Do you think chicks go for "fukboys" because the chicks like being mistreated, or because the fukboys are Chads, and they put up with it b/c of this?

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I’ve never been a fvckboy. Wanted to be but never could be lol I’ve always been the friend or the invisible guy or “he’s alright, he’s nice but I want this other guy”
 

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I’ve never been a fvckboy. Wanted to be but never could be lol I’ve always been the friend or the invisible guy or “he’s alright, he’s nice but I want this other guy”
How were you not a fucckboy as a college football player? You did play football at a small school but one would think you had enough status then to be a fucckboy.

It can be a guy with a lot of options but it usually refers to a guy who is extremely good looking but cannot get his life together. Like a male model-looking bartender who's 30 years old with no degree, no money, no assets, living with 3 roommates, but gets laid a lot. High value women will f*ck the guy but the women are usually the ones that will leave it at that. That's probably a better definition.
This sounds a little bit like @BPH . He's put up a 90+ notch count primarily as a fucckboy. He has a bachelor's degree but still lives with his parents outside of a major city.
 

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How were you not a fucckboy as a college football player? You did play football at a small school but one would think you had enough status then to be a fucckboy.



This sounds a little bit like @BPH . He's put up a 90+ notch count primarily as a fucckboy. He has a bachelor's degree but still lives with his parents outside of a major city.
Because I was stupid and had a girlfriend all through college lol she was a cheerleader at our school and we met at orientation since football players and cheerleaders had to be there before all students due to camp. Met her day 1 and was locked down from then on lol
 

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Because I was stupid and had a girlfriend all through college lol she was a cheerleader at our school and we met at orientation since football players and cheerleaders had to be there before all students due to camp. Met her day 1 and was locked down from then on lol
Someone can identify with why you did what you did. She was a cheerleader and likely more attractive than most on campus. You could have had more elite campus pussie than just one cheerleader. The appeal of one steady girlfriend with elite level looks can be difficult to turn down, especially when she is 18 and at peak looks.
 

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Someone can identify with why you did what you did. She was a cheerleader and likely more attractive than most on campus. You could have had more elite campus pussie than just one cheerleader. The appeal of one steady girlfriend with elite level looks can be difficult to turn down, especially when she is 18 and at peak looks.
I mean she was very pretty but she wasn’t the hottest girl on campus or even the hottest cheerleader in the group by far. She was solid though, fit, bubbly personality even made the first move on me. Walked right up to me at orientation and said “hey I’m Audrey, where you from?” and it went from there.
 

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I think at that age we can excuse him for that. If I had someone like that at 18, there's no way I'm not girlfriending her up. Especially having been raised on the "marry your gf" lifestyle they sold to most men in your typical public school.
 

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I think something that's already been addressed is broken women but I would take it a step further and say that you have a lot of women that just ain't no good. The old adage that water seeks its own level is very true. (Naive) men have this fantasy that because a woman looks good she must be good which couldn't be further from the truth. Some women like bad, exciting, fun evil men because it's a reflection of themselves
 

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Some women like bad, exciting, fun evil men because it's a reflection of themselves
But what is in it for the bad, exciting fun evil men?
 

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How were you not a fucckboy as a college football player? You did play football at a small school but one would think you had enough status then to be a fucckboy.



This sounds a little bit like @BPH . He's put up a 90+ notch count primarily as a fucckboy. He has a bachelor's degree but still lives with his parents outside of a major city.
Yeah, it's interesting. If we were to graph it, looks for men are extremely important to women in their teens and early-mid 20's and then the looks part starts to diminish and the success/money/assets part starts to go up. Women say they'd rather laugh in a cardboard box than cry in a mansion which is BS. As they mature, woman want a guy who has his s*hit together, has goals, and can contribute to a family or at least financially hold up his end in a marriage/LTR. A woman who has to financially support a man is generally a huge turn-off. Financial stress is one of the main reasons people get divorced.
 

