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Agree, sample sizes of one mean nothing and the event happened in late 2012.
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sosuave213
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She just unmatched me on Hinge.
Bullet dodged?
Bullet dodged?
Barrister
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Guys get into way too much trouble worrying about this kind of thing.
The old rule used to be 3 days to text after the 1st date unless she reached out first. At the end of the day, that rule existed to admonish men who are overly thirsty and wanting to spam text a chick they just took out for the first time. Because that kills mystery and by operation, kills attraction.
However, if you are confident and the date went very well, my experience has been you hurt yourself more by simply disappearing completely without a trace for over a week after that. Carrying positive momentum is not a bad thing. No, you don't want to be overly available or spam texting, but disappearing many times can be sniffed out by these women as game playing and hurt you in the long run -- mostly because you leave the door open for some other guy to come in.
The old rule used to be 3 days to text after the 1st date unless she reached out first. At the end of the day, that rule existed to admonish men who are overly thirsty and wanting to spam text a chick they just took out for the first time. Because that kills mystery and by operation, kills attraction.
However, if you are confident and the date went very well, my experience has been you hurt yourself more by simply disappearing completely without a trace for over a week after that. Carrying positive momentum is not a bad thing. No, you don't want to be overly available or spam texting, but disappearing many times can be sniffed out by these women as game playing and hurt you in the long run -- mostly because you leave the door open for some other guy to come in.
Yeah, by her
sosuave213
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Kick a man while he's down. Nice.
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.