Build a roster of multiple women (instead of the useal traditional relationship)

Hamurabimbi

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Instead of traditional relationships, isn't it more beneficial to us (modern) men/DJ,S to build a roster of multiple favourites?

Yeah, sometimes she will hop on another c0ck. But that would happen either way...why wouldn't a man build a solid roster of lets say 7 women with their own unique qualities and features.

You can even care about them/love them, you just DON'T try to isolate them anymore. You take what YOU need from them and release them back into the water.

The energy and time spent on trying to control that one woman can now be spent on LITERALLY your legacy: on your business ventures, learning new skills, getting stronger, SCOUTING NEW P00SY!!, doing thing you like. You can even "simp" for some of them at times!!( take them out,call them ,cuddle with them ,whatever "simpish" thing YOU actually like to do)

I am almost thinking about a Hugh Hefner type of deal, but the women ofcourse shouldn't all have to live under one roof together.

This is my new vision on relationships. What do you guys think?
I did for 6 months before Covid. Too exhausting. Maybe because I’m middle aged. Also. The Women are relentless in demanding a BF/GF relationship. I find serial monogamy more sustainable.
 

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It's my current vision on relationships that I had for several decades now. Yes, it's better to not go exclusive but to make women understand that they are competing for your attention, both with your other activities and with other women.
Some will profess they don't like to share, but I always tell them they don't have to, it's voluntarily and with eager participation, or they can find themselves some boring guy they can bind to them, but I have no need to be tied down, whereas they have a need to be tied up.
It's the ONLY way in this current dating market.

Remember.. Even though you might be in a exclusive relationship with her, you are still competing with her current orbiters & the absolute confidence she has, that she can replace you easily.

Why give her the upper hand? Make that 304 always compete for your attention, by having several girls in rotation.

Obviously this type of lifestyle is not sustainable for the long run... But it's fine, till you meet that one girl with all the GREEN flags.
 

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her current orbiters
When a woman designates a guy to be an orbiter, he has already been rejected, so he can in now way be considered 'competition'.
 

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Obviously this type of lifestyle is not sustainable for the long run... But it's fine, till you meet that one girl with all the GREEN flags.
Even if you meet that green flag girl, I think you should stay sharp and stay attractive to other women, so your green flag girl knows that you can and will walk away if she stops respecting you and your boundaries.
 

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Even if you meet that green flag girl, I think you should stay sharp and stay attractive to other women, so your green flag girl knows that you can and will walk away if she stops respecting you and your boundaries.
My man.. when it comes to respect.. I don't let no bich cross my boundries.

I recently Dumped a 24 year old, hot slim, Russian chick, for crossing my boundaries.

The big mistake I made is, going exclusive with her and dropping my plates.

Your my inspiration now.. As I realise, exclusive relationship with modern women are simply not worth it. Best to keep a rotation of girls and commit to no one.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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When a woman designates a guy to be an orbiter, he has already been rejected, so he can in now way be considered 'competition'.
The attention is a substitute for sex.
 
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