Should I completely cut this "mutual" friend out of my life?

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

You are like every guy that thinks like this.
You go right to the extremes. Have you ever heard of subcommunication?
You are the guy that drops his radar at the wrong times.
Thing 007. Its covert. Its fight club.
Its the way.
When your frame is intune you see right into the future of the outcome of OPs situation.
We all read your posts Jake.
Your take is 100% wrong but tgen again you cant know that were your at. Need more experience

And yeah, I agree with 80% of the advice you got. The lesson ,or someting like that you get that you should never fully trust a woman, is a bonus. People get all hostile because some posters might recognize this scenario and warn you, but you'd be a fool to not at least consider their advice for 5%. (C'mon @Jake_Gyllenhaal69 ,if this happens twice to your gf, by the same guy close to you..how would you respond? I am really curious? ) If my gf told me this happened TWICE , I would be frowning at least. Just like I would when a friend would tell me he got in a fight twice that day..)In my circle his actions could be a serious problem.

I feel like people just read one part of my posts and ignore the rest. I have stated that OP is screwed in this situation because of his circumstances with his social circle and OP has even disagreed with me on that point. This is OP's GF, not some plate or girl he is trying to game. When your GF that you are on good terms with tells you that your friend slapped her arse, you go and confront the friend, not put your GF under an intense cross examination because Hannah from Freshman Year HS cheated on you and broke your precious heart. There's nothing on OP's post other than bringing her around his social group (normal to most people) that tells me to question her motives.

I made a breakup topic similar to OP's situation in where my ex claimed she got sexually assaulted. I did not believe her because our relationship was on thin ice at the time and her actions did not reflect someone that had just been sexually assaulted. So yes, I do have experience in this department, and I do have the ability to make a reflective decision rather than an absolute judgement based on vindictiveness and trauma.

 

[Rainman4707]

He wants to fu*k her. He is totally disrespecting you. I glad your gf told you about it.

I hate those snakey, tactile fayckas that do **** behind your back.

Unfortunatley i can see only one option. You have to confront his man. Tell him...."dont slap my girls ass again" if he tries any excuses......you have to tell him straight....."do it again....and i'll kill you"
Anything else and your girl will see you as weak.

Unfortunatley this is one of the downsides of having a girl....you could end up in jail....fighting to show your dominance