Why So Many Young Men Are Single and Sexless

[Gamisch]

He's 6'4" with big muscles. What sort of self-improvement can be done?

Well, if he can exclude it's about looks what's left?...yes! INTERNALIZED beliefs of self.

Y'all know I've done professional kickboxing. Despite being lean as F and having a solid 8 pack and the ability to hospitalize a man real easy(street credit, check) , I had my longest dryspell during this period. Because, as @BackInTheGame78 said , i had some women approaching me now and then so i felt like: oke women fall outta the sky apparently ".

Nope. Its not about how you look but how you carry yourself.

you do nothing you get nothing. No way a 6,4 gaint azz Hercules looking mofo approaching tons of women is NEVER getting some..

imagine posters like @Jesse Pinkman having these stats . He wouldn't even know about sosuave..as in like never heard of it like 80% of men out there because he would've been in the top 5% of guys.(the other 75% is simply beta blue pilled men )

 

[corrector]

This all becomes very easy when you swear off of them entirely.
I'd rather have nobody.

She's just your ex. Just swear off her and give someone else a chance. They all can't be that bad.

 

[lost_blackbird]

She's just your ex. Just swear off her and give someone else a chance. They all can't be that bad.

Spoken like a true optimist.

 

[BorisBeef]

Based on my exhaustive introspection that I have been conducting for half a year, I think I have some of the characteristics that can shape this class of men (at least in my case).
- Dysfunctional families, narcissistic and manipulative/absent parents (like mine) can affect their perception of themselves, affecting their self-esteem.
- Too much **** to be distracted today. Pornography, video games, absurd videos on the networks, dating applications that only match you with people just as dysfunctional as you because of the algorithm.
- Absence of masculine figures in its development, in my case, although I had girlfriends when I was 15, I almost only had female friends. At this age, he turned dishes in a brutal way without knowing the system of it. I saw something threatening in masculinity, which today has been completely reversed. I have improved my relationship with men in a very positive way.
This can screw you up enormously, I was lucky to have a womanizing friend who guided me a bit in behavior and how to communicate with potential suitors, after losing his friendship, I went into a picture of depression and anxiety so severe that I suffered attacks panicked all the time and anxiety ate me up all ****ing day, I fell into drug use. I went through years of loneliness, right now I would consider mine "solitude" so as not to be so abrupt.
- I think that the worst of all is the distorted perception of relationships, when one is in that well, one is blinded by ideas and erroneous reasoning patterns of reality. Little by little I have been recovering.
The issue is quite complex, I don't blame the men who go through this, but I don't feel sorry for them, since they don't try anything to improve their situation and only look for excuses to justify their mediocrity.
After all, nature is wise and will continue to mislead those who are not in accordance with it, I think.

 

[SW15]

Well know dating coach Todd V offered his take on this...

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I often interact with employees at work of various ages. Zoomer’s on up. What. I’ve noticed over the years is young men are basically gelded. They don’t oogle women. See a girl walk by and don’t comment she is hot. Don’t Discuss fellow employees (girls). I’ve never seen one approach, though I do in front of fellow employees. Don’t seem to have had work sex. I’ve noticed Gen X guys seem to be the last that exhibit the ‘girl crazy’ mindset (which I definitely have).

 

[Redwood]

I often interact with employees at work of various ages. Zoomer’s on up. What. I’ve noticed over the years is young men are basically gelded. They don’t oogle women. See a girl walk by and don’t comment she is hot. Don’t Discuss fellow employees (girls). I’ve never seen one approach, though I do in front of fellow employees. Don’t seem to have had work sex. I’ve noticed Gen X guys seem to be the last that exhibit the ‘girl crazy’ mindset (which I definitely have).

The #metoo movement left a mark.