Jesse Pinkman's approach/field reports thread.

[Jesse Pinkman]

8/9/23 - Botched date from Seeking

Today I had a date with this Colombian woman. We had a good bit of rapport over text and flirted. She read my profile and did not seem to have an issue with me not looking for a Sugar baby or anything remotely close to an arrangement or PPM, her words. I was excited for the date but not because of the woman.

A terrible habit was fixed.

I used to clean my room the day I had the date. A lot of this also included doing dishes and ironing my clothes. A vow I made to myself this year is that this would be done DAYS before the date itself so I can go into the date with a calm mind.

This week, I did just that. My room was super clean and clothes all perfectly ironed as I made my way to my date. I have learned from my mistakes in NYC to always set the dates near where I live so the logistics are ideal.

I also learned to imagine that I have already hooked up with the girl and I am just seeing her for the second time. The reason I do this is because it helps to sexualize the date and avoid the dreaded friendzone or that message you get when she said there was no chemistry between you two. I credit John Anthony Lifestyle, who is the best dating coach in the game in my opinion, for that advice.

The date.

This woman is about a good 20 minutes late to our coffee date. The excuse she gave was that she was trying to find parking. Maybe I am too spoiled with how I do things but I don’t even bother to drive to a spot I am super unfamiliar with in Miami. The drivers here are so crazy that I just opt to Uber.

Finally, after almost 20 minutes, she texts me but then I find that she is inside the coffee shop. In a way, this sort of screwed me up because I usually meet my dates outside where I can escalate easily. Inside was a pain since there were a lot of people around, namely family and kids.

I decide to order us some coffee as she took her sweet and precious time deciding what she wanted. You were literally inside for a solid couple of minutes knowing we were going to drink something and you could not even decide what you wanted in that time. Miami has made me somewhat generalize certain groups but man, Latin women are quite inconsiderate in terms of how they operate. Almost always late.

We finally get our cold coffee and sit outside as opposed to inside. I hugged her and then put my hand on her back only for her to tell me it was too forward. We sit down and she asks me my zodiac sign, talk about a personal red flag for me.

I then move closer to her so I could escalate as we are on a date and she tells me about her story. I make a few jokes in an attempt to sexualize the conversation, often along the lines of “that’s what she said”. One might ask why, it is because after 50+ dates in NYC that led to “did not feel the chemistry”, I realized you cannot be platonic on dates and have to push forward.

I was touching her often and everything but then she asks me what I want out of Seeking Arrangements. To make a long story short, despite my bio stating I am not looking to be a Sugar Daddy, she tells me what she is looking for. As she goes all in on her business, she wants someone to pay for her life outside of work. Then she tells me a story about a guy she liked who she cooked for as he did his job.

The way she said "cook" just irritated me. What irritated me more was how this moron did not even bother to read my profile where I made it clear that I did not want any kind of an arrangement, PPM, or any of that. But then she casually talked up her ability to cook as if that makes her special.

The “feminine” Latina is overrated to me.

Going off-topic here but just something I have noticed ever since moving to Miami. Lots of red pill losers and other old-school men want women who can cook for them and clean for them. Get off your lazyasses and actually clean and cook your own **** you dumb ****.

So many Latina and Eastern European women in Miami play up the “feminine” act but it is all a facade. The majority of these women are gold diggers trying to please old farts and hope they can inherit half of their stuff. I am starting to find that the stereotypical old-school “feminine” woman is a turn-off to me.

Somehow, I lack respect for any man that wants a woman to cook and clean for him. Get off your ass you lazy ****.

Back to the report.

At that point, we realize that it is not going to be a fit and I leave the date. I end up hitting the gym afterward like I wanted and getting my fitness in check.

Lesson learned.

I think Seeking is a slippery slope. On one hand, the dating apps in Miami are entirely dead or just a barren wasteland for most men outside of some dude flashing with an expensive boat. You get a lot of fake profiles and OnlyFan accounts, more than anywhere else. Women do not respond as readily since they are flooded with thirsty dudes.

