35 Year Old Lawyer Female Seeks Chad Husband; Offering $5,000 Finders Fee for Chad

[I_have_BDE]

More proof that she is very average looking.

ROFL! That chick kinda chunky.

 

[EyeBRollin]

ROFL! That chick kinda chunky.

She’s too big and masculine. Future cat lady.

 

[SW15]

She’s too big and masculine. Future cat lady.

Aren't they both future cat ladies? The main host (Alyssa) is the fatter one, whereas Eve is the 35 year old lawyer White woman who is taller and not as fat.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

It’s interesting I watched it, there are some interesting tips.

The standout to me so far is “do not talk about traveling”!

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Holy **** I just put 2 and 2 together this is the lawyer offering 5k for a guy. Wow hadn’t figured that out.

hilarious

 

[Hal9000]

I know reasonably attractive women who have great careers, etc who can't find a man. You know why? Because they are a #####. No self respecting man would put up with their crap, much less the Mr Perfect guy they keep holding out for. This is where drunk angry cat ladies come from.

 

[SW15]

Holy **** I just put 2 and 2 together this is the lawyer offering 5k for a guy. Wow hadn’t figured that out.

hilarious

Yes, that is why I linked the video. The lighter haired woman is the lawyer offering $5,000 to find a 'Chad' husband.

I know reasonably attractive women who have great careers, etc who can't find a man. You know why? Because they are a #####. No self respecting man would put up with their crap, much less the Mr Perfect guy they keep holding out for. This is where drunk angry cat ladies come from.

I've seen more of this phenomenon on the internet/social media as compared to the women in my general social circle.

When I have seen this phenomenon in-person, it has been from women who I arranged a first date with from a tech-based method.

 

[Hal9000]

Yes, that is why I linked the video. The lighter hair woman is the lawyer offering $5,000 to find a 'Chad' husband.



I've seen more of this phenomenon on the internet/social media as compared to the women in my general social circle.

When I have seen this phenomenon in-person, it has been from women who I arranged a first date with from a tech-based method.

I've seen it in person as well from when I was on line dating. Also see it in my significant others circle of female friends, many of whom are making big bucks, have fancy job titles and aren't bad looking but they are insufferable to be around. So angry and entitled when it comes to men in general.

 

[SW15]

I've seen it in person as well from when I was on line dating. Also see it in my significant others circle of female friends, many of whom are making big bucks, have fancy job titles and aren't bad looking but they are insufferable to be around. So angry and entitled when it comes to men in general.

In my social circle, there are women with advanced degrees and/or big careers who had men fighting over them despite possible insufferable attitudes. These women were fought over both inside my own social circle many years ago (long before I joined SoSuave) and some even had hundreds of options with strangers through outlets like online dating, co-ed sports leagues, and bars.

When I went to physical therapy, I noticed that the female physical therapists I interacted with were all married women with children. Someone married them despite their advanced degrees and careers. I did not interact with a large enough sample size of female physical therapists to determine if that was a valid conclusion. It's possible that I interacted with some less insufferable in their personal lives physical therapists.

 

[Hal9000]

In my social circle, there are women with advanced degrees and/or big careers who had men fighting over them despite possible insufferable attitudes. These women were fought over both inside my own social circle many years ago (long before I joined SoSuave) and some even had hundreds of options with strangers through outlets like online dating, co-ed sports leagues, and bars.

When I went to physical therapy, I noticed that the female physical therapists I interacted with were all married women with children. Someone married them despite their advanced degrees and careers. I did not interact with a large enough sample size of female physical therapists to determine if that was a valid conclusion. It's possible that I interacted with some less insufferable in their personal lives physical therapists.

Don't get me wrong. These women have men coming up to them all the time. I've seen it in person when we all go out. But if the guy isn't tall, handsome and obviously dripping in cash they can be downright cruel to them for even making the effort. They probably aren't that bad in other ways but when it comes to men they are very out of touch with reality.

