I dont understand a few things OP. First thing that isn't clear is what's the role of this guy? Is he your friend? Or your gf's friend? How did this group came together? He seems to have an important role.
And yeah, I agree with 80% of the advice you got. The lesson ,or someting like that you get that you should never fully trust a woman, is a bonus. People get all hostile because some posters might recognize this scenario and warn you, but you'd be a fool to not at least consider their advice for 5%. (C'mon
@Jake_Gyllenhaal69 ,if this happens twice to your gf, by the same guy close to you..how would you respond? I am really curious? ) If my gf told me this happened TWICE , I would be frowning at least. Just like I would when a friend would tell me he got in a fight
twice that day..)In my circle his actions could be a serious problem.
But oke, if you believe your gf is trustworthy, I'll take your word on it. That's imo not the issue.
Back to the guy. I also wonder how it's possible that multiple women said he made them uncomfortable but yet nobody did anything about it. Seriously . My first thought was just kick him TF out of the group. If he's a
close friend just ask him to back off. It obviously and understandably bothers you. What's gonna be your next move from here on OP?
.