Seeking is perhaps the only place with somewhat even ratios but it is a Sugar Dating website. Hordes of other guys have started to use it more like Tinder. Unfortunately, some ****wad decided to make an entire youtube channel dedicated to it which is leading more guys to use it for that purpose.

Oh how quickly ***** paradise dies.

When meeting from Seeking, I feel like I just have to filter even more strictly.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

8/10/23 - Get off your butt Jesse.

In 2023, I have made a commitment to go out four out of the seven days of the week to do game. This past Thursday, I did not even feel like going out. I felt like hell for the most part and had napped for a good bit of the day whenever I could. Part of this is because of the hellish date yesterday with the annoying Latina. I mean I have had bad dates but this women was just intolerable. I asked her multiple times to read my profile and she pushed again for money. Ugh.

Still, I worked up the courage to go out.

As I thought of heading out at around 7, it started to rain and pour. That is Miami weather for you, it rains and pours out of the blue. Still, I know that I have to stay true to my cadence. The past week I was out of town visiting family which took time away from game. An hour later, the rain dies but in that time, I made myself a couple of margaritas at home as I waited.

I head out to this venue which has multiple bars inside of it. Not long after, I ended up going to the one bar where I know the bartender. The bartender is this bubbly and hot blonde girl, let’s call her Katie. Katie and I chat for a bit but then I chat with this one guy near me. At this point, I am sort of buzzed but I talk to this one dude next to me.

Usually, I do not talk to guys at bars. I find them too defensive and paranoid about another dude chatting with them so I stick to the girls. The guy, let’s call him Bob, was from NYC and recently moved to Miami. Bob sounded like your typical New York Italian, which I am usually not a fan of as @SW15 and @BillyPilgrim , but he came off as a pretty cool guy.

Bob, Katie, and I chatted for a solid few minutes. Katie told us about how she wants to move on from bartending and how rough it is for her. Even though the money is good, the lifestyle is overbearing. We talked a bit about Katie’s future career goal of going to grad school.

At one point, I ask Bob to talk to these two girls who had sat right next to us. I tell him if he does it, I buy him his next drink. The girl was a cute blonde in a black dress and her somewhat busted-up-looking Latin friend. Bob was chill but the blonde was rude. We chat about how the girls are mean but then moments later, Bob tries again. At this point, I even ask the blonde “You don’t often have strangers talk to you at bars do you?”. The blonde says no but we could tell they just wanted to be left alone.

Bob goes up to use the restroom but then comes back a few minutes later. I tell Bob that we should walk around and talk to some girls. The goal I had in mind was really to warm up and get into that cadence of doing some approaches.

I first walked up to these two girls ordering food, they were not interested. Later on, I approached this blonde two-set. One of the blondes was interested but the other was not. Bob is interested in these two Latin girls at the table next to us. I approach and open and it goes for a while but my heart overall is not in it.

I head out and call it a night.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

8/11/23 - Here comes the rebound and I try to stay true to my cadence.

I met this girl off of Seeking and let's call her Chloe. Chloe is originally from Canada but currently living in Miami. Chloe has blue eyes, pale skin, freckles, and brown hair. In some ways, she sort of looked like a curvier version of porn legend Rebecca Lord, a pornstar I have fapped more to any other back in the day when I was watching porn. I sent Chloe a message but then realized that she replies a month later.

See our exchange on seeking attached to this post.

As you can see, there are the DMs above. However, I just had a miserable coffee date with the Colombian that I spoke about and realized that it was time to do things right. I end up watching a video by John Anthony Lifestyle (JAL), whom I consider one of the best dating coaches in the entire game. JAL proposes that you ask women for wine at your place so I try out his script below.

http://imgur.com/IaZb6kZ

Chloe comes over for wine, or was set to, but ends up being 30 minutes late. In the meantime, I am gathering my thoughts and being chill. When Chloe gets to my place, I offer her some water instead given how bad the heatwave has been here in Miami. Chloe and I initially start to talk a bit as we have some wine together. Not long after, Chloe is giving me the eyes.

We chat a bit and she tells me about her love for various foreign cultures. I continue to tease Chloe and then make sexual references. We are practically done with a glass for now but I have my arm around Chloe as we are sitting on my couch. Chloe and I look at each other as she compliments me.