 

[SW15]

Don't get me wrong. These women have men coming up to them all the time.

The 35 year old lawyer in the original post mentioned that she wasn't getting approached in-person all too much.

We don't know where she goes in-person. My sense is that she's not been as active in-person in the last 3+ years. Lockdowns were strict in the Los Angeles area.

She is a Millennial and she might have stunted social skills because technology has been a thing for her during her entire adult life and even going back to her adolescence.

In 1990, a 30-35 year old unattached woman would have had to go out to a lot of events and random nights at bars to find dates.

I am curious about what has happened with this female lawyer's in-person approaches.

I've seen it in person when we all go out. But if the guy isn't tall, handsome and obviously dripping in cash they can be downright cruel to them for even making the effort. They probably aren't that bad in other ways but when it comes to men they are very out of touch with reality.

There are plenty of women who do this, not just yuppies with advanced degrees and high pressure white collar careers.

Plenty of women with more basic jobs and bachelor's degrees with mediocre GPAs from state universities do this too.

 

[Bokanovsky]

This story illustrates one of the great delusions of the female mind. Women think that their career is a huge boost for their SMV, while in reality it is usually a neutral or even a negative factor.

 

[SW15]

Women think that their career is a huge boost for their SMV, while in reality it usually a neutral or even negative factor.

This is accurate.

I think men appreciate when a woman has a job and can support herself. That's the extent of it. A woman can get a job that's good enough to support themselves with a sensible trade certification or at most a bachelor's degree from a state university with a mediocre GPA. All men want out of a woman's career is a basic, 40 hour a week job that's just enough to keep her being homeless and hungry and can allow her to buy cosmetics. In some cases, that might even be possible with a high school diploma.

Women with advanced degrees and high pressure jobs are negative factors in the SMV world. In most of these cases, she won't have enough time to develop a relationship and there will often be attitude/personality problems. @Barrister knows this because he once had a female lawyer girlfriend.

 

[pipeman84]

Yeah, she's masculine, chunky, entitled, too old when considering she wants men in the 27-40yrs old range. So theoretically she won't find what she's looking for. Future cat lady, right? But then, how do you explain former pornstars that are about her age who got married and had children? There are so many in this situation that I lost count, so my conclusion is that reality is much more complex than what logic and common sense would dictate.

 

[SW15]

she wants men in the 27-40yrs old range.

She's 35. I can't imagine a younger man being interested but she could get some possible interest from a 36-40 year old vagina beggar. Most men in their 30s will settle for a mediocre woman close to their own age.

how do you explain former pornstars that are about her age who got married and had children?

Some of those former porn stars are physically attractive.

 

[Barrister]

This is accurate.

I think men appreciate when a woman has a job and can support herself. That's the extent of it. A woman can get a job that's good enough to support themselves with a sensible trade certification or at most a bachelor's degree from a state university with a mediocre GPA. All men want out of a woman's career is a basic, 40 hour a week job that's just enough to keep her being homeless and hungry and can allow her to buy cosmetics. In some cases, that might even be possible with a high school diploma.

Women with advanced degrees and high pressure jobs are negative factors in the SMV world. In most of these cases, she won't have enough time to develop a relationship and there will often be attitude/personality problems. @Barrister knows this because he once had a female lawyer girlfriend.

My ex who was an attorney was "hot" IMO -- HB 8 category (which most female attorneys are not -- usually sub HB 6). Her personality though, was a net negative. She was easily the most "masculine" LTR I had been with in terms of personality -- very direct and frame wars were common. She looked good and loved sex though, and that made me forgive a lot of things and stay way longer than I should have.

 

[SW15]

My ex who was an attorney was "hot" IMO -- HB 8 category (which most female attorneys are not -- usually sub HB 6). Her personality though, was a net negative. She was easily the most "masculine" LTR I had been with in terms of personality -- very direct and frame wars were common. She looked good and loved sex though, and that made me forgive a lot of things and stay way longer than I should have.

