35 Year Old Lawyer Female Seeks Chad Husband; Offering $5,000 Finders Fee for Chad

[SW15]

A 5'10", 35 year old corporate litigator female in Los Angeles who has been single for 5 years and is very average looking seeks a 6'0"+ man who is in shape. Given as though she is a Western woman with an advanced degree and a big career, she is likely also only going to marry if the man makes her range of salary.

I’m offering a $5,000 referral bonus to anyone who finds me a husband

Who says money can’t buy love? Sick of being single, a wannabe bride is offering a hefty “finder’s fee” to anyone who successfully nabs her a groom.

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She's delusional. The men she wants don't want her. No 'Chad' will want to commit to her. If 'Chad' wants to commit, he'll be committing to some woman who is an '8'+ in looks and likely younger.

Because she's 5'10", she's not that unreasonable in wanting men taller than her, so men like @MatureDJ are out.

She only claims to be rarely approached in person.

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

A 5'10", 35 year old corporate litigator female in Los Angeles who has been single for 5 years and is very average looking seeks a 6'0"+ man who is in shape. Given as though she is a Western woman with an advanced degree and a big career, she is likely also only going to marry if the man makes her range of salary.

She only claims to be rarely approached in person.

No sh1t, men can smell the anger from distance.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Average looking, masculine career, outearns 90% of men, taller than 50% of men, and at least 10 years past her prime?

Look in the mirror, sweetheart. You are delusional. The price needs to be more like $500,000 referral bonus.

 

[corrector]

What us $5k, she should offer $5m.

 

[BeExcellent]

You guys are funny. I agree this is not a great strategy but she’s putting it out there. She’s not overweight, has a nice bust, and is obviously intelligent…She’s not a cover girl but she isn’t objectionable in the looks department either.

The real issue is the “boss b1tch” attitude reflected in this course of action. Perhaps she’ll figure it out this way, I’d be curious to see that.

It’s tough as a successful chick. Men do not (as a general rule) appreciate a really dominant woman. So she’s going to have to adjust her attitude or adjust her standards, probably both.

She has to be able to honestly appraise her value next to the type of women the archetype she wants is able to attract. She hasn’t done that yet…and if she is trying to do that she isn’t understanding how men value women. It’s less about the law degree and more about femininity and kindness, as well as top notch looks. She doesn’t yet realize who the competition is. She might get lucky. You just never know.

 

[The Duke]

You guys are funny. I agree this is not a great strategy but she’s putting it out there. She’s not overweight, has a nice bust, and is obviously intelligent…She’s not a cover girl but she isn’t objectionable in the looks department either.

The real issue is the “boss biatch” attitude reflected in this course of action. Perhaps she’ll figure it out this way, I’d be curious to see that.

It’s tough as a successful chick. Men do not (as a general rule) appreciate a really dominant woman. So she’s going to have to adjust her attitude or adjust her standards, probably both.

She has to be able to honestly appraise her value next to the type of women the archetype she wants is able to attract. She hasn’t done that yet…and if she is trying to do that she isn’t understanding how men value women. It’s less about the law degree and more about femininity and kindness, as well as top notch looks. She doesn’t yet realize who the competition is. She might get lucky. You just never know.

Please tell all the single women that us real men don't really care about their careers, money, and definitely not the boss biatch attitudes. I puke every time I read the word "independent" on a dating profile. This disease is rampant these days.

It's simply about what men find attractive and she is clueless.

I had one on Bumble last nite I had to set straight. Exact same vibe. Similar to this one but better face.

Mother's have done their daughters a huge disservice turning out this crap.

Once again we have a woman lacking self awareness, like we talked about in another thread.

 

[EyeBRollin]

You guys are funny. I agree this is not a great strategy but she’s putting it out there. She’s not overweight, has a nice bust, and is obviously intelligent…She’s not a cover girl but she isn’t objectionable in the looks department either.

What most modern women fail to understand is that their price is too high for what they provide to the man. I agree she’s not ugly, but she is an average looking, likely masculine woman (shown by career choice) who has standards that exceed her market worth. Average looking, older (by reproduction standards) women qualify for average men.

This woman’s market equal is a man making roughly average income ($40,000-$60,000) which is likely a non managerial position. She won’t touch those guys with a ten foot pole. That is why she is still single at 35 with no marriageable prospects.

 

[Bokanovsky]

You guys are funny. I agree this is not a great strategy but she’s putting it out there. She’s not overweight, has a nice bust, and is obviously intelligent…She’s not a cover girl but she isn’t objectionable in the looks department either.

Considering her requirements versus what she has to offer, she should be paying a heck of a lot more than $5,000 in referral fees. She's a corporate lawyer too. Stop being so fvcking cheap!

 

[Dr.Suave]

Fine, I will take one for the team. One of you send her my way and we split the money 50-50

 

[HaleyBaron]

But I get the most vile looks from older women when I'm talking to younger women.

No sympathy!

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

This dude's only about $2.5K from the love doll store.

And he's got a whole collection of detachable vibrating dildos...

 

[BeExcellent]

Right? @The Duke & @EyeBRollin & @Bokanovsky

I don’t disagree guys. She thinks potential partners are going to value her career and so forth the way she does.

