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Master Don Juan
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On jealousy: I have done some reading. Twice in three days my girl was hit on via direct challenges to me. If you know me at all by now you realize how much that I didn’t appreciate it. The first was a guy she worked with that looked like he was on methadone and that was no issue at all. When we got back to her place 30 minutes the second we walked in the door she dropped to her knees without a word, I gave her an orgasm against the wall from behind in that position lifted off the ground. Enough said.
At this wedding Saturday it was different. I am 38 and like her, the best man was 33, highly charismatic and very good looking. He has known her 15 years and he has a long history of cheating on his girl he’s been stringing along the better part of a decade so in the absence of a better idea and given the situation and my role in it, I watched him get super bro friend handsy with her over the course of four hours. When she didn’t fvck me that night and wanted to go back to the after after party I went to 10 internally. I didn’t talk to her for hours the following morning. She slept in the other bed. I finally brought the secs issue up but not the jealousy issue. We addressed the secs issue and i proceeded to give her four orgasms and got two knuckles deep in her butt with my middle finger so you’d figure I’m good. But it wasn’t sitting right with me. In my mind for all I know she’s envisioning that guy and so I see him at breakfast and he and she hug, and he looks down and away and now all doubt is over, she may not have cheated but he absolutely affronted me and so I drive her home for two hours and we touch on the night in general one more time but I never raise the jealousy issue. Sat with it overnight, called my boy and he said I need to address in the moment with her next time -if I am serious about her- .
So here is where I am at. A man doesn’t tolerate another man disrespecting him. If you’d read the laws of power you know that your reputation is everything. But you also say less than necessary, and you court attention at all costs. Conceal your intentions, be the courtier, surrender to fight another day, keep them depending on you, ignore what you can’t have, be formless, master timing, let them come to you, ignore argument and win with action, us absence, strike the shepherd and crush your enemy totally.
Those all apply and so here’s what we are going to do.
Before we went to this wedding she gave me the key to her apartment and she then posted a picture on Instagram of us which is the second most liked one she has short of running a marathon. So I have a lot of leverage.
I am going to let her call me later towards the end of the day, and I am simply going to let her know that his behavior was a direct affront to me, repeat everything she told me and just tell her that if it ever happens again regardless of situation, I am going to crack whoever it may be in the head and she should determine if that’s something that is going to work for her or not.
At this wedding Saturday it was different. I am 38 and like her, the best man was 33, highly charismatic and very good looking. He has known her 15 years and he has a long history of cheating on his girl he’s been stringing along the better part of a decade so in the absence of a better idea and given the situation and my role in it, I watched him get super bro friend handsy with her over the course of four hours. When she didn’t fvck me that night and wanted to go back to the after after party I went to 10 internally. I didn’t talk to her for hours the following morning. She slept in the other bed. I finally brought the secs issue up but not the jealousy issue. We addressed the secs issue and i proceeded to give her four orgasms and got two knuckles deep in her butt with my middle finger so you’d figure I’m good. But it wasn’t sitting right with me. In my mind for all I know she’s envisioning that guy and so I see him at breakfast and he and she hug, and he looks down and away and now all doubt is over, she may not have cheated but he absolutely affronted me and so I drive her home for two hours and we touch on the night in general one more time but I never raise the jealousy issue. Sat with it overnight, called my boy and he said I need to address in the moment with her next time -if I am serious about her- .
So here is where I am at. A man doesn’t tolerate another man disrespecting him. If you’d read the laws of power you know that your reputation is everything. But you also say less than necessary, and you court attention at all costs. Conceal your intentions, be the courtier, surrender to fight another day, keep them depending on you, ignore what you can’t have, be formless, master timing, let them come to you, ignore argument and win with action, us absence, strike the shepherd and crush your enemy totally.
Those all apply and so here’s what we are going to do.
Before we went to this wedding she gave me the key to her apartment and she then posted a picture on Instagram of us which is the second most liked one she has short of running a marathon. So I have a lot of leverage.
I am going to let her call me later towards the end of the day, and I am simply going to let her know that his behavior was a direct affront to me, repeat everything she told me and just tell her that if it ever happens again regardless of situation, I am going to crack whoever it may be in the head and she should determine if that’s something that is going to work for her or not.