It was an accomplishment for you to date a woman who was 8+ in looks and liked sex. The downside was her lawyer occupation. I think her more "masculine" type attributes are common for female lawyers and females with middle to upper management business careers. The frame wars are also likely common in these relationships where high powered career women are present.

It's an important point that most female attorneys are not 8+ in looks. Most female attorneys are 4-5.9 in looks. They are very average looking, like the corporate litigator we are discussing in this thread.

 

[Bokanovsky]

She's 35. I can't imagine a younger man being interested but she could get some possible interest from a 36-40 year old vagina beggar. Most men in their 30s will settle for a mediocre woman close to their own age.

Well, there's this guy:

https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/stuck-on-oneitis-hard.278623/

Don't know how he stacks up with respect to her other requirements though.

 

[Gamisch]

The 35 year old lawyer in the original post mentioned that she wasn't getting approached in-person all too much.

We don't know where she goes in-person. My sense is that she's not been as active in-person in the last 3+ years. Lockdowns were strict in the Los Angeles area.

She is a Millennial and she might have stunted social skills because technology has been a thing for her during her entire adult life and even going back to her adolescence.

In 1990, a 30-35 year old unattached woman would have had to go out to a lot of events and random nights at bars to find dates.

I am curious about what has happened with this female lawyer's in-person approaches.



There are plenty of women who do this, not just yuppies with advanced degrees and high pressure white collar careers.

Plenty of women with more basic jobs and bachelor's degrees with mediocre GPAs from state universities do this too.

Because the value of an approach went up dramatically ,for both men and women.

What will her week look like? Driving in her car ,trip here and there (already more movement than having a job at one steady place). Maybe she'll be in a grocery store now and then. Then she goes home. Hardly any space for her to even be approached.

Also, she doesn't strike me as an inviting person/woman. That what i meant by the stock of an approach went up; IF I'm risking my..honor or pride or whatever to approach a woman she gotta be my type. My definition of an Hb8+ or a cute or sexy looking 7. Not a masculine looking 6. Those can be met via OLD at best, or at a bar when drunk and due to a lack of better women.


She can go out in the weekend but that is tasking on finances, body and mind. So she won't.

Bottomline, ofcourse such a woman never gets approached. Would you approach her? Exactly.

 

[SW15]

What will her week look like? Driving in her car ,trip here and there (already more movement than having a job at one steady place). Maybe she'll be in a grocery store now and then. Then she goes home. Hardly any space for her to even be approached.

Also, she doesn't strike me as an inviting person/woman. That what i meant by the stock of an approach went up; IF I'm risking my..honor or pride or whatever to approach a woman she gotta be my type. My definition of an Hb8+ or a cute or sexy looking 7. Not a masculine looking 6. Those can be met via OLD at best, or at a bar when drunk and due to a lack of better women.

She can go out in the weekend but that is tasking on finances, body and mind. So she won't.

As a lawyer, she's probably worked more at home in recent years. If she goes to an office building, she might get approached every so often by a horny guy in her office building. I have been that horny guy approaching women in other companies in the buildings where I've worked over the years.

She probably shows up in the mall and grocery store. In those situations, there are probably some horny guys too.

I doubt she gets approached when she goes to a courtroom for litigation.

I have no idea how much she goes out to bars for happy hours, late nights on weekends, or on Friday and Saturday nights. If she's complaining about a lack of approaches, she's probably not going to bars enough. She's also likely not playing in a co-ed sports league. At 5'10" and living in Los Angeles, she could be playing sand volleyball on the beaches and meeting men. Many women in the 5'9"-6'2" range like to play sand volleyball. I don't sense she's even doing that.

Bottomline, ofcourse such a woman never gets approached. Would you approach her? Exactly.

I would not be likely to approach her. She doesn't seem to be an appealing prospect for an approach. I don't think @nicksaiz65 and @Jesse Pinkman would approach her either and they are bigger volume approachers than most men.