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Most men do not know how to behave with women and are too insecure little boys with no frame or personal statue. The above example is just sad, yes also pathetic as other here mentioned. But the reasoning for such behavior I think lies in the deeper problem.

Part of the issue I think is that their fathers are the same and cannot teach them how to interact with women.
And the few that does (Have the knowledge/experience with women); only some of them pass on their knowledge to their sons.
So weak fathers raises even weaker sons which then repeats the cycle.
This.

It starts with the family and the father.

Weak trees develop weak branches and it follows from family to family.
 

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An interesting thing happened yesterday.

I'm dating this one chick she is in the range of 9. S3xy freaking body is smart and overall has a good package.

She mentioned yesterday that her EX called her 68 times and she does not know what to do to get rid of him. When I first heard that I realized I have no competition. But at the same time, i realized what a f1ucking simp this guy is.

What a pathetic needy b1tich.

An unhealthy attachment has been developed with this chick he can't handle it and he went into full hyper-chase mode as all she does is tell him no for meeting up or not answering his phone calls.

It's crazy how men are built these days. Pathetic s1mps with no integrity and abundance.
I've seen this same scenario play out a few times before. Yes the guy is a needy/weak/beta.

BUT this chic has a part in it too:

1. She has the ability to block him for good and claims she doesn't know what to do? Yeah right. She doesn't want to offend him or she still likes the attention.

2. There are times she does answer his calls/texts. She doesn't want to admit that.

I've got two friends that dated for years and broke up about 1.5yrs ago. He was like the guy in your example. In that 1.5yr time frame she chose to reach out to him twice(once for a death and once for his birthday). She claimed she was just being nice. He thinks she wants him. Every time he gets emotional, angry, and won't go away.

I reminded her the part she played and she needs to take responsibility for her actions.

Don't let women fool you. Even the good ones are full of schitt at times.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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You started your thread bashing the guy and protecting the girl. You said nothing until it was brought up. Reread your original post. Like 3 times.
Its 100% captain save a hoe vibes. Not my words.
I wasnt the first to point it out either. Not saying your wrong just pointing out the "energy" of your words.
Its what women do
I'm not really trying to be captain save a hoe.

Noted though.
 

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I've seen this same scenario play out a few times before. Yes the guy is a needy/weak/beta.

BUT this chic has a part in it too:

1. She has the ability to block him for good and claims she doesn't know what to do? Yeah right. She doesn't want to offend him or she still likes the attention.

2. There are times she does answer his calls/texts. She doesn't want to admit that.

I've got two friends that dated for years and broke up about 1.5yrs ago. He was like the guy in your example. In that 1.5yr time frame she chose to reach out to him twice(once for a death and once for his birthday). She claimed she was just being nice. He thinks she wants him. Every time he gets emotional, angry, and won't go away.

I reminded her the part she played and she needs to take responsibility for her actions.

Don't let women fool you. Even the good ones are full of schitt at times.
Agree on this.

She could have blocked the guy.

From my experience there is some chicks again without trying to justify her actions that just can't block a guy. Either they like the attention or they are too weak themselves to actually move on and maybe they need to find another guy to find the power to do so.

I had this happen to me multiple times in the past from friends and relatives as well through their experiences.
 

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She mentioned yesterday that her EX called her 68 times and she does not know what to do to get rid of him. When I first heard that I realized I have no competition. But at the same time, i realized what a f1ucking simp this guy is.
WTF is this guy's major malfunction?! He's clearly obsessed and has no self-respect. Even if the guy has feelings for her, calling 3-4 times w/o response is a clear indication to get lost.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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I'm not really trying to be captain save a hoe.

Noted though.
The guy is not trying to break your balls like a lot of other people around here. It’s not easy to be the one in the situation if your emotions are driving the outcome. But that’s how this game works. Sometimes you get lucky and for some reason someone really gets a grip on you.

It’s not that the situation is bad, but you have to remember that objectively, the way to judge a person especially a woman is through their actions. People only do the things that they really want to expend their energy on. Yes, there is nuance like personality traits, psychology et Al. You can determine if that persons actions are worth putting in the work.
 

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Well I’ve had chicks I’m dating constantly tell me about exes trying to get back and how it bothers them. I think it’s a woman trying to tell a man she’s valuable and pursued, I nip that shyte in the bud.

“why have you not blocked him? That’s your solution unless you actually require his validation, so either block him and the problem is solved or keep it to yourself. Either way I don’t want to hear about it again.”

boom
 

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An interesting thing happened yesterday.

I'm dating this one chick she is in the range of 9. S3xy freaking body is smart and overall has a good package.

She mentioned yesterday that her EX called her 68 times and she does not know what to do to get rid of him.
Shay may be a 9 physically but it sounds like she’s a 1 intellectually if she doesn’t know what to do about a guy who calls her 68 times. It’s called blocking the fvcking number!!

Of course, there is also a slight chance that this is all part of a sh!t test.
 

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And finally there's the dozens of bouncers who DM her every night after getting her IG. Super needy, cringy texts non-stop. I hear her phone beeping whilst we're banging and when she shows me, it's just endless club bouncers texting her even if she's ignored their last 20 messages
The b!tch obviously enjoys the attention if she has all these dudes on her IG.

I’m begging to think that the only way to defeat simping is to make it a criminal offense.
 

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Well I’ve had chicks I’m dating constantly tell me about exes trying to get back and how it bothers them. I think it’s a woman trying to tell a man she’s valuable and pursued, I nip that shyte in the bud.

“why have you not blocked him? That’s your solution unless you actually require his validation, so either block him and the problem is solved or keep it to yourself. Either way I don’t want to hear about it again.”

boom
That's the next approach if that happens again.
 

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Well I’ve had chicks I’m dating constantly tell me about exes trying to get back and how it bothers them. I think it’s a woman trying to tell a man she’s valuable and pursued, I nip that shyte in the bud.

“why have you not blocked him? That’s your solution unless you actually require his validation, so either block him and the problem is solved or keep it to yourself. Either way I don’t want to hear about it again.”

boom
I've had chicks sat in my company (like my Russian ex) and exes been calling her up while in my company.

One time she picked up the call & starting berating him with "Don't call me I'm with my man"

Truth is they stringing these guys along. Anyone can block a pest in just a moment.

They keep these guys around in the background just incase things go South with YOU

Bro we are simply options to them.

Luckily us hardened guys, would rather chop our own limbs off, before we start blowing up and exes phone.

Leave that to the cucks.
 

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Luckily us hardened guys, would rather chop our own limbs off, before we start blowing up and exes phone.

Leave that to the cucks.
More like better cut our d1ick off.

If i ever called a woman 68 times i would probably commit suicide right on the spot. As extreme as it sounds. You have to think this way to avoid this kind of behaviors.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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