Porn is not unrealistic and NoFap is not a cure.

[Divorced w 3]

If you have more positions then you can't afford to waste it. I mean if you have the real thing in abundance then why would you develop habits for the fake things? When I was young, I do not think porn or escort pics was helpful in any way and should have been avoided.



You have less to lose in real life since the is less or not much opportunity esp. with the dating apps. Even if there wasn't porn it would be less motivation anyway today.

My T levels just got tested. I am 38 mind yoi. Thought something was off. I just came in over range, 1040, which is a mid to high 20’s reading. The labcorp result had one of those little warnings. My LH is also above range. So what else could possibly be the verdict?

 

[Modern Man Advice]

You mean a mother teaching her daughter how to f**k a man while she herself joins in the action is not realistic? Man, I must be getting the wrong kind of sex and missing out. Hmmm

Also, NoFap has never been labeled a "cure". It is a practice. Do more research on the topic.

 

[corrector]

If the fapping was so detrimental, why is there no campaigning for dildo/vibrator abstinence month for women? Men’s sexuality is the only one that is looked upon as bad. Anything that makes women get off their asses and into the gym and have an ounce of accountability is a problem.

It's men that are promotion nofap rather than women as part of a branch of self-improvement. Guys on here promote this to find the motivation to do approaches and to make moves they would not otherwise made if they are satiated in their minds and had a release. It is supposed to provide focus to channel their energy. It is not fair, but red-pill advice is for guys to self-improve in order to up their tier or % status in the dating market because that makes cold-approach and OLD more effective the more you invest with yourself, whereas women don't really need to do anything.

So nofap that has nothing to do with feminism or women pushing no-fap. Frankly I don't think they care other than it keeps normies and sub-5s away from approaching them. If any of them do care, then it's more in the context of other issues, like sex-dolls, travelling to other countries, using prostitutes, fleshlights, etc.... but not your hands looking at some pics where nobody is being exploited.

 

[HaleyBaron]

You mean a mother teaching her daughter how to f**k a man while she herself joins in the action is not realistic? Man, I must be getting the wrong kind of sex and missing out. Hmmm

Also, NoFap has never been labeled a "cure". It is a practice. Do more research on the topic.

I was referring to the more basic parts of porn. However, scenarios in porn is just fantasy examples of the three points I made. For instance, the scenario you just point out, a man often may find both the mother and her daughter hot, and would like to have both of them even though he may be in a situation where he only has one of them. So even though it doesn't happen often, it has happened. Too many real life stories of men cheating on their mother's daughter, or the daughter's mother. It does happen, but I'm not saying it expected. Many scenarios are fantasy.

Another popular fantasy in porn is the woman in a robe naked beneath waiting for some kind of service or delivery man to show up, then ****ing the hot busty woman. In real life, most women that do this are not very good looking or average or bored housewives. This scenario actually does happen a lot. Anyone who has done delivery probably had stories of yourself or someone else coming to someone's house and they either answer naked or they are in one layer of cloth. And of course they have an entire reddit dedicated to flashing delivery guys. Yes, I found this out months ago and was just as surprised. Women are hilariously just as fantastical as men.

I exhibited NoFap as a practice that men take to cure. But that practice is not labeled NoFap. It's wrongly termed.

 

[derby1]

I tried two different approaches.

at the tail end of last month around the 20th I abstained from everything, I noticed my drive and passion go through the roof around the 28th, on the last day of the month I f*cked a decent looking chic, and my drive etc was still present on the 1st of Feb. I FELT GOOD

This drive and motivation increased further and yesterday morning I felt ready to take on the world, last night I fapped. This morning Im a shell of my former self, I cba to do much and I feel like a fog is over my life, all of my comebacks and charisma are lacking, usually they are instant and on tap.

Fapping destroys masculinity, turns me into a complete dull loser, I dont need science to confirm or deny my own observations.

 

[Jor-El]

I dont need science to confirm or deny my own observations.

Cant argue with that

 

[eli77]

Here we go again

 

[LTG71]

It's men that are promotion nofap rather than women as part of a branch of self-improvement. Guys on here promote this to find the motivation to do approaches and to make moves they would not otherwise made if they are satiated in their minds and had a release. It is supposed to provide focus to channel their energy. It is not fair, but red-pill advice is for guys to self-improve in order to up their tier or % status in the dating market because that makes cold-approach and OLD more effective the more you invest with yourself, whereas women don't really need to do anything.

So nofap that has nothing to do with feminism or women pushing no-fap. Frankly I don't think they care other than it keeps normies and sub-5s away from approaching them. If any of them do care, then it's more in the context of other issues, like sex-dolls, travelling to other countries, using prostitutes, fleshlights, etc.... but not your hands looking at some pics where nobody is being exploited.

