that deadbeat guys who had no money attracted women because they were fun, they weren't worn down with working or a career, all they cared about was having fun.
I'm an engineer, I've worked from medical device to aerospace and federal contractors, I noticed that same $hit, when I took the RP and then started to make the gym my priority over everything else, I started noticing men and I was reflecting on my previous jobs also, how men in the industry make their job their priorities like working over time, fat, unattractive, they were making money yes, but man, its crazy how miserable those guys are/were., they were so scared of losing their jobs that they were $ucking up to their bosses, never rocking the boat, never going against what they said, never pushing back, it was so pathetic to see now that I have the RP lens.
Those guys were so pathetic that spent they spent the whole day onsite, either they wanted to escape their wife or they didn't have anything going on for themselves, and their attitude was reflective, always angry or sad or miserable you can see them on their faces.
That's why you can't take the "chase excellence" too serious, you need time for other things, not just working and working all the time