Hell yeah. Women are actually LONGING for real life encounters. That's what I keep hearing from most women I've dated in recent years. The fact I've somehow approached them made it all more worthy to them. And tbh, that always surprised me.
In our mind being a woman on old is like absolute paradise . You can swipe critically and be really reluctant to ever swipe right, and yet every swipe right is a match. But there's a catch..even though it seems this easy many women complain about the outcome of these dates . Why this is ? I dont know ,could be so many reasons. Maybe its the women and their choices, maybe the quality of men is also shyte .
Just the fact that men complain and that so many men DON'T date despite having the ability to present themselves to literally every woman in the world is telling. No ying without yang, so if men are unhappy that means there are equally as much women unhappy. There will always be a few exceptions. There will always be a dude married to his childhood love and having 5 kids with her. But he won't be on sosuave .
There isn't much data to either confirm or refute this statement. I've tried at times to figure this out. Maybe someone else can figure it out.
I believe there are some singles that a man can approach in public that wouldn't be app users.
Yes, there is overlap between app users and random singles men approach in public. The amount of overlap is unknown but I doubt the overlap is 95%.
This also depends on personal experience obviously. Like
@Bigpapa stated, I've also managed to get much better results in real life than via OLD. I'm not using it now because recently the results where not too positive. Even if the woman was good looking, there were always huge redflags that immediately came up to the surface.
Look, lets admit we also have our preferences. And most of the times this is around hb8. Then she also has to behave and communicate on a certain level, and lastly she must be attracted to you fully so its easy to date her. Oh i forgot delete the app asap after she met me.I. o.w: a dimepiece.
If a man has lower expectations from women his experience might be better. I've ditched plenty of 6,s after one date, perhaps sex.
That being said, it does seem like there's a reward for the man who steps up to women vs the men who rather meets women through OLD. Somehow we rarely hear a man say that both work just as well.
Women are still open to meeting men outside online apps. They still look at you in the gym, coffee shop, bar, park, etc. But their price is much higher nowadays. Don’t expect women to make the first move. Or even give you a blatant sign. It would be more like a subtle sign and you have to break the ice.
It’s harder for sure but for the men brave enough to break the ice with women giving out subtle signs, he will get the most pvssy.
Im not even saying this is fair, I’m just saying this is the state of dating in 2023. Men have to work a lot harder than 10 years ago.
Of course I am assuming you are a good looking and fit guy like myself. I can’t imagine how much harder it is for average looking guys. It’s harder for me now than it was 10 years ago but I still get subtle signs.
I love this mentality.
