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We have to consider how other readers might interpret it as well and yours was unfortunately way too easy to misinterpret.
Of course, that is why I put Kink-Friendly in the title, to make sure no innocents wander in on the depravity. ;)

So far this thread is acceptable.
Except for the fart fetish...
 

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Poessyfooting vs Manhandling:

I find that many women like roughness and manhandling more than being gentle and tender. How do you perceive this? Are women more interested in rough men or gentlemen?
 

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Fingering with nitrile gloves:

One thing about mixing shibari with sex is that you don't want to untie your bunny when your hands are sticky with her juices, but you can't just leave them alone and wash your hands somewhere outside the room. My solution was to use black nitrile gloves (that I use for changing ink ribbons on vintage typewriters) for fingering or fisting, since afterward I can just strip off the gloves and handle my ropes with clean hands.

Several of my kittens have requested that I always use the thin nitrile gloves when fingering them, so I won't accidentally scratch them with my nails. It relaxes them more that the gloves are like slicker fingers, still retaining the warmth of my fingers.

Another advantage for my kittens is that the gloves are always clean, so there is no chance of my fingers carrying minute particles of foreign matter into their delicate fauna (women can get yeast infections from foreign bacteria entering their vulva from, for instance, unwashed hands or genitals).

Has anyone else incorporated gloves for intimate play? What are your findings?
 

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Anyone done any cervix play? The Internet medical "experts" claim it's impossible to penetrate a cervix with the tip of your penis but I've experienced it and it added a whole new dimension. Definitely difficult to hit.

Ever had a girl orgasm from massaging her cervix with fingers?
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

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To penetrate the cervix?
Yes. Just a portion of the tip of your penis in her cervix. I had no idea what I'd hit when it first happened, but I thought I struck gold.
 

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I really like conservative Asian chicks who want to wipe perverts and woke wierdoes off the planet. Totally does it for me.
 
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Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

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A small wound on my right hand led to me using a black nitrile glove to finger one of my bound kittens and she loved the slickness as well as the diminished risk of me accidentally scratching her with a fingernail. As a result, she could relax easier and reached orgasm faster as well.

In the previous month I experimented with using nitrile gloves on other kittens and not only did they enjoy the fingering even more, I also kept my hands clean and didn't need to clean my hands before untying them.

So, if you have nitrile gloves, go and play doctor and see whether she likes your fingers in her pvssy even more.
 

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I'm pretty vanilla I am happy to put my penis inside a wet vagina and thrust hard until I come with a bit of dirty talk and teasing.

That said I am a bit open to light bondage and I have a paddle and handcuffs but I can't usually be bothered to use them. I know some girls are into ropes and stuff but I don't have the patience for it.

I also like certain outfits and clothing, lingerie, french maid, schoolgirls, stockings, high heels, all sorts of stuff but nothing weird.

This pic I took with a psycho ex summarizes much of what I like...

 
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I remember that one, it was very hard to interpret it differently. We have to consider how other readers might interpret it as well and yours was unfortunately way too easy to misinterpret.

So far this thread is acceptable.
yes non- kink or could be labeled welham.png for pc
 

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That said I am a bit open to light bondage and I have a paddle and handcuffs but I can't usually be bothered to use them. I know some girls are into ropes and stuff but I don't have the patience for it.
Patience is kryptonite. Women are used to making men impatient. If you can turn the tables on them and make them impatient, you can hook her into an addiction.
 

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Paying with oral sex:

My kittens enjoy giving me fellatio and receiving irrumatio, but I recently added a new play by telling them that espresso is free, but they have to pay for milk foam and for sugar with oral sex.

What kind of games have you introduced in your sex life?
 

Well I'm here to tell you there is such a magic wand. Something that will make you almost completely irresistible to any woman you "point it" at. Something guaranteed to fill your life with love, romance, and excitement.

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I've started delaying ejaculation until my wife begs me for it (sometimes). She has to 'earn' my cvm.
One of my kittens was fellating me when she mentioned wanting me to make her a cappuccino (she cannot make it herself on my Pavoni espresso machine), so I told her she paid for the milk, but if she also wanted sugar, she'd have to kiss my cojones.
So now every time I mention coffee, I stand before her and she fellates me for milk and kisses my cojones for sugar. :cool:

I found that most women enjoy these playful moments because they also increase the intimacy between the two of you.
 

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One of my kittens was fellating me when she mentioned wanting me to make her a cappuccino (she cannot make it herself on my Pavoni espresso machine), so I told her she paid for the milk, but if she also wanted sugar, she'd have to kiss my cojones.
So now every time I mention coffee, I stand before her and she fellates me for milk and kisses my cojones for sugar. :cool:

I found that most women enjoy these playful moments because they also increase the intimacy between the two of you.
YOu didn't take a picture while she was on her knees? JK
 

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I have never understood bondage stuff. It has never been my thing.

Never have I been the submissive type of guy either. The second a women even entertains me being the submissive it is an instant turn off for me, and they know it right away and they stop ever suggesting it.
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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