68 Missed Calls.

[soulforge]

It's a big feather in their cap to have guys, especially previous lovers, keep hitting them up. Women get drunk on this type of attention; there's attention and then there's attention, and this is the pharmaceutical grade type of ****. It's harmless for the most part - they just want you to know they are desired & hope you think so too.

One of the girls I see now (just started briefly dating, nothing serious) was showing me some texts she's been getting from some guy at the gym. She wasn't interested but thought him harmless and so gave him her #. Once it was clear she was resisting his advances he became annoying and started asking her why she was avoiding him and started talking about incels and all the red/black pill rage type stuff. I was near tears (of laughter) because I actually knew what he was talking about. Don't be like this guy. I've honestly been thinking about going there with her and patting her on the butt in front of him just to wind him up lololol

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Anyway this 68 call guy is a very very sad case. Unfortunately there are many who are lost like him. The most painful thing of all is in a lot of cases they see nothing wrong with what they are doing and they resist any kind of help when offered. I suppose we are all "set in our ways" to some degree when it comes to certain things but there comes a point when we have to fess up that things aren't working and we are clearly doing something wrong.



This is true. Women typically don't know what it is like to be "rejected" or the one who is "dumped", they typically are the one's who end things, so when it happens it is like the world has come to an end. This should be a real wake up call to guys and put them psychologically where they need to be.

This is why when things are clearly not going in your favour.. And you as a man understand what your expectations and boundaries are, We should be the one's doing the Walking Away.

The guys who chase like this, have more likely taken a big ego hit & are desperate to try and reverse the situation.

She probably dumped him, and immediately moved onto the next guy.

The cure to this type of situation, is delete her number and all form of contact.

I would have to chop off my own Dik off before I could ever behave like this.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Yup, but at least I don’t have to hear about it.

and then it keeps happening but now you just won’t hear about it

 

[IKO69]

This is why when things are clearly not going in your favour.. And you as a man understand what your expectations and boundaries are, We should be the one's doing the Walking Away.

The guys who chase like this, have more likely taken a big ego hit & are desperate to try and reverse the situation.

She probably dumped him, and immediately moved onto the next guy.

The cure to this type of situation, is delete her number and all form of contact.

I would have to chop off my own Dik off before I could ever behave like this.

What else could it be other than the man made the mistake of pedestalizing the woman? That is what it is 99% of time, sure was the case when I did it in my young and dumb years. When a guy isn't good with women or has generally been overlooked by them it is easy to fall prey to terrible women - at the same time it is very easy to inadvertently polish a turd. The literal whole community can tell you the girl is no good and you can't see it - only long after it is over and you finally find a proper woman worth her salt you go "yeah that x really was a low life what was I thinking?"

There are certainly great women out there, diamonds in the rough so to speak. Probably 8/10 times the woman a guy obsesses over isn't really all that great. Doesn't matter if she's good looking either - that means ****. This you realize over time - you need the inside to at least match the outside.

 

[soulforge]

What else could it be other than the man made the mistake of pedestalizing the woman? That is what it is 99% of time, sure was the case when I did it in my young and dumb years. When a guy isn't good with women or has generally been overlooked by them it is easy to fall prey to terrible women - at the same time it is very easy to inadvertently polish a turd. The literal whole community can tell you the girl is no good and you can't see it - only long after it is over and you finally find a proper woman worth her salt you go "yeah that x really was a low life what was I thinking?"

There are certainly great women out there, diamonds in the rough so to speak. Probably 8/10 times the woman a guy obsesses over isn't really all that great. Doesn't matter if she's good looking either - that means ****. This you realize over time - you need the inside to at least match the outside.

Facts.. Too much damn emphasis given to her looks and the great sex.. The character of the girl is just as important than her looks.

I have dated several hot/good looking chicks, over months/years they stop look that great to me anyway. So what are you eventually left with.

Hopefully good character and fertile ground to build a healthy normal relationship.

 

[Learning Curve]

She could have blocked him. She´s getting off on the attention. Attention wh0re 101. Dont give this girl exclusivity, hit it & quit it

She could i agree.

On the next conversation if it happens my question will be "Why you have not blocked him?"

She likes the attention most probably. Or she got used to this situation and she does not care either way she just responds like a robot.

 

[member162951]

She's quite capable of telling the guy to fuk off, the thrill for her is telling you about it hoping to elicit a jealous reaction. If you don't react to her BS, and tell her something like what @Pierce.Manhammer suggested, although she loves the validation, half the thrill is gone because YOU the boyfriend is not reacting.

Same as the poster whose gf was flirting with another guy at a wedding, right in front of her boyfriends face. Had he not been around to witness it and jealously react, that incident may not have even happened.

Stay away from broads who pull that crap. It's a nasty sh*t test, they're insecure attention wh0res seeking boyfriends attention and jealous reaction to boost her own fragile ego. It's mean.

 

[Learning Curve]

She's quite capable of telling the guy to fuk off, the thrill for her is telling you about it hoping to elicit a jealous reaction. If you don't react to her BS, and tell her something like what @Pierce.Manhammer suggested, although she loves the validation, half the thrill is gone because YOU the boyfriend is not reacting.

Same as the poster whose gf was flirting with another guy at a wedding, right in front of her boyfriends face. Had he not been around to witness it and jealously react, that incident may not have even happened.

Stay away from broads who pull that crap. It's a nasty sh*t test, they're insecure attention wh0res seeking boyfriends attention and jealous reaction to boost her own fragile ego. It's mean.

No reaction never had a reaction to anything actually she tried to pull off.

She knows, that in a glimpse I can dump her a$$ no matter how hot she is.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

One time my then girlfriend had this guy harassing her, she passed me her phone and I basically told him to beat it, but I was surprised that he was telling her he loved her and their text history had been deleted.

Turns out this guy raw dogged her like 2 weeks before and she was like hyping me up to go beat the snot out of this dude, I pulled up and we had a conversation like men, I left like a week later, was living with her, she was paying all my bills but still I had to leave, forced myself to go. She still doesn't know that I knew that to this day, still calls every now and then.

She was also an intense kleptomaniac, we would run her business where she housed and provided for people with developmental disabilities, then found out she was getting them to steal as well, THEN found out she was very likely running a side gig where she would let Johns pay her to smash her female clients, that is unsubstantiated but I once saw a cop accuse her of being a trafficker and always thought they had the wrong woman.

She was 45 I was 22

 

[Glassguy]

An interesting thing happened yesterday.

I'm dating this one chick she is in the range of 9. S3xy freaking body is smart and overall has a good package.

She mentioned yesterday that her EX called her 68 times and she does not know what to do to get rid of him. When I first heard that I realized I have no competition. But at the same time, i realized what a f1ucking simp this guy is.

What a pathetic needy b1tich.

An unhealthy attachment has been developed with this chick he can't handle it and he went into full hyper-chase mode as all she does is tell him no for meeting up or not answering his phone calls.

It's crazy how men are built these days. Pathetic s1mps with no integrity and abundance.

Yet she doesn't block him because she likes the validation of him calling her.