soulforge
Master Don Juan
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It's the ONLY way in this current dating market.It's my current vision on relationships that I had for several decades now. Yes, it's better to not go exclusive but to make women understand that they are competing for your attention, both with your other activities and with other women.
Some will profess they don't like to share, but I always tell them they don't have to, it's voluntarily and with eager participation, or they can find themselves some boring guy they can bind to them, but I have no need to be tied down, whereas they have a need to be tied up.
Remember.. Even though you might be in a exclusive relationship with her, you are still competing with her current orbiters & the absolute confidence she has, that she can replace you easily.
Why give her the upper hand? Make that 304 always compete for your attention, by having several girls in rotation.
Obviously this type of lifestyle is not sustainable for the long run... But it's fine, till you meet that one girl with all the GREEN flags.