj,s every day.
Despite all of this, I decided from the get go I WONT try to take shortcuts now and use her ( aka COUNT on her)..i MUST be able to self sufficient at ALL costs. Yes, I hang with her..and just fecking her was already a OBVIOUS trade off( her p00sy and place and facilities vs my presence in her life..) I simply KNEW that IF I'd take her offer, she would change her mind REALLY quick..
Moral of the background story? When a deal seems to good to be true , assume it is. And even when it isn't, your internal mentality should always tell you you rather die than being dependent upon another person, let alone a woman!!