What The Hell Is Going On With Bumble Matches?

soulforge

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I joined Bumble around 2 weeks ago.

I decided to get the full paid premium version.

Anyway soon as I set up my profile thrown in my pics, immediately start getting matches.

I'm getting like 20-25 matches daily and messages from various chicks. Some solid 7s and 8s. This went on for two weeks.

Now two weeks gone by, literally matches have dropped down to around 5-7 a day.

I think it's time to invest more time on cold approach, I don't understand how we went from Hero to Zero that damn quick.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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You’re doing well to be getting that amount of matches, especially if most of the women are messaging. 5-7 quality matches per day is quite good.

Your matches have tapered off because that’s the way the algorithm works—you get a “noob boost” when you first sign up.

Some here have said they've done well on bumble while I’ve found it to be a complete waste of time. Have had decent success on hinge and tinder however.
 
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OP be happy, I'm lucky if I get one match per week, if you get 20-25 you should easily be getting 3-5 meet ups per week
I only would meet with girls that are the hottest or DTF tho
Do you also have the full premium version?
 

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I joined Bumble around 2 weeks ago.

I decided to get the full paid premium version.

Anyway soon as I set up my profile thrown in my pics, immediately start getting matches.

I'm getting like 20-25 matches daily and messages from various chicks. Some solid 7s and 8s. This went on for two weeks.

Now two weeks gone by, literally matches have dropped down to around 5-7 a day.

I think it's time to invest more time on cold approach, I don't understand how we went from Hero to Zero that damn quick.
Paying for a premium dating site to get woman.

When cold approaching won't cost you a thing.

Hustling backwards.
 

Gamisch

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I got the premium version. However it's great for a couple of weeks. Then it's fukin crickets after that.
7 matches a day is still 50 a week. I doubt there are many men who experience this(assuming they dont pay). So from that point of view you should still be " happy".

But,this is the most important thing: it depends on;
-the quality of matches.
-the level of engagement of these matches.

If these things are solid you're doing fine. Because if they dont talk /respond its meaningless . And even worse:7 matches with all seven being 47 year olds is maybe even damaging for a man.


Lets see how it will be in 3 months from now.
 

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I use bumble and it is quite good

The problem is that in Europe it does not really have a lot of users, so it takes 1-2 weeks of moderate activity to go through all the users there

Got the premium one too, paid like 20 euros for lifetime premium :)
 

If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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So dude, why are you still preaching? Why do you care?

Paying for a premium dating site to get woman.

When cold approaching won't cost you a thing.

Hustling backwards.
 

We_ArE_VeNOM

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So basically...

"If we want to be a bunch of simp ass betas BYTCHES, that's our business. Let us live our beta lives".

That's what I got out of it.
 

The Duke

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Paying for a premium dating site to get woman.

When cold approaching won't cost you a thing.

Hustling backwards.
It's takes time...time is money. I can swipe in traffic, on the toilet, waiting on an appointment.

A man needs to exercise all options available(OLD and Approaches).
 

BillyPilgrim

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I use bumble and it is quite good

The problem is that in Europe it does not really have a lot of users, so it takes 1-2 weeks of moderate activity to go through all the users there

Got the premium one too, paid like 20 euros for lifetime premium :)
That can be a good thing, each app is generally at its best before it gets widespread usage.
 
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