I decide to bring up the sex talk and tell Chloe about how I love to eat *****. I say that a man that can eat a woman right can treat a woman right which makes Chloe bite her lips. At the same time, Chloe proposes I turn on the TV which I do. I turn on the action flick and continue to gently touch Chloe. I compliment her on how great her breasts look as she takes off her fancy jacket…this chick wore a jacket in Miami.

We start to make out and do so for almost 30 minutes. Yeah, we made out for 30 minutes as I proposed she take her top off but she refused. We continue to make out and then ten minutes later, I proposed again after kissing her neck and she is okay with it. Chloe pours out another glass of wine for herself as I suck on her tits. After sucking on her tits, I eat Chloe out.

Moments later, we are making out again. I then go back to eating Chloe out and ate her ass and ***** which was enough to make her *** over my freaking couch. I then take off my clothes and put Chloe on me, taking her to my bed and eating her out a bit more. Chloe wants me to put a condom on and I do, surprised that I am able to keep it up just long enough. Like an idiot, I had fapped earlier that day.

I end up having Chloe ride me for a few minutes before cumming inside the condom, I wasn’t able to keep it up long enough. At this point, I am considering the TRT treatment or at least talking to a Urologist at some point.

However, the sweaty Chloe and I make out nude. Somehow, I am aroused by her nude and pale sweaty body as I suck on her tits, lick her armpits, kiss her neck and cheeks, suck on her chin, bite her buttocks and smack em till they are red, eat her ass some more, and eat her ***** again which makes her ***.

We finish watching the movie together nude in my bed until Chloe has to go. I walk Chloe down as we are both dripping in sweat, the apartment receptionists know we ****ed and give us that “oh you” look. I walk Chloe to her Uber which she called all for herself, both to and from my place. What a cool lady.

And I somehow stick to my commitment.

I go out to game at the local bar which has outdoor food trucks in it. I was hungry because I guess ***** does not have as many calories. I order myself a mini pizza and eat it. After eating the pizza, I get a drink and get to approaching.

First I talk to these two blondes who go to the University of Miami. One was an Asian chick that dyed her hair blonde and the other was a chubby blonde girl. Both are kind of sweet and talk about how class is back in session on August 21st. I don’t stick around for long since I was not going to go for a close on either one.

I then talk to these two brunettes in black dresses. One is kind of sweet but the other is her hardass friend. I say they must be from NY but they grill me and make me guess. I eventually guess it right and say Maryland. It was a decent enough encounter to where they let me speak rather than blowing me out but they were a part of a much larger circle.

I then remember approaching two more girls from NYC but not remembering how it went. To be honest, I was just freaking spent. The night of ****ing a hot girl drained me from doing much game. I guess I am that much of a sucker for routine.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

8/12/23 - A look into Miami's 1%

After a fun Friday night that ended in me getting laid, I was down for the routine and getting back to it. As John Anthony Lifestyle says, you need 10 numbers in order to get 1 lay. So far this weekend, I did not have the chance to get the numbers or even commit to the game. My date which was supposed to happen Thursday, happened Friday which threw a wrench in my game plans. She was a lovely girl and I truly loved Chloe.

I then hit up my friend, let’s call him Eric.

The backstory.

I met Eric about a month or so ago when I was out. All I remember is being at the bar, seeing the tab, and then noticing how big it was. I made a comment about how that is a lot for shots and Eric agreed, he was in a good mood. Eric offered me a shot, I took it, and we started to chat.

Eric is a lawyer who is well-connected in Miami since he was born and raised here. Eric introduces me to his friends and as we are talking, I chat up the girls standing next to us at the bar. We chat with them for a bit and both Eric and his friend are amazed at what I did. Later on, I open up more sets in front of them which they are amazed by.

Not long after, Eric’s friend leaves but Eric has a table with more friends coming, all guys. I cold approached and brought a bunch of girls to Eric’s table throughout the night. From there, I guess a friendship spawned, who knows? We would meet again the next day and I would do the same for him. The following week, I had family in town and could not meet with Eric.

Moving forward.

