For me, in university, the best place to meet girls is in common events or organizations. You can make a lot of connections that way. It’s super easy to start a conversation because you already have a shared topic to talk about.
Classes are also good to meet girls. I just sit next to ones I find cute and then talk to them.
Enjoy having the college campus available to you while you have it. The extracurricular organization get togethers are some of the best places to meet women.
The people who played the mating game best in college fell into 2-3 groups, all involving LTRs
- Greek Life people who found other Greek Life people for extended relationships
- Non-Greek Life people (mainly) who focused on activities and met someone for an extended relationship through some extracurricular activity or in one of their classes. This is more common way of forming LTRs in college.
- Greek or Non-Greek people who met someone in classes, activities, or some other method and had an LTR with them.
I didn't hear of one case of a random, outdoor on campus approach leading to multiple dates or a relationship. There might have been an approach or two in my university's student union that lead to something longer term, but I wasn't aware of it or simply don't recall it now.
LTRs seem to be the ticket for most men into regular sex at most phases of life.
As for academic classes, it's easier to meet women in them than in fitness classes at fitness facilities post-college.
What are the most common places (and most successful places) you approach women today? I’d like the hear about your best spots.
I have approached women in almost all of the conventional non-bar approaching spots and in nightlife venues.
Nightlife Venues: I prefer quieter, lounge type venues to higher energy and louder music type venues. I need a lower volume place in order to have more meaningful conversations. In certain places, it is best to avoid attention whorres that tend to take up space in most bars on Friday and Saturday nights. The weekday happy hour time slot can work well, or later nights on Sunday-Thursday nights. Most people who work dayshift jobs have a difficult time going on late on Tuesday or Wednesday nights. That's better to do as a 21-22 year old college student.
Gym/Fitness Classes: General gym floor can be tough in competing with the earbuds/headphones. This is a place where having strong IOIs helps. Fitness classes (either as part of a gym or as a standalone class-based facility) eliminates the earbud problem. Most fitness class formats are at least 65-75% women. Even one SoSuave article mentioned fitness classes because of this (see below). However, the biggest issue with most fitness classes is that women are not particularly sociable after fitness classes and it's also difficult to arrange a date and collect a number in the 5-10 minutes before class. In theory, after class is better for socialization but when women aren't sociable, that's not all that meaningful.
20 girls for every one guy. And almost all of them are supermodel beautiful.
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Random Street Game: Most US cities don't have random streets that have enough foot traffic to warrant doing this. I'm in one of the biggest cities in the USA and there isn't much in the way of pure street game in this city. There are parks and walking paths in my city that serve as substitutes for random street game.
Roosh called street game the most difficult venue hands down back in 2012.
Urban Parks/Urban Walking Paths: I've done approaches in both. Getting attention on walking paths can be challenging. Most women wear earbuds if alone on paths. Park game depends on the type of park. Earbuds and women immersed in their phones can be problematic here and there are the dog walkers. Some dogs simply aren't behaved enough to get through a 5 minute conversation that results in a date arranged.
Hiking Paths: These are similar to parks and walking paths. Sometimes, it can be worthwhile lingering at the bottom of a trail and making approaches. Sometimes there are stopping points on a trail that can lead to natural looking socialization.
Mall: There was a recent thread about mall game. See below. I find mall game challenging but some other approachers have been stronger with it than I've been with it. There are opportunities to approach in both the corridors between stores and within certain stores. I can't cover mall game quickly on this.
imo it's been awful lately, and for day-game I am straight up looking for different situations. could be given all the recent news about constant looting everywhere, but malls have REALLY upped their security lately and no longer can you just be chilling for a few hours their (and not buying...
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Grocery Store: This is my favorite daygame venue for approaching and the one that's produced the most meaningful conversations and most quantity of dates arranged. It's essential to select a grocery store in a neighborhood that is mainly unmarried people.
Bookstore: Barnes & Noble is the biggest name in book stores and the only book store I've found to be reliable for finding approaches.
The biggest problem that I've seen in book stores is a lack of prospects. I've tried both Barnes & Noble and a smaller, regional book stoe chain. Barnes & Noble has had far more approachable prospects.
Commercialized Pool Parties: See thread below
After using the Search function here, I realize that there hasn't been a lot of discussion about getting laid as a result of going to pool parties. The lay doesn't have to happen on the same day as the pool party, but at some time after meeting a woman at a pool party. Let me be more specific...
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Structured Singles Events: See thread below
Mostly every unattached person has dealt with this. The potential invitation to a "singles event" or "singles mixer". It is a chance for unattached people to meet. It's not a general night out at a bar, which has unattached people interspersed with attached people. Everyone here is unattached by...
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