My brother proves most of the advice on here wrong

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I act agree w/u sarge, some guys at my uni who ppl on here would consider, idk. "soyboys" nd who r woke/act like beta cucks get mad game, the chicks dig that. They look effeminate too. Im not changing my beliefs to cater to a wmn but its just an obsv I noticed.

 

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I’m just wondering what the X factor is
Maybe you guys give off different vibes. Dont overthink it, just be happy for him but you keep trying different stuff and figure out what works best for you.
 

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I act agree w/u sarge, some guys at my uni who ppl on here would consider, idk. "soyboys" nd who r woke/act like beta cucks get mad game, the chicks dig that. They look effeminate too. Im not changing my beliefs to cater to a wmn but its just an obsv I noticed.
Yes same. I’m not changing my core but if it’s a simple tweak like hunching over for example, I can change
 

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Your brother looks young for 30, maybe he's going after younger women but has the experience. That's my guess.

Is he a smooth talker?
 

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Your brother looks young for 30, maybe he's going after younger women but has the experience. That's my guess.

Is he a smooth talker?
That picture is from a few years ago. He’s definitely a funny guy, I think everyone likes being around him for that alone
 

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Yes same. I’m not changing my core but if it’s a simple tweak like hunching over for example, I can change
well ig I can give u an example. This one dude who pulls like no tmrow.he is not that tall and hes a stick, like ur brother. his nails are painted black nd hes got literallly earring (not just studs) and rings on his fingers.wears eyeliner. in his ig bio it says they/he.he literally has chicks all over him

most hot young chicks where im from are woke AF. I brought up a differing opinion ONCE in a social setting nd these gals.they gave me the look of utmost disgust nd looked at me like I was a social pariah.so yea if u want to pull em never mention those kinda topics.
 

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here are the details I’m leaving out: I’m taller, make more money, have a car, am not a mommas boy, am lean but muscular (vs him at least) and yet side by side he’s the one who gets attention when we go out. I’m just wondering what the X factor is since I’m actively learning game since 2012 yet he doesn’t and violates every rule I’m reading on here yet he’s the one who gets it all. It’s so weird
In the photo, the guy with no facial hair has boyish cuteness - he looks younger than his age. I think his disorganized hair actually helps with his younger look, and I'd guess he uses that to go after college age girls.

The facial hair of the other guy (you?) confuses me. The term "neckbeard" refers to hair attached to the neck - what do you think of cleaning that up? Maybe sideburns could be trimmed as well. Would you agree those changes give you a neater appearance?

When I've had a goatee, I've kept the sides trimmed in a striaght line so it looks neat. You could do that, or choose a clean shaven look (no goatee, no neckbeard, no sideburns). I'd suggest you try something different with facial hair, which you can always grow back later, to see if that helps you compete with your friend.
 

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They have arcades in 2023?

What man can date hot girls, let alone pay for rent and food and clothes working at an arcade?

What hot women will pick up a guy in her car at his house, go out and pay for him, drive him to her place or his place, sleep with him, then drive him back or drive back herself?

This sounds like OP can’t get women using the advice given so he’s trying to disprove it by coming up with a fake story.
 

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Your brother is the exception to the rule. I dont understand why you use him to "debunk" over 20 years of theory and practice.

These are the types when they do fallback, they might have a hard time getting back into the game.
 

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The term "neckbeard" refers to hair attached to the neck - what do you think of cleaning that up? Maybe sideburns could be trimmed as well.
To be fair to Sarge, that's not his most flattering pic.... Sarge, post the pic of you at the work event at the table...
 

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So tonight my bro is out getting laid again. Judging by his past girls she’s prolly hot.
my brother is: Short (less than 5’11”), skinny (like Auschwich skinny), 30 years old and works at an arcade for the last 10 years, no car, woke as fvck, liberal, mommas boy

and yet… so yeah. Just thought I’d share

For all we know, his last girl might have been a woke single mom landwhale, missing teeth.

So the question is...... what women does he attract?

@your picture, id cut back on the hair....everywhere except on top.
 

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In the photo, the guy with no facial hair has boyish cuteness - he looks younger than his age. I think his disorganized hair actually helps with his younger look, and I'd guess he uses that to go after college age girls.

The facial hair of the other guy (you?) confuses me. The term "neckbeard" refers to hair attached to the neck - what do you think of cleaning that up? Maybe sideburns could be trimmed as well. Would you agree those changes give you a neater appearance?

When I've had a goatee, I've kept the sides trimmed in a striaght line so it looks neat. You could do that, or choose a clean shaven look (no goatee, no neckbeard, no sideburns). I'd suggest you try something different with facial hair, which you can always grow back later, to see if that helps you compete with your friend.
So like I said that picture is from a few years ago. My hair is much longer in top now with the sides buzzed to a 2 setting in the summer months.

I did do the whole”shave neck” clean look for a few years as you describe but had no difference in ability to pull.
As for my facial hair, if I go clean shaven I will literally look 15 years younger, if not more. I have a baby face without the beard it’s the weirdest thing. With the beard I look edgy, without it, you’d swear I’m still in junior high
For all we know, his last girl might have been a woke single mom landwhale, missing teeth.

So the question is...... what women does he attract?

@your picture, id cut back on the hair....everywhere except on top.
I already said he attracts hotties. As for my facial hair, see my above comment
 

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Good for him but your take on this place is dead wrong. This is not a money gets you woman place or any extreme at that.
The vets here know game is top of the list among others. I do notice a lot of self defeatist here that just come here to lament their hot takes.
The thing about game and frame. A relationship is essential to refine it.
I talk about game in my situation and people tell me to focus on money until I am 40 years old and can only date 40+ year old women.
 

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Sometimes women **** their gay friends.

Your bro looks like a friendly guy. I wouldnt class that as game. Your just saying he bangs hotties, did he ever have an ltr with a hottie or alpha widow anyone? Then we know he has Game. If not then he is just getting laid due to effeminate qualities that allow him to get close to women and they can basically not feel judged etc due to his own effeminate and friendly nature.

Some men are born with effeminate tendencies that can allow them to get close to women and in the right circumstances profit from it. In this case it is like when women sleep with their gay male friends.
 
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