Look, if she was a legit 8 or 9 there would be men who would tolerate her career because she’s hot. But her looks do not sufficiently offset her other perceived liabilities.

Another thing going on is that she is removing all doubt about what she wants. It’s marriage or bust from date 1. She’s prey that just laid down without requiring a man to make effort, to hunt. And that’s a lot of pressure on any guy without the process of discovery and the journey and fun of deciding whether the interaction has legs, it’s trying to fit the piece into the puzzle without making sure it actually fits first, it’s cart before horse to be sure.

She’s no fun!

Therefore the type man she wants sees no value in her because she’s too average/bossy/desperate and she is utterly blind to her actual value. She cannot demand investment from a high value man, and men want to feel like they have something valuable; that requires that the man make effort and investment to obtain.

She should pay me to help her understand WHY she isn’t having success with men. Now that would be money well spent.

Right now she’s putting out busty photos with lots of attitudes & demands. What man is going to want to be the publicized guy she ends up with? Lots of reasonably cute women have boobs. Without the rest of the attitude.

She is embodying the lie feminism has told women.

 

[BeExcellent]

And the sisterhood uber alles shows up. Lol
What then happens if its not based on genuine desire? Gonna fail

Not defending her strategy at all. I think her strategy is going to backfire & create a pariah out of her.

Marriage must be desire based, absolutely. But her method is not the right way of going about it. Her attitude is that she’s “all that” already instead of figuring out how to become desirable to her target man.

I’m not coming to her rescue at all. I’m embarrassed FOR her.

Yikes.

 

[I_have_BDE]

You guys are funny. I agree this is not a great strategy but she’s putting it out there. She’s not overweight, has a nice bust, and is obviously intelligent…She’s not a cover girl but she isn’t objectionable in the looks department either.

The real issue is the “boss b1tch” attitude reflected in this course of action. Perhaps she’ll figure it out this way, I’d be curious to see that.

It’s tough as a successful chick. Men do not (as a general rule) appreciate a really dominant woman. So she’s going to have to adjust her attitude or adjust her standards, probably both.

She has to be able to honestly appraise her value next to the type of women the archetype she wants is able to attract. She hasn’t done that yet…and if she is trying to do that she isn’t understanding how men value women. It’s less about the law degree and more about femininity and kindness, as well as top notch looks. She doesn’t yet realize who the competition is. She might get lucky. You just never know.

All because she's not fat us guys should still desire her? Us guys are a bit different than women how we're programmed. That's why you see women with fat men, much older men etc. If they make good money and will spend it on her. While a man for example doesn't want an unattractive woman. We go by looks more. Even if she makes 350k a year I'm not going to date a post wall, unattractive woman all because she has money.

 

[I_have_BDE]

Her boobs look quite saggy at 35. What will they look like when she's 45?

 

[Gamisch]

What most modern women fail to understand is that their price is too high for what they provide to the man. I agree she’s not ugly, but she is an average looking, likely masculine woman (shown by career choice) who has standards that exceed her market worth. Average looking, older (by reproduction standards) women qualify for average men.

This woman’s market equal is a man making roughly average income ($40,000-$60,000) which is likely a non managerial position. She won’t touch those guys with a ten foot pole. That is why she is still single at 35 with no marriageable prospects.

Perfectly worded. She's...mweh at best. Hb6 at best, and any sosauver would probably hit it and quit it. Even Be haha.

She does put herself put there ,but not in a positive way. First of all, imagine a man doing this...he would get ROASTED like a peanut. By women because it's sexist, by men because he's stupid enough to opt for a transactional relationship.

She can better go to Ghana or Egypt and pick a man. Because judging from the picture and her story I can already tell she is an headache. Why no man wants her? It's the same (lack of) social proof that men suffer from at some point. I assume her previous dates weren't THAT stupid...

 

[Barrister]

She's got big boobs which is a +. Outside of that, I would say she is a HB 6 at best.

Her bigger issue is she comes across entitled, b1tchy, and looking to tell the men she is with "how it is." Remember, men are the gate-keepers to relationships. So for her to at the outset tell you that she gets that without you even having the chance to make any decisions tells you everything you need to know off the bat. I agree with BeExcellent that if she was more in the HB 8+ range you would get men who would still be willing to put up with that. As it stands, this will become another woman bellyaching about how there are "no good men out there" despite having zero realistic expectations for herself.

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

What most modern women fail to understand is that their price is too high for what they provide to the man.

Such a simple concept that could be used generally and particularly yet people apparently dont get it.

A hb6 with average demands will find a man much easier than an hb7 with queen worth demands.

An average lawyer that demands 30 euros per consultation will get many more clients than a decent lawer that demands 300.

 

[Gamisch]

Giving that girl a 6 is because of the cosmetics and the tan. Shes a upgraded 5

I think its more due her job and credentials. If she was NEET looking like this she'd be a 4,5-5,5 at best.

 

[BeExcellent]

All because she's not fat us guys should still desire her? Us guys are a bit different than women how we're programmed. That's why you see women with fat men, much older men etc. If they make good money and will spend it on her. While a man for example doesn't want an unattractive woman. We go by looks more. Even if she makes 350k a year I'm not going to date a post wall, unattractive woman all because she has money.

Um. Go actually read what I wrote. Lol.