I am really that ugly?

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I don't believe the poster is a female. I find it hard to believe a woman who get's IOI's regularly from men would seek out a site like this, and write like it's OVER for "her". I've seen the abundance subpar women have. Let alone one that gets regular IOIs.... Why would a woman who has abundance seek out a site and feel defeated over one guy that didn't make a move?
 

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I can relate to what you’re feeling, I thought the Forum purpose was meant for mens questions and getting personal advice from other men, not for incessantly posting news articles about what most men may never personally experience …
It’s OVER for incessantlypostingnewsarticleCELS
 

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For the assembled that are newish:

We had something similar happen with another poster a while back, pretty sure it was a female, but she was trolling something fierce and a hard boiled in the wool BPD case. As they say don’t feed it.
 

Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

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I don't believe the poster is a female. I find it hard to believe a woman who get's IOI's regularly from men would seek out a site like this, and write like it's OVER for "her". I've seen the abundance subpar women have. Let alone one that gets regular IOIs.... Why would a woman who has abundance seek out a site and feel defeated over one guy that didn't make a move?

Trust me, low self-esteem apparently "does wonders" to make people even think you're a troll, which surprised me a lot.

Apparently I really got into the wrong forum, now I realize it's geared towards men. But anyways, thank you for the helpful advice I got from some of you here :)

Икона „Потвърдено от общността“
 

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For the assembled that are newish:

We had something similar happen with another poster a while back, pretty sure it was a female, but she was trolling something fierce and a hard boiled in the wool BPD case. As they say don’t feed it.
She is definitely a girl and definitely 18 I confirmed, just misguided.

Some very questionable posters on this forum slid into her DMs also which is no surprise.
 

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I don't believe the poster is a female. I find it hard to believe a woman who get's IOI's regularly from men would seek out a site like this, and write like it's OVER for "her". I've seen the abundance subpar women have. Let alone one that gets regular IOIs.... Why would a woman who has abundance seek out a site and feel defeated over one guy that didn't make a move?
You underestimate the innate insecurity of women.
 

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She is definitely a girl and definitely 18 I confirmed, just misguided.

Some very questionable posters on this forum slid into her DMs also which is no surprise.
She slid into mine, pics and all, she was not ok in da noggin.
 

Channel your excited feelings into positive thoughts and behaviors. You will attract women by being enthusiastic, radiating energy, and becoming someone who is fun to be around.

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I am slightly anxious when it comes to communicating with men. The reason for this is that I consider myself not beautiful enough and even ugly sometimes, although I have often received attention from men.

However, something happened recently that made me a complete mess. I went to a party where one of the boys repeatedly initiated conversations with me. I noticed how he was often looking at me, one time even staring at me continuously, and even smiling at me. I also talked to him, smiling and trying my best to show that I was interested too.

Then, just when my insecure mind decided that maybe there is a slim chance that he liked me, I was left shocked. Suddenly, he asked me and my girlfriend for advice about some girl he met recently and liked, but she ghosted him.

Since he told us that he realized it wasn't worth it and got over her, I decided to keep communicating with him, hoping that we would at least exchange contacts in the end since we would never see each other again. But that didn't happen and we all left.

So, I welcomed the New Year with a shattered peace of mind, very confused, miserable, and convinced more than ever that apparently I'm not pretty enough or even ugly once he didn't do anything more. I know how he was looking at me, it was definitely not accidental eye contact, he was staring at me repeatedly and consistently. And he began initiating conversations. Am I really that delusional and if there is any chance he really liked me? But if he had, why didn't he want anything more?
Show us a photo and we'll tell you how ugly you are. Actually, if you're ever in the area, I can provide this service for free. If you come on Wednesday, it comes with a complementary pie in the face because I'm also a part-time clown.
 

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My apologies to the OP. I'm not sure what possessed me to write what I did, but now I'm feeling disturbed. In the course of one week, I would say two ugly lady cashiers have been very friendly with me, and one of them handed their name and phone number, and I did not have the stomach to say that I was not interested after all the pity-party posts I have made on here and accepted her name and number. Now I'm in a state of shock. I think its because I hit a lever by writing that post, so I'm going to stop this and take back what I said.

I hope you find what you are looking for OP, if you are not a troll and serious. All I want is a nice and peaceful life without having to reject women I'm not interested in because that doesn't feel nice to be the one doing any rejecting or passing up clearly interested women. It makes me feel like a hypocrite. I like to think that I'm better than having to do that or ever being in such a situation and like I'm incel-protected.
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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Sad that people who rail against simps were simping themselves! Come on lads,very poor
 
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I heard from a few men privately that she sent her pics to several. Fake pics, with big boobs, voluptuous bod, not the pics she posted publicly on the forum.

She was definitely eating up the validation; I won't name names but she had one man going literally ga-ga over her, claiming she said she wanted and was planning to fly to meet him etc. I told him she was full of shyt, her pics weren't real (he sent them to me), but he wasn't buying it.

She messaged me too and wanted her ban lifted. Was after me to DM Admin about it. I did once to no avail.

After reading this now though, I am glad they did not lift it, what a bunch of bullcrap, geez!!
@catsmeow2, I respect that you sought to protect my reputation, but it was unnecessary. I am no coward to defending foolish accusations against me forthrightly and directly. I fear nothing people try to shame me with, even when they imply I'm a fool and a sucker. Wise men know better than to get triggered by those too ignorant to gain the facts before drawing their conclusions and then proclaiming them.

But you are wrong about @sarnant! She is exactly who she says she is. She is a total sweetheart with the body of a stripper, and it's all natural too; no artificial enhancements. Another member here knows it too, beyond a shadow of a doubt. And I know this 100%, but apparently you don't, and that's okay. Doubting, jealous Thomases are a reality, and I judge them not for their laziness and ignorance to actually investigate before drawing their conclusions. But @sarnant is exactly the woman the majority of guys here are here to learn how to get; she embodies the very reason this forum exists.

You can doubt me all you want and continue to call me a fool and a sucker, but that doesn't mean I'm the one in the dark. The proof will come, if the both of us care enough to make our case by the time I'm unbanned.
 

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@catsmeow2, I respect that you sought to protect my reputation, but it was unnecessary. I am no coward to defending foolish accusations against me forthrightly and directly. I fear nothing people try to shame me with, even when they imply I'm a fool and a sucker. Wise men know better than to get triggered by those too ignorant to gain the facts before drawing their conclusions and then proclaiming them.

But you are wrong about @sarnant! She is exactly who she says she is. She is a total sweetheart with the body of a stripper, and it's all natural too; no artificial enhancements. Another member here knows it too, beyond a shadow of a doubt. And I know this 100%, but apparently you don't, and that's okay. Doubting, jealous Thomases are a reality, and I judge them not for their laziness and ignorance to actually investigate before drawing their conclusions. But @sarnant is exactly the woman the majority of guys here are here to learn how to get; she embodies the very reason this forum exists.

You can doubt me all you want and continue to call me a fool and a sucker, but that doesn't mean I'm the one in the dark. The proof will come, if the both of us care enough to make our case by the time I'm unbanned.
Hmm you sound like a man talking from some type of orbit...

I cant blame you though, she is indeed kinda hot, and she is the chicken who jumped into the lion's den. There will eventually be one lion who can't resist the temptation. I bet Catz can tell you a thing or two about that..

"The woman the majority of guys here are here to learn how to get; she embodies the very reason this forum exists."

Kinda true. Most of us chase crazy women that seem to have ulterior motives. She did show us several sides of herself though...I doubt if she has potential to be a submissive wifey. Too much feminism inside of her..
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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