Talked with a woman for 2 hours at an Open House

[corrector]

I don't know how that was possible, but it happened this past weekend. Spoke with this Cuban lady, who is is probalby a gen-Xer like myself (she's with a partner that has 4 kids) and was shocked to see how I managed to hold on a convo with her for around 2 hours. Granted, she was a mortgage broker and we are all trying to get new clients in this Open House. I was still surprized at how 2 hours went by like that chatting with her and had thought it was going to be crazy ackward and I'd end up using my Tablet to stream some shows. Virtually no awkard silenced within the chat.

I texted her saying it was a pleaure meeting her blah blah blah. She replied to the text and said the pleasure was all hers. (what?) I'm still trying to figure out how it was possible to have maintained a 2 hour chat, when with usual girls in public, I can't even do a 30 second chat. Must be a funny on and off switch somewhere.

What was the longest continuous chat you've ever had with a lady you just met? How many awkard silences had happened within the chat?

 

[Gamisch]

I don't know how that was possible, but it happened this past weekend. Spoke with this Cuban lady, who is is probalby a gen-Xer like myself (she's with a partner that has 4 kids) and was shocked to see how I managed to hold on a convo with her for around 2 hours. Granted, she was a mortgage broker and we are all trying to get new clients in this Open House. I was still surprized at how 2 hours went by like that chatting with her and had thought it was going to be crazy ackward and I'd end up using my Tablet to stream some shows. Virtually no awkard silenced within the chat.

I texted her saying it was a pleaure meeting her blah blah blah. She replied to the text and said the pleasure was all hers. (what?) I'm still trying to figure out how it was possible to have maintained a 2 hour chat, when with usual girls in public, I can't even do a 30 second chat. Must be a funny on and off switch somewhere.

What was the longest continuous chat you've ever had with a lady you just met? How many awkard silences had happened within the chat?

No surprise here really. You have a great vocabulary, and i bet you can charm your way into some panties .

You just lack confidence bro!!

Imagine the damage you'd do if you lose a little bit of weight...,perhaps THIS will trigger you to do just that..


To stop making excuses. I work out in the morning at 5 before work EVERY DAMN DAY. I start with burpees ,push ups shadow boxing and the abb roller. Needless to say that after work I also add at least 1 hour kf either teaching boxing,boxing by myself and/or fitness. What else is there to do??
So whats your excuse?

Its time for you to reward yourself for being you bro!

Let me finish by saying I am HAPPY for ya!!! And proud? Why am I feeling proud because of your conversation ??

 

[Solomon]

Was she at least a 5 OP?

 

[Mike32ct]

That’s awesome. With the right person, the conversation can totally flow for a lot longer than you might think.

My longest chat in recent memory was this attorney chick I met at a conference back in February. Talked for an hour.

 

[corrector]

Was she at least a 5 OP?

Of course. I said Cuban. Do you really know any Spanish blonde lady that is less than 5?

 

[The Duke]

Congrats Corrector, I know I bust your ass from time to time. But I will give you props when it's deserved. Proud of you. That's fun when you can connect like that.

The longest conversations I've had have been on the phone, I think the record was close to 8hrs. When I have someone on my level it flows pretty easy.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Bravo, like good work man.

My advice is do not over analyze it, you had a pleasant conversation with a woman that enjoyed talking to you. Chances are that’s all there was to it, but it’s a big step. Do not read too much into it, you didn’t miss a chance to schtoop her in the bathroom.

The more you seek this type of conversation with women the easier it’ll get.

Seriously I think it’s awesome man.

When I started reading your post the first thing that crossed my mind was FACK YES!

Who da man? U da man.

I don't know how that was possible, but it happened this past weekend. Spoke with this Cuban lady, who is is probalby a gen-Xer like myself (she's with a partner that has 4 kids) and was shocked to see how I managed to hold on a convo with her for around 2 hours. Granted, she was a mortgage broker and we are all trying to get new clients in this Open House. I was still surprized at how 2 hours went by like that chatting with her and had thought it was going to be crazy ackward and I'd end up using my Tablet to stream some shows. Virtually no awkard silenced within the chat.

I texted her saying it was a pleaure meeting her blah blah blah. She replied to the text and said the pleasure was all hers. (what?) I'm still trying to figure out how it was possible to have maintained a 2 hour chat, when with usual girls in public, I can't even do a 30 second chat. Must be a funny on and off switch somewhere.

What was the longest continuous chat you've ever had with a lady you just met? How many awkard silences had happened within the chat?

