Kink-Friendly Discussion thread

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I have never understood bondage stuff. It has never been my thing.

Bondage is not everyone's kink. What is your kink?

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

It's fun on occasion to switch things up, but I'm a firm believer the man should be the dominant >95% of the time.

Being a Primal dominant is part of my nature, I don't enjoy any type of submission, which is also why I always had conflicts with authority. Only when I was the authority did I feel peace. I guess that's why I also enjoyed working as a cooler in nightclubs.

 

[CountSuavula]

This is probably not a kink but just a technique that does slay a lot of women. More of an unacceptable taboo. I will be physically abusive to some women. Give them bruises. I have a whole list of trashy physical abuse routines they like. It is more of a taboo but I never hear any complaints they just take it. Small hidden bruises are like relationship bonding to some babes?

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Some women are known in B.D.S.M. circles as 'pain slvts' who enjoy being covered in bruises and welts from impact play and whipping, but as a dominant you have to make sure they consent verbally before you play with them because without consent that would be (domestic) abuse.

 

[CountSuavula]

My routine has no slave master type props. It’s truly not my style. It makes me uncomfortable for whatever reason. Well, actually I am tall and have a big weapon so maybe that has something to do with it? Is kink for guys with smaller weapons?

My routine does not include verbal abuse or psychological abuses because I just consider females to be entirely better equipped for mind games. Females are all born with PhD’s in mind abuse games, so I play the physical abuse version.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

My routine has no slave master type props.

I have no routine, but I don't use 'props' either. As long as you do everything consensually, there shouldn't be a problem.

 

[kleathe1]

I have no routine, but I don't use 'props' either. As long as you do everything consensually, there shouldn't be a problem.

Do many of your "kittens" take much persuading for the first go-round? I presented the idea of some light bondage with a girl I've been talking to for a few months and she said it "sounds interesting".

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Do many of your "kittens" take much persuading for the first go-round? I presented the idea of some light bondage with a girl I've been talking to for a few months and she said it "sounds interesting".

No, many of them seek me out for shibari. Others notice the suspension points and ask what they're for.
If I have to persuade someone to try bondage, I won't do it. Consent is mandatory, but eager participation is necessary for me to have a good session.

 

[Bingo-Player]

You guys ever have a chick give you a BJ using her teeth? First time with a new girl last night where I had to tell her she’s not eating corn on the cob.

I guess some dudes are into this?

that's just inexperience most girls are terrible at BJ's

 

[Solomon]

The Kink community in my town is huge but it's low key(I'm not in it but aware having dated a few girls in the past that were heavy into kink)
To any first time guy Kink isn't about yelling at a woman calling her ***** and smacking her taking out your redpill rage on her lol
I'm appalled by how many stories I hear of women having these type of experiences

Part of the first convo is always about consent&boundaries (safewords., what she is into etc)whether it's in person or online
I do this even with "Vanilla" girls it shocks me how many guys don't have this conversation in this post #metoo era
Even if you're not into Kink or the community this is mandatory in this day and age

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

The Kink community in my town is huge but it's low key(I'm not in it but aware having dated a few girls in the past that were heavy into kink)
To any first time guy Kink isn't about yelling at a woman calling her ***** and smacking her taking out your redpill rage on her lol
I'm appalled by how many stories I hear of women having these type of experiences

Part of the first convo is always about consent&boundaries (safewords., what she is into etc)whether it's in person or online
I do this even with "Vanilla" girls it shocks me how many guys don't have this conversation in this post #metoo era
Even if you're not into Kink or the community this is mandatory in this day and age

Do you have the impression that most girls are submissive?

 

[Solomon]

Do you have the impression that most girls are submissive?

Are you talking about the kink community or in general?
I think in the Kink community yes in general in 2024 it honestly depends on the girl, heck even feminist will be submissive in bed if you get the right one but if we are talking overall submission outside of the bedroom I would say it's hit or miss

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

Are you talking about the kink community or in general?
I think in the Kink community yes in general in 2024 it honestly depends on the girl, heck even feminist will be submissive in bed if you get the right one but if we are talking overall submission outside of the bedroom I would say it's hit or miss

All the girls I met that were into kinky stuff wheter light or heavy were all submissive.

They wanted to be dominated, sometime tied and so on, not even once I met one like in adult movies.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

My personal favorite is for chicks with long hair where you wrap it around their neck and choke them with their own hair

 

[Fruitbat]

Im not sure what qualifies a kink.
Not really into bondage, but I do think it’s hot a girl blowing yoh with her hands handcuffed behind her back, other than that I’m meh on it. Oh, I like spanking a girls ass a little.

My major thing is clothing. I like a girl dressed up nice in the bedroom. Nothing weird, just skirts, nice panties, stockings etc. so one of my main hobbies is buying stuff for my wife who actually really enjoys this side of our sex life. We have uniforms too, which I like more for the fact they look hot, I have no urge to roleplay, we also have cosplay stuff which is cool.

other than that, nothing out of the ordinary. I was overjoyed when I explained the dressing up thing and she said she was super keen.

When women just roll around in sweats without any effort I find them less attractive. I also find women being butt naked kind of boring.

also it has always been “normal” for sex to be me dominant her submissive. I’ve never had a sexual partner not want this dynamic, other than one, and she turned out a lesbian in the long run. And yes, I was one of the last men she slept with, so there is a chance I turned her lesbian

 

[Divorced w 3]

I’ll start. I have bull semen and I enjoy going down on my girl after I empty my balls inside her. This is something I could do every single time. It’s dirty but it’s not too outrageous. Downside is that it takes a minute or two to get over the mental hurdle after busting but that’s fixed by her starting to get herself off which reignites the interest in doing it. It’s like when you kill a bull and eat its heart for the spiritual and physical energy. Yeah I said it. Put yourself out there

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Nothing.
The kinkiest I’ll get is I’ll let a girl give me a BJ if she insists.
I’m very vanilla.

One time I started dating a sexy girl in our social circle. One of my friends said: ‘This will interesting. You’re a cup of warm milk & she’s a shot of Jager.’

 

[Divorced w 3]

Merge

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Anal and if the girl wasn't to taste her ass after I pull it out then she can go for it...just don't try and kiss me after haha

Mostly just fvcking them long and hard and trying to dehydrate them from fluid loss

 

[Divorced w 3]

Wait, you like to pretty much eat your own semen?

Totonka