Eric and I were going to meet Friday but he did not want to come out. We decided to meet Saturday but he had friends at SLS Brickell. Apparently, his buddy who is a DJ, was playing there. I decide to go and then see Eric only to find that it is so dead in the venue.

Eric has a couple that is there with them, a guy and what appears to be his girlfriend. The guy, let’s call him Stan, is there with a girl named Mia. I chat with the group and found that Eric went to high school with Stan and then the DJ who they know is a guy we will call Marco.

We have drinks in a largely empty venue since we go table there and then we get a few more drinks. Soon, this cool Latina joins us, she is quite sexy and knows everyone. I talk to the group at first but then Eric and Stan split off and talk to me at the bar.

The conversation is about the Miami dating culture. Stan talks about how Mia is using him and how she has just eaten casually on his tab. Apparently, he was at a fancy club’s VIP section and she popped right in and started to eat on his tab, did not even ask him. Eric talks about how this is what Miami’s culture is like and how entitled the women in the city are.

Stan also owns a boat, a great one at that, and we talk about his connections to the boating club in The Grove. If you are not catching on by now, both Eric and Stan can be considered the Miami old money. Stan is quite drunk too but he is showing me pics of how he has had up to 15 girls on the boat. Soon, he offers that I come on the boat and I make the offer to Stan that I will do it if I can bring at least 3 girls. We laugh about it but I am serious. Stan says no worries, I can come myself, but I tell him that I want to make sure I am making it worth his time.

Such is the conversation of value. We soon head out and bring Marco with us as he is largely done DJing. Marco was able to get Stan in all sorts of great places like the DJ room at Space which is so tough for even attractive women to get into. As I am hearing the conversation, it seems like, after all of that, the high-status and cool guys in Miami have to deal with so many games from the women in the city.

We head out and Eric pulls up in his all-black Bentley, beats an Uber trip. Then we go to a somewhat exclusive venue with a long line but Marco pulls up next to the door guy that high-fives him and immediately lets us through. We go and then get to the venue called The Tea Room. It is loud in there but we easily get a table.

Eric, Stan, and I are talking but then I approach a two-set, and it goes nowhere. Stan is amazed that I am approaching and loves it as he had pointed out the two-set. Stan then points out a three-set and I say screw it, approach them. It is going decent but then it ends up going nowhere. The sound is killing me, I suck at loud venues in a lot of cases and need to work on projecting my voice more. Stan then points out a two-set and I approach them but they have boyfriends.

Stan is impressed enough but in some ways, I am frustrated. Yet another night lost to socializing and doing less game. On one end, I enjoy it. On the other, I do not because valuable time is being lost not gaming. Eventually, we all decide to call it a night.

The night was a great chance for me to hear from the other half of Miami or I guess its elite. The guys with nice boats and the guys who are socially connected to the scene. Even with the status, it seems like these guys are dealing with the BS games that women throw their way and the way women use them at times.

Stan said that he might have a boat that is nice but some guy will have a bigger boat, he isn’t lying. Such is the nature of the status games. The weekend was burnt for me game wise but it was great in other ways.

I am, however, looking to get back into game and get back into my routine of going out and trying to get at least 10 numbers that lead to a lay.

 

[SW15]

A terrible habit was fixed.

I used to clean my room the day I had the date. A lot of this also included doing dishes and ironing my clothes. A vow I made to myself this year is that this would be done DAYS before the date itself so I can go into the date with a calm mind.

This week, I did just that. My room was super clean and clothes all perfectly ironed as I made my way to my date. I have learned from my mistakes in NYC to always set the dates near where I live so the logistics are ideal.

I understand. In terms of cleaning my bachelor pad, I need a more organized schedule. My cleaning can be a bit random.

One of the things that all bachelors need to do is be prepared for bringing women home regularly. For men with steady girlfriends, her visits to your place are somewhat more predictable.

The date.

This woman is about a good 20 minutes late to our coffee date. The excuse she gave was that she was trying to find parking. Maybe I am too spoiled with how I do things but I don’t even bother to drive to a spot I am super unfamiliar with in Miami. The drivers here are so crazy that I just opt to Uber.

