IDGAF ATTITUDE

Austin

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Thanks very much for the help last time, I really appreciate

As a young man into game, I learnt and developed this IDGAF attitude and it's slowly eating deep into my relationship
My girlfriend do complains about it a lot according to her
(1) she doesn't know if I love her because I don't care or rather my actions shows it
(2) my attention to her is reduced to the lowest
(3) I don't apologize when I do something wrong

I'm beginning to wonder what should I do, my friends tell me that my IDGAF attitude is getting too much, they think I'm going towards the extreme as her attitude doesn't moves me again, I ghost her at unaccepted behavior including arguments

Also, from what I haven't learnt before entering my first relationship is that the moment you change your self entirely for a woman she will dump you

I'm beginning to wonder what should I do?
Should I tweak myself a little bit (this is not the first time of her complaining about my less concerned attitude)

I will be looking forward to getting your replies
Thanks very much
 

soulforge

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Thanks very much for the help last time, I really appreciate

As a young man into game, I learnt and developed this IDGAF attitude and it's slowly eating deep into my relationship
My girlfriend do complains about it a lot according to her
(1) she doesn't know if I love her because I don't care or rather my actions shows it
(2) my attention to her is reduced to the lowest
(3) I don't apologize when I do something wrong

I'm beginning to wonder what should I do, my friends tell me that my IDGAF attitude is getting too much, they think I'm going towards the extreme as her attitude doesn't moves me again, I ghost her at unaccepted behavior including arguments

Also, from what I haven't learnt before entering my first relationship is that the moment you change your self entirely for a woman she will dump you

I'm beginning to wonder what should I do?
Should I tweak myself a little bit (this is not the first time of her complaining about my less concerned attitude)

I will be looking forward to getting your replies
Thanks very much
It's about balance.. Don't be surprised if she dumps you and walks away.

Yeh I mean a little IDGAF is fine to keep her on her toes, but by sound of your post you might be going too far with this.

A healthy relationship shouldn't be constantly a GAME.
 

Austin

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It's about balance.. Don't be surprised if she dumps you and walks away.

Yeh I mean a little IDGAF is fine to keep her on her toes, but by sound of your post you might be going too far with this.

A healthy relationship shouldn't be constantly a GAME.

Thanks very much
I hope it's not too late to correct myself and get back on track
I don't really know if it's too late anyway
 

We_ArE_VeNOM

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Thanks very much for the help last time, I really appreciate

As a young man into game, I learnt and developed this IDGAF attitude and it's slowly eating deep into my relationship
My girlfriend do complains about it a lot according to her
(1) she doesn't know if I love her because I don't care or rather my actions shows it
(2) my attention to her is reduced to the lowest
(3) I don't apologize when I do something wrong
Sounds like you are a damn narcissist.

Yup, all three signs indicate you are.

Or at the very least, you have narcissistic traits.

How about this, instead of being evil; treat your woman with love, dignity, and respect.

I'm not gonna preach a sermon with it, but if you got a good one, treat her as such.
 
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