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Glad to hear you're learning to converse. Have more conversations, it will help make approaches more comfortable.

 

[RazorRambo24]

That's good man it sounds like you had a good conversation. and to answer your question, what immediately comse to mind is I spoke /hung out with this chick back when I was in college for nearly 4-5 hours .. She was a Mormon and quite heavy into it, did some missionary work in a few diff countries and was really interesting. I know some people might be expecting a "we ended up banging" kinda thing but just because a man gets alot of snatch doesn't mean he looks to bang every chick out there.

 

[Solomon]

Of course. I said Cuban. Do you really know any Spanish blonde lady that is less than 5?

I've seen plenty of tub-o-lard latina's in Miami not every cuban or latina chick is a dime

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

I don't know how that was possible, but it happened this past weekend. Spoke with this Cuban lady, who is is probalby a gen-Xer like myself (she's with a partner that has 4 kids) and was shocked to see how I managed to hold on a convo with her for around 2 hours. Granted, she was a mortgage broker and we are all trying to get new clients in this Open House. I was still surprized at how 2 hours went by like that chatting with her and had thought it was going to be crazy ackward and I'd end up using my Tablet to stream some shows. Virtually no awkard silenced within the chat.

I texted her saying it was a pleaure meeting her blah blah blah. She replied to the text and said the pleasure was all hers. (what?) I'm still trying to figure out how it was possible to have maintained a 2 hour chat, when with usual girls in public, I can't even do a 30 second chat. Must be a funny on and off switch somewhere.

What was the longest continuous chat you've ever had with a lady you just met? How many awkard silences had happened within the chat?

No free attention.

 

[corrector]

No free attention.

What do you mean?

 

[Bokanovsky]

I've seen plenty of tub-o-lard latina's in Miami not every cuban or latina chick is a dime

This mimics my observations as well, particularly with respect to Mexican and Central American latinas. Many of them are built like a refrigerator.

 

[corrector]

I've seen plenty of tub-o-lard latina's in Miami not every cuban or latina chick is a dime

Okay, I'll throw a bone:

Not saying she looks exactly like her, but I'd put it at a 50-70% approximation. The figure (ie slimness) would be accurate as depicted here.
The vibe of the interaction felt nice like the vibe of the video, like a real nice time. I have found myself eeriely re-watching this music video a number of times, as of late, after speaking with her.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

What do you mean?

"No Free Attention" represents Currie's (Alan Roger Currie's) personal philosophy that a man should never allow women to gain full and indefinite access to his non-sexual time, attention, and companionship unless he and that woman are business colleagues, or unless that woman has already made it clear to the man that she is interested in sharing his company in a romantic or strictly sexual manner."

Amazon.com

I don't know what you seek in a woman or what your relationship goals are.

However, a 2 hour conversation with a woman strikes me as too long without the possibility of sex being discussed.

 

[corrector]

"No Free Attention" represents Currie's (Alan Roger Currie's) personal philosophy that a man should never allow women to gain full and indefinite access to his non-sexual time, attention, and companionship unless he and that woman are business colleagues, or unless that woman has already made it clear to the man that she is interested in sharing his company in a romantic or strictly sexual manner."

Amazon.com

I don't know what you seek in a woman or what your relationship goals are.

However, a 2 hour conversation with a woman strikes me as too long without the possibility of sex being discussed.

We are business colleagues.

Other people got the unwritten memo of this thread.

 

[member162951]

Congrats man, reading your previous posts, you needed that!

However, a 2 hour conversation with a woman strikes me as too long without the possibility of sex being discussed.

If you're familiar with OP's history, that 2-hour convo did more to boost his ego and confidence and improve his conversational skills than it did giving her free attention.

Not every encounter with a chick has to result in a bang. There are loads of other benefits (internally) as was the case here.

Next time he can go for the bang.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

We are business colleagues.

So what?

Other people got the unwritten memo of this thread.

Still simpin away, are we?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Of course. I said Cuban. Do you really know any Spanish blonde lady that is less than 5?

Yeah, all the fat ones

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

If you're familiar with OP's history, that 2-hour convo did more to boost his ego and confidence and improve his conversational skills than it did giving her free attention.

I feel that.

But still, no free attention.

If you give her the time, she needs to give you the azz.

Not every encounter with a chick has to result in a bang

It doesn't have to result in a 2-hour convo either.

There are loads of other benefits (internally) as was the case here.

Next time he can go for the bang.

You have to ask for the # after 2 hours.

I don't give a damn how socially awkward you are.