Finally, after almost 20 minutes, she texts me but then I find that she is inside the coffee shop. In a way, this sort of screwed me up because I usually meet my dates outside where I can escalate easily. Inside was a pain since there were a lot of people around, namely family and kids.

Miami has made me somewhat generalize certain groups but man, Latin women are quite inconsiderate in terms of how they operate. Almost always late.

I would be annoyed by a woman being 20 minutes late to a date. I am more annoyed than average by lateness. I can understand 5 minutes. I'm rarely late because I plan well.

Hispanic culture is not known for timeliness.

I don't like coffee shop dates at all due to it being a more difficult environment in general to escalate. I do not drink coffee regularly either.

I lack respect for any man that wants a woman to cook and clean for him. Get off your ass you lazy ****.

I have lived alone for so long that I've learned cooking and cleaning. I don't need a woman for either of those things.

Lesson learned.

I think Seeking is a slippery slope. On one hand, the dating apps in Miami are entirely dead or just a barren wasteland for most men outside of some dude flashing with an expensive boat. You get a lot of fake profiles and OnlyFan accounts, more than anywhere else. Women do not respond as readily since they are flooded with thirsty dudes.

Seeking is perhaps the only place with somewhat even ratios but it is a Sugar Dating website. Hordes of other guys have started to use it more like Tinder. Unfortunately, some ****wad decided to make an entire youtube channel dedicated to it which is leading more guys to use it for that purpose.

Oh how quickly ***** paradise dies.

When meeting from Seeking, I feel like I just have to filter even more strictly.

Seeking is a tough environment. It's mainly women who want a paid arrangement. I think it would be way too difficult to try to form a conventional dating relationship off of Seeking. As a result, I have never tried Seeking.

The conventional apps are bad options for most men.

Approaching strangers is often the best option among multiple bad options, especially for men 30+.

 

[SW15]

Chloe

Better than average story. What is the probability that you see her again?

Chloe wants me to put a condom on and I do, surprised that I am able to keep it up just long enough. Like an idiot, I had fapped earlier that day.

I end up having Chloe ride me for a few minutes before cumming inside the condom, I wasn’t able to keep it up long enough. At this point, I am considering the TRT treatment or at least talking to a Urologist at some point.

There is not much of a point in approaching/seducing unless your penis game is on point. At least you stayed hard enough to penetrate for a few minutes. No porn, no fap.

 

[CornbreadFed]

This woman is about a good 20 minutes late to our coffee date. The excuse she gave was that she was trying to find parking. Maybe I am too spoiled with how I do things but I don’t even bother to drive to a spot I am super unfamiliar with in Miami. The drivers here are so crazy that I just opt to Uber.

Relatable lol

Going off-topic here but just something I have noticed ever since moving to Miami. Lots of red pill losers and other old-school men want women who can cook for them and clean for them. Get off your lazyasses and actually clean and cook your own **** you dumb ****.

Yesss, I hate it when women are toxic af, but say at least I cook

 

[The Duke]

Alcohol is the best social lubricant known to man. Lowers inhibitions. Drinking is always fun. Don't do those coffee dates!

 

[eli77]

How much do you spend on dates.?

 

[SW15]

Alcohol is the best social lubricant known to man. Lowers inhibitions. Drinking is always fun. Don't do those coffee dates!

Coffee dates are usually terrible dates because they aren't good for escalation. Without escalation, it's likely a woman will not feel the spark needed for a 2nd date.

The lowered inhibitions are usually a good thing. It does increase the probability of a second date, but it's not a guarantee. I've have had plenty of first dates that were drinks not result in second dates.

One great drinks date I had involved going to 2 bars that were across the street from each other. Lots of intense kissing on that one!

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

I understand. In terms of cleaning my bachelor pad, I need a more organized schedule. My cleaning can be a bit random.

One of the things that all bachelors need to do is be prepared for bringing women home regularly. For men with steady girlfriends, her visits to your place are somewhat more predictable.

I just do it proactively now. Like I will do my dishes just that night when I have had dinner and not let them rot in the sink for a few days. I will vacuum about once a week now while back then, I barely did it. My destructive little pet rabbit also makes me clean more than I'd like, the freaking thing will dig through its liter box but it is a huge hit with almost all of my dates lol.