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Yeah, it's interesting. If we were to graph it, looks for men are extremely important to women in their teens and early-mid 20's and then the looks part starts to diminish and the success/money/assets part starts to go up. Women say they'd rather laugh in a cardboard box than cry in a mansion which is BS. As they mature, woman want a guy who has his s*hit together, has goals, and can contribute to a family or at least financially hold up his end in a marriage/LTR. A woman who has to financially support a man is generally a huge turn-off. Financial stress is one of the main reasons people get divorced.
I'd agree. I've always said that Game is some combination of looks, money, status, and personality. Looks is usually number #1 and very dominant for men up until around age 30. After age 30, money and status gradually take on more importance, but looks are still quite important.

In longer term relationships, it is usually bad sign for both the quality and the longevity of a relationship the woman in the relationship earns more than the man. It is a turn off for a woman when she earns more than a man, even if the man earns a solid salary.
 

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This sounds a little bit like @BPH . He's put up a 90+ notch count primarily as a fucckboy. He has a bachelor's degree but still lives with his parents outside of a major city.
Fuccboy always had a negative connotation in my opinion...to me it's not somebody who fuccs a lot but rather some frat boy who only thinks about fuccing (and usually coming up unsuccessful in that).

Like that guy Brad from the movie Extract who they hire to try and seduce his wife...
 

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Fuccboy always had a negative connotation in my opinion...to me it's not somebody who fuccs a lot but rather some frat boy who only thinks about fuccing (and usually coming up unsuccessful in that).

Like that guy Brad from the movie Extract who they hire to try and seduce his wife...
I was out with this hot 25 year old medical student a couple weeks ago. We got to talking about dating and she said it's common in her girlfriend circle to do "loyalty tests" on boyfriends of some of her friends. Not sure if she was one of the "seducers" but evidently it's a thing among 20-something women. I just laughed. It's pretty funny. I'll ask her how many men pass/fail the loyalty test next time I see her.
 

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Like that guy Brad from the movie Extract who they hire to try and seduce his wife...
That was an awesome movie. That was a wild plot line in the movie.

Fuccboy always had a negative connotation in my opinion...to me it's not somebody who fuccs a lot but rather some frat boy who only thinks about fuccing (and usually coming up unsuccessful in that).
To me, fucckboy is a positive connotation. You are getting that poontang.

The Chronicles of @BPH is a good story. You've accomplished a lot as a seducer over your lifetime. You can take pride in what you've accomplished. Few men are able to pound 90+ different vaginas as you have.
 
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I am not sure what older women are doing these days, but within gen z, women "compete" with each other whether they realize it or not. The "f*ck boi" term is often used in a derogatory sense, the same way people use "slut" in regards to certain women.

The f*ck boi has his body count on the up and up because he has moderate to good looks and his known body count has him labeled as a "hot ticket item on the market," since everyone clearly wants him. An average guy, or even a handsome guy in some cases who is clearly single and has an unknown sexual history by those around him is the sexual market equivalent of the good-looking used car that has been on the lot too long, so now people are skeptic of it, regardless of how good of a car it might actually be. Women want what other women have or also want.
 

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But what is in it for the bad, exciting fun evil men?
Some Kitty Kat of course, do you think a lot of men care about if they dealing with bad women? heck no as long as the woman is pretty enough a lot of men will put up with her shyt, the prettier the more shyt the average man will deal with
 

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Some Kitty Kat of course, do you think a lot of men care about if they dealing with bad women? heck no as long as the woman is pretty enough a lot of men will put up with her shyt, the prettier the more shyt the average man will deal with
The bad Kitty Kats just have to incrementally lower their standards when they hit the wall at 60.
 

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The man in 50 shades of gray is just a masculine man. Women just want a dominant man. "Toxic" is just women going "he's beyond my reach to get."
As I've said numerous times, Christian Grey is a woman's fantasy come true. He's a billionaire, he's more handsome than anyone else, every other girl wants him, he has servants who follow his orders like a king, he's in perfect physical shape, he's an experienced pilot, he's a highly skilled lover, and he gets and maintains erections on a dime. He also loves the rather plain girl in the book like she's the only woman in the world, despite being able to have anyone else he wants.
 
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