The motivation is probably “blue balls” as your sex drive goes through the roof because of abstinence. Eventually you’ll wanna fvck anything with a pulse, lol. To each his own.

Here’s a little something for the older crowd. Eventually Prostate health becomes a reality.

How Often Should a Man Ejaculate: 5 Ejaculation Benefits

There's no magic number when it comes to how much you should or shouldn't ejaculate. Ejaculation is linked to lots of health benefits.

gainswave.com

 

[HaleyBaron]

Here’s a little something for the older crowd. Eventually Prostate health becomes a reality.

I would not put too much investment into ejaculation being good for prostate health. That science has been scandalous for a while. Most men get them once they're very old, a time when a lot of other health problems crop up, too. The medical field has been more lax on providing care to men as they have to women. If a doctor is telling you to masturbate more, they're not a doctor. They're a hustler.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Another day of abstinence and another good mood and solid set of hardware. Plans Friday to fvck, go out, and fvck when we get back. Still cannot think of another basis for the extra motivation

 

[LTG71]

I would not put too much investment into ejaculation being good for prostate health. That science has been scandalous for a while. Most men get them once they're very old, a time when a lot of other health problems crop up, too. The medical field has been more lax on providing care to men as they have to women. If a doctor is telling you to masturbate more, they're not a doctor. They're a hustler.

Doctors will most like prescribe medication for your Prostate rather than tell you to masturbate.

 

[corrector]

Doctors will most like prescribe medication for your Prostate rather than tell you to masturbate.

That is because they dont get kickbacks from big pharma. Just like vitamin D is known to prevent diabetes and build immunity but its cheap and not patented so you dont hear it.

 

[MatureDJ]

Why am i jacking off watching other people have sex instead of actually having sex !?! that can't be good for you sub consciously

This is why I like the good ole strip show. As for having a man in the picture, so long as it's only his manhood, I could picture that being my manhood, so it's OK.

 

[MatureDJ]

Doctors will most like prescribe medication for your Prostate rather than tell you to masturbate.

Actually, a urologist will suggest that you regularly ejaculate to clean out the pipes.

 

[corrector]

I have a coworker his wife initiates watching porn to spice things up. Its a tool that some couples actually use to help them.
No fap and the narrative has been a giant grift that has made a bunch of people very rich. There is dark and light in everything

My ex wife did the same thing. However I think the issue is with finding a woman rather than having one. People are supposed to find their motivation to approach and engage with women, etc.... The audience of no fap no porn are primarily singles. Therefore nobody really cares about what couples do.

 

[Smok1nAce]

I think it should be the other way around. Most romantic and social opportunities (non transactional) with young and fertile.women with no kids or baggage happen below 25 wheras above 25 is more of an after market. You would really see the benefit, if any, of nofap when you are in your biological and social prime not afterwards.

Porn is a drug.

Unless your wack it 3 times a day for years or months on end, no fap is simply a psychologically effect of coming of an addiction.

When I was 18 I waked off and F my gf maybe once a day for years as you get older "pride" should kick in and any man who wants to sit around a wack it to porn is deeply in trouble. Its like alcohol the older you get the more it effects you.

If you dont have consistent real P after 30 the last thing you should be doing is watching porn. If your young dumb (25 and younger) and full of *** you fine watching it.


Its like a 18 year old doing cocaine vs a 35 year old. Their is a big differnece on so many levels.

 

[corrector]

Porn is a drug.

Unless your wack it 3 times a day for years or months on end, no fap is simply a psychologically effect of coming of an addiction.

When I was 18 I waked off and F my gf maybe once a day for years as you get older "pride" should kick in and any man who wants to sit around a wack it to porn is deeply in trouble. Its like alcohol the older you get the more it effects you.

If you dont have consistent real P after 30 the last thing you should be doing is watching porn. If your young dumb (25 and younger) and full of *** you fine watching it.


Its like a 18 year old doing cocaine vs a 35 year old. Their is a big differnece on so many levels.

True, the older you get the better tech is to enhance experience. You have affordable mass produced VRs with 360 vids for example vs magazines that you would be asked if you were an adult at the conveniance store back in the day. You dont hear drugs getting more addictive on tech as you get older.

 

[corrector]

Its about the lesson within the story.
Gotta get past the surface level. Nofappers and semen holders are coping for not getting azz. Its really that simple

Good point, its a red pill cope. Point taken.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Sex 5x yesterday and this morning, absolutely a result of nofap.

 

[needimprovement250]

I’ve been a porn addict since I was 12 (now 29) and its been a near daily habit all this time, I no longer have the ability to get it up with real women despite having no issues at all when it comes to watching porn. This addiction has destroyed me in so many ways, I’ve never had a girlfriend or dated anyone as a result of it as well.