I would be annoyed by a woman being 20 minutes late to a date. I am more annoyed than average by lateness. I can understand 5 minutes. I'm rarely late because I plan well.

Hispanic culture is not known for timeliness.

I don't like coffee shop dates at all due to it being a more difficult environment in general to escalate. I do not drink coffee regularly either.

Tell me about it. I had a date set up with this Mexican beauty for Monday, she texts me 10 minutes after our date was scheduled saying she stayed way over with her friend at dinner but can make it in an hour. I think this is actually a Mexican cultural thing. Like WTF. I immediately noped out of that situation even though she was really hot, could have been worth it too. However, I just operate with such abundance that I say screw it.

I have lived alone for so long that I've learned cooking and cleaning. I don't need a woman for either of those things.

Cooking is fun, it is the cleaning that sucks. Buy an air fryer and you will be amazed at how much easier it makes your life. Invest in a really good air fryer (after owning a crappy one like I did) and your steaks will never taste better.

Seeking is a tough environment. It's mainly women who want a paid arrangement. I think it would be way too difficult to try to form a conventional dating relationship off of Seeking. As a result, I have never tried Seeking.

The conventional apps are bad options for most men.

Approaching strangers is often the best option among multiple bad options, especially for men 30+.

Yeah Seeking has been relatively tough. By not being a Sugar daddy or willing to pay for a girl's lifestyle, at least 90% of women will immediately cross you out and this includes the hottest ones. 5% will meet up but then after reading, still try to negotiate for an arrangement. The other 5% that are left will want something romantic and fun with a guy who has his life together and isn't dead broke.

The sad part is that it is still better than most apps now. That is how bad it has gotten on most apps.

Approaching is practically the best thing to do but almost all guys I have met collectively agree how tough the women of Miami are.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

Better than average story. What is the probability that you see her again?

Looking unlikely and it hurts. She was the best sex I have had all year, even better than the Kendall Jenner lookalike I spoke of a while back who ghosted me. You ever had sex so good that you fap thinking about it days later? That was me this morning. I mean she had that erotic smell to her that smelled natural but wasn't stinking. My face was buried in her snatch and I ran my tongue all over that anus as well, even dipped it a bit in her butt. She was so cute and slim bro.

I mean this below is the kind of look she had which I am a sucker for. White girls with black hair and lighter color eyes as well as a slim figure. They are not easy to find but boy when you do find one like the one below with that look, your c0ck goes bananas.

There is not much of a point in approaching/seducing unless your penis game is on point. At least you stayed hard enough to penetrate for a few minutes. No porn, no fap.

Yeah, I got a date this week back again at my place (knock on wood she shows up, will update you all). Likely not going to do that much better because like a moron, I have spent a greater part of my mornings this week just rubbing one out at the sex I had with her. WTF, I have never gotten oneitis like this over a chick this year but this one I slept with last week did it.

Like a moron, I text her many times and she leaves me on read.

I have let my emotions get the better of me and need to use the rest of this week to get more leads.

Meanwhile, living with the fact that I might not put on a great show phucking because this chick is on my mind. Spent most mornings this week sleeping in and fapping to the sex I had with her because it just felt, different.....

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

Yesss, I hate it when women are toxic af, but say at least I cook

It is always foreign chicks doing this stuff too man, Latin in particular. For the longest time, I was politically a Conservative. In many ways, I still am and am rooting for the Republicans. But bro, being in Miami and dealing with Latin and Eastern Euro chicks here has shown me the absolute worst of Conservative culture.

 

[SW15]

Seeking has been relatively tough. By not being a Sugar daddy or willing to pay for a girl's lifestyle, at least 90% of women will immediately cross you out and this includes the hottest ones. 5% will meet up but then after reading, still try to negotiate for an arrangement. The other 5% that are left will want something romantic and fun with a guy who has his life together and isn't dead broke.

The sad part is that it is still better than most apps now. That is how bad it has gotten on most apps.

Approaching is practically the best thing to do but almost all guys I have met collectively agree how tough the women of Miami are.

