I'm going to lean towards the 2 pm date since it is Post lunch. Meet at a place where alcohol ****tails are served. Use the first drink time frame as a time to find out what she's looking for. If you get any red flags then come up with a time constraint and bail.
If she is showing you green flags: is touchy, affectionate, hooked on you, then you can do another round and propose a venue change. Perhaps there is a cool nature trail for a walk, waterfall, duck pond, beach, city view, etc. I like something physical like walking to stir up the endorphins. If it is now, the sunset is earlier, and a picnic blanket and a bottle of wine and some cheese and crackers might be a good activity if the weather is nice. Or maybe you are cold and wet and want to warm up by your fire at your place around the corner....YOu have to go feed and walk your dog too. See where I'm going here?
Of course you have a pork tenderloin (that you got on sale weeks ago for just this occasion) thawed out for dinner and some easy baby potatoes...Quick salad and another bottle of wine. Well you might as well spend the night... In her subconscious mind she just had 3 dates with you. Assuming of course that you clicked with her. You also had 3 chances to eject if she showed you too many red flags.