Blackpill song from over a decade ago

[corrector]

I never got into the whole 'pill' thing and don't really know exactly what they all mean, but I agree with what you said. I'd say i'm very 'black pilled' but then I'm also nothing like what many 'blackpillers' seem to be.

It seems most are just depressed, bitter guys who don't approach or get laid and just like to talk about how you need to be very very good looking to get laid without paying for it so just don't try at all.

Whereas I'm a pretty happy guy in general. Good social circle, and I have a decent sex life i'm very content with etc - yet i'm still 'blackpilled' to the point that I know that looks is basically everything when it comes to getting laid with very hot, very young things (especially from cold approach). They're as 'superficial' as we are! haha. As you rightly said, going out with very good looking friends will surely convince anyone. (i wrote many FR's back in the day when I was more of a PUA and would often go out with my wingman at the time who was a very very good looking guy! It was brutal. The Sh1t I saw! lol. Would be impossible to NOT be blackpilled after seeing that)

The people who think otherwise are usually just much older guys who are out of touch, don't have the sort of sex life with the sort of girls i'm even interested in, and likely never did. They wouldn't have a hope in hell of attracting the sort of girls I want, yet they still are like 'girls don't care about looks. They like me because of my masculine frame blablala'. Kind of deluded and for sure invisible to the girls I'm after. OR they're basically paying for play etc.

But My thing is always, instead of getting upset about it and spending all of your time moaning, get as good looking as possible (gym, fashion, even SURGERY if you can afford it. I've seen some outstanding results of people going from 'ugly' to good looking with well researched (and very expensive) surgery who went from incels to slayers). Also, never ever forget that even though looks are basically everything, not every girl has identical taste. There are outliers out there. I've always advised approaching loads so that you can find them! You need thick skin of course as you are going to be told to go away or get ignored by hot 18 years olds a lot if you aren't her type. Move on. I learnt this fairly early on when working in an office of young girls. They'd spend all day not working but browing insta, looking for hot guys to DM or flirt with, and usually they'd all go for the same guys (tall, young, facially handsome etc) but there was one (probably thje hottest of them) who always chose guys I the other girls thought was ugly. She just had different taste. And I feel like it's been confirmed over the years when i've managed to bang a fair few very hot girls who made it easy for me (as they do with guys they think are hot) and i'm no oil painting!

As is always said, it's a numbers game. You can't negotiate attraction. Don't waste money on PUA rubbish. NLP verbals and whatever else as there's a 'skill level' you can get too where you can somehow brainwash girls lol. Fantasy. Sher decides in about 0.5 seconds. Find the girls who decide in your favour

Yeah, find the outliers. With even the photo-ratings, site, you could be a 3 but there are outliers that would show 7 - 8. It looks like you are motivated by the "outliers" as it is worth it for you in the end. Rather than improving yourself to raise an average score (ie how you conventionally look), its easier to just search out for outliers and someone who you would like you like you are?

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Yeah, find the outliers. With even the photo-ratings, site, you could be a 3 but there are outliers that would show 7 - 8. It looks like you are motivated by the "outliers" as it is worth it for you in the end. Rather than improving yourself to raise an average score (ie how you conventionally look), its easier to just search out for outliers and someone who you would like you like you are?

If you are an 8. You already know. People will straight up tell you, you are handsome. No need for online tests.

 

[Epicwinguy]

Really dude? You think it was rare for a girl to give her number out back then? No, no...things are the same now as they were back then.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Really dude? You think it was rare for a girl to give her number out back then? No, no...things are the same now as they were back then.

I don’t think it was rare. She is implying, via the title of the song, that doing so. back then, was risqué, or daring or such. I will say. It seems more common now. I have a GF and this week 3 girls have given me their number.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I have a GF and this week 3 girls have given me their number.

I don't even accept their numbers anymore, my contact list is too full.

 

[Millard Fillmore]

Dude it's a song. From a female POV. I barely listen to what they say IRL. This is like saying that women were less likely to destroy a man's car before that stupid country song where the chick gets her revenge.

Not only that but the past decade+ the trend is for female empowerment in pop songs.

Finally yeah women will do this but it's nothing new. Actually she just gives him her number. Some women will fukk a guy that night if the circumstances are right. I don't pay attention to "pills" but women are women. The whole "Chad" thing makes me laugh - I don't have a boogeyman.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

For the vast majority, guys with good looks have way more social opportunities and even.if they are narcassistic know how to manipulate people to get out on top. Usually someone who treats someone like trash is after they got what they wanted and the person has no value to them. They can easily build up a new social circle or meet new people online so it does not matter even if they drive people away.

Yes it opens doors for them initially. That's obvious.

Those doors will be slammed in their face tho if they don't act congruently tho.

 

[corrector]

On the other hand, is there anything really new with that song. If you look into 80s pop, 90s or even 00s pop, isn't that the same implied thing? If you take Cyndi Lauper with "Girls' Just Want to Have Fun", or Banorama ("Love In the First Degree music video, I Hear a Rumour") where they have a bunch of chads/tyrones dancing around them showing their abs,e tc... these are all 80s music videos and how would that be different than the more comparatively recent Carly Rae Jepsen, assuming that point were true (ie which I think is debatable in and of itself since she uses "Brads" rather than "Chads" on her actual music videos when guys are shown around her).