The conventional app environment is very bad. Unless you're a top 10% man, it's not worth doing Tinder/Bumble/Hinge.

I would only recommend Seeking for directly paid, sugar daddy-sugar baby type relationships. Looking for conventional dating on Seeking is not going to happen. It's not intended for that purpose.

Approaching strangers in real life is the less bad option compared to any tech-based option.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

Alcohol is the best social lubricant known to man. Lowers inhibitions. Drinking is always fun. Don't do those coffee dates!

It might do all of that man but my Liver can only handle so much. At one point, I was having multiple dates a week and they were at a local Marg bar. I cannot freaking do that 3 times a week and my Liver even started to feel it. Wine is not the absolute worst but still dude, I kind of prefer coffee dates. If only I could pitch a nice cold brew machine to a chick back to my apartment but forget about it lol.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

How much do you spend on dates.?

Before when I was taking them out for drinks? Could easily get past $30+ and I was going broke just doing it.

Now for the wine date back at my place? $15. She called her own Uber and bottles of wines aren't the priciest sometimes.

 

[SW15]

Looking unlikely and it hurts. She was the best sex I have had all year, even better than the Kendall Jenner lookalike I spoke of a while back who ghosted me. You ever had sex so good that you fap thinking about it days later? That was me this morning. I mean she had that erotic smell to her that smelled natural but wasn't stinking. My face was buried in her snatch and I ran my tongue all over that anus as well, even dipped it a bit in her butt. She was so cute and slim bro.

I mean this below is the kind of look she had which I am a sucker for. White girls with black hair and lighter color eyes as well as a slim figure. They are not easy to find but boy when you do find one like the one below with that look, your c0ck goes bananas.

It is unfortunate when an instance of sex on a first date or same night sex from a bar interaction doesn't result in a second instance of sex. Why won't Chloe result in a second instance of sex?

I consider one night stands to be a lot of effort. If I make an effort to get vagina, I want the effort to result in me getting inside that vagina multiple times.

I like that pic and that look. I think that pic is an old picture of Rebecca Lord. You compared Chloe from Seeking to Rebecca Lord.

I gave up porn and masturbation many years ago. I don't masturbate to past instances of sex, but I've had sex so good that I thought of it so much after.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

The conventional app environment is very bad. Unless you're a top 10% man, it's not worth doing Tinder/Bumble/Hinge.

Approaching strangers in real life is the less bad option compared to any tech-based option.

I know of guys who fit the 10% profile and even they are struggling on these main apps. The social experiment type of videos hype up the whole Chad experience but I know of guys who fit that profile, have good pics, and are still struggling.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

It is unfortunate when an instance of sex on a first date or same night sex from a bar interaction doesn't result in a second instance of sex. Why won't Chloe result in a second instance of sex?

I consider one night stands to be a lot of effort. If I make an effort to get vagina, I want the effort to result in me getting inside that vagina multiple times.

I like that pic and that look. I think that pic is an old picture of Rebecca Lord. You compared Chloe from Seeking to Rebecca Lord.

I gave up porn and masturbation many years ago. I don't masturbate to past instances of sex, but I've had sex so good that I thought of it so much after.

She had that kind of look. Black/dark brown hair, pale skin, blue eyes, and slim figure. I have now been ghosted by her, don't even want to share the texts anymore.

I just need to get my act together and get my head straight. Got laid last week, albeit not from the method I would have liked, and barely got to do as much game.

 

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I know of guys who fit the 10% profile and even they are struggling on these main apps. The social experiment type of videos hype up the whole Chad experience but I know of guys who fit that profile, have good pics, and are still struggling.

There are some cases out there about men with top 10% physiques who struggle in dating. On this forum, the best known case of that is @sangheilios . @sangheilios is 6'4" and is fit with bigger muscle mass.

I have now been ghosted by her

Many men have felt the hurt of being ghosted after sex. There have been men who have been ghosted after sex even when the woman had at least one orgasm during sex.

Some men are ok with first date sex or same night sex from a bar approach being a one time thing.

One of my friends who has a good track record of seduction had instances where a woman ghosted him after sex when he wanted more sex from her.