I am not sure who you are and don't care however your friend sarnant also became a member of loveshack.org (LS) after she was banned from SS and was quickly banned from LS for being a fraud. She posted some very negative shyt about the men here and their opinions and was also caught in many MANY contradictions.
I have nothing against her personally except I don't trust her and I don't believe she is nearly as "innocent" and naïve as you believe her to be. JMO but please know I am highly intuitive and perceptive, more than most but won't get into that.
I am not accusing you of anything but I am suspecting YOU may be her posing as a man; I don't care I am just saying it's a mistake to fully trust anything anyone tells you on the internet.
I just deactivated my account on loveshack.org, I do not trust that place at all!
Here, I have learned who to trust and who not to. It takes a while and agree with
@Pierce.Manhammer try dialing it back it bit.
I am female and originally came here as catsmeow to learn. I left and returned as
@catsmeow2 to share my perspective as I find this forum to be one of the most fair with a wide variety of opinions and advice among members.
Don't abuse